Post by canadiankid on Feb 2, 2011 23:08:38 GMT -5
When you go to a party or hang out, you want to be the man. You want to be the alpha, the attractive guy the girls are hanging off of while cracking jokes with your boys. Your probably thinking you've heard this before, but how do you go about this? There are many ways, but this is mine. I'm a laid back alpha having a good time, and your welcome to join me and my crew.
Before - Make sure your looking good, good hygiene, all the basics. There are lots of posts on this. Also be prepared, I keep a condom in my wallet and another in the car. Also I have chap stick and gum available.
For instance, I like a pair of jeans and a casual collared shirt with a few buttons undone, and maybe the sleeves rolled up depending on the time of year.
When You Arrive - if at all possible arrive with some style, and with your boys or better yet HBs. Say hi to everyone, give off that fun vibe and be chill. Don't worry about running game, just play some pool, start a drinking game, tell an interesting story. Essentially you want to DHV.
Example: Last night I walked into an average party for my area, about 30 people and pretty chill. I was DDing and had brought my good friend whose an HB 8 (I had a let's be friends talk with her, but she still secretly loves me lol) There was nobody in the way of an AMOG that could challenge me fir top spot and only 4 girls that were at least HB 8s (weak but not my normal social circle cause I'm trying to branch out). I said hello to everybody, established my dominance over the guys with pats on the back and just general good body language. Afterwards I began playing pool with my one good buddy who was there (He has a long term gf). I was talking everyone up, having a good time and giving off good vibes. We had everybody gathered around.
Taking Control - so you do some form of DHV, and your circle is expanding. You are in control at this point if you've done it right. This does two things for you. A) creates buzz, at the party and at school B) gives you pre selection (dominant alpha male and social proof, girls get wet over this shit) and targets in that circle. What I like to do at this point is have my buddies and I lead a group of HBs to somewhere like couches to sit down and have a drink. You now have a couple options: game these girls as you have huge attraction and preselection or you can use them as pivots.
Example: last night it was me and one buddy, 4 HBs at the party. Well after winning at some pool(billiards) I brought my friend HB and her friend to a couch. I got some great kino in, laid down across them, made them laugh, blah blah blah you know how it's done. Anyways neither of them were my actual targets for a personal reason, but there were two other HBs. I got them to come over and chill, although they were both half into other guys. I don't really like the guys they were flirting with so I stole them. I can be a real cock blocking douche to guys I think are tools I just realized as I write this haha. Anyways I game one, even though I want the other cause she's more likely DTF. It was standard game and nothing special because I let all the preselection do the work. It wasn't to tough because I was considered to be in a higher social standing then most of the people there.
Isolating - Don't be that gross fuck that macks on a chick in the middle of the room. NOBODY, I repeat NOBODY thinks this is cool, funny, hot or anything else that could be a good thing. So don't be a tool and isolate that hot bitch. Let all of that pre selection do the work and find an appropriate spot to do your business, or take her to your car if you haven't been drinking.
Example: I was in control of the situation and had already found the guest room previously. So I took the chick I thought would be more DTF by the hand and led her to the room saying "I wanna get to know you better" to stop LMR at the door. (This works great with less experienced girls, Trust me that door WILL cockblock you with a less experienced girl) I take both her hands, triangle gaze and kiss her. She reciprocates, we make out for a while. I pinned her hand against the wall like in the movies, it was hot haha. Went caveman and eventually rubbed her pussy with my leg to make her horny. Anyways that's enough for this
So basically, be alpha and take control. Its like a gravitational field and the bitches will flock to you and you will be having an awesome time!
Before - Make sure your looking good, good hygiene, all the basics. There are lots of posts on this. Also be prepared, I keep a condom in my wallet and another in the car. Also I have chap stick and gum available.
For instance, I like a pair of jeans and a casual collared shirt with a few buttons undone, and maybe the sleeves rolled up depending on the time of year.
When You Arrive - if at all possible arrive with some style, and with your boys or better yet HBs. Say hi to everyone, give off that fun vibe and be chill. Don't worry about running game, just play some pool, start a drinking game, tell an interesting story. Essentially you want to DHV.
Example: Last night I walked into an average party for my area, about 30 people and pretty chill. I was DDing and had brought my good friend whose an HB 8 (I had a let's be friends talk with her, but she still secretly loves me lol) There was nobody in the way of an AMOG that could challenge me fir top spot and only 4 girls that were at least HB 8s (weak but not my normal social circle cause I'm trying to branch out). I said hello to everybody, established my dominance over the guys with pats on the back and just general good body language. Afterwards I began playing pool with my one good buddy who was there (He has a long term gf). I was talking everyone up, having a good time and giving off good vibes. We had everybody gathered around.
Taking Control - so you do some form of DHV, and your circle is expanding. You are in control at this point if you've done it right. This does two things for you. A) creates buzz, at the party and at school B) gives you pre selection (dominant alpha male and social proof, girls get wet over this shit) and targets in that circle. What I like to do at this point is have my buddies and I lead a group of HBs to somewhere like couches to sit down and have a drink. You now have a couple options: game these girls as you have huge attraction and preselection or you can use them as pivots.
Example: last night it was me and one buddy, 4 HBs at the party. Well after winning at some pool(billiards) I brought my friend HB and her friend to a couch. I got some great kino in, laid down across them, made them laugh, blah blah blah you know how it's done. Anyways neither of them were my actual targets for a personal reason, but there were two other HBs. I got them to come over and chill, although they were both half into other guys. I don't really like the guys they were flirting with so I stole them. I can be a real cock blocking douche to guys I think are tools I just realized as I write this haha. Anyways I game one, even though I want the other cause she's more likely DTF. It was standard game and nothing special because I let all the preselection do the work. It wasn't to tough because I was considered to be in a higher social standing then most of the people there.
Isolating - Don't be that gross fuck that macks on a chick in the middle of the room. NOBODY, I repeat NOBODY thinks this is cool, funny, hot or anything else that could be a good thing. So don't be a tool and isolate that hot bitch. Let all of that pre selection do the work and find an appropriate spot to do your business, or take her to your car if you haven't been drinking.
Example: I was in control of the situation and had already found the guest room previously. So I took the chick I thought would be more DTF by the hand and led her to the room saying "I wanna get to know you better" to stop LMR at the door. (This works great with less experienced girls, Trust me that door WILL cockblock you with a less experienced girl) I take both her hands, triangle gaze and kiss her. She reciprocates, we make out for a while. I pinned her hand against the wall like in the movies, it was hot haha. Went caveman and eventually rubbed her pussy with my leg to make her horny. Anyways that's enough for this
So basically, be alpha and take control. Its like a gravitational field and the bitches will flock to you and you will be having an awesome time!