tykenfitz
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Post by tykenfitz on Mar 8, 2011 17:55:00 GMT -5
Ok guys here's the thing I really want to go to a party but I never get invited to them neither do any of my good friends. I have an idea of who the kids are that party but I'm only kinda friends with them. I've been trying to get to be better frinends with em but it's not been easy. Anyway is it cool to show a up to a party that you heard about but arn't like legit invited to?
Also do you guys sneak out to go to a party or tell your parents you're sleeping at a friends house, or what? Cuz my parents aren't cool like that.
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tails
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Post by tails on Mar 8, 2011 21:30:54 GMT -5
I'm generally one of the guys throwing the parties so I can tell you I get a lil ticked off if a guy just comes barges into my party with like 3 dudes. If the guy is cool and brought girls, it's another story, but it's still... a lil weird. One way I once invited a guy I barely knew was when one of my friends were throwing a party. The guy came up to me in the hallway and was like "oh hey dude, you going to Kotaro's party tmo?" and I was like "yah man ofc" and he said "Is it gna be fun? I'm nt too sure if I want to go," and after that I jst told it was gna be a blast and he should go and stuff, so by the time he was at the party I was like introducing him to ppl nd stuff. It didn't occur to me later that he didn't really know the people who were throwing it, but he was a real cool dude so it was fine.
My parents are cool with it, bt often my friends will jst kinda say they are sleeping over at a friends house or having dinner, or going to a birthday party.
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Season
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Post by Season on Mar 20, 2011 14:33:09 GMT -5
just hang out with them and chill out for a little bit. show confidence and ask them something like ''yo i liked hanging out with you what are you guys doing on *date of the party*?'' if you were cool and didn't act like a freak they'll invite you.
for your parents, well they'll get used to it. SHOW THEM THAT THEY HAVE NO CHOICE. i don't know how much more i could emphasize on this. how are you going to get pussy if you can't get out of your own house after 7pm? i'm sure you're saying ''yeah right you don't know my parents'', well believe me they're all the same. show them that you're a big boy. come back home at 9pm for the first week, then 9.30pm, then 10pm, etc. same thing for sleeping over at a friend's house : tell them that EVERYBODY sleeps there, that your friend's parents don't care, that there won't be any problem, then clearly say that you don't want to come home tonight.
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sling
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Post by sling on Mar 25, 2011 0:17:06 GMT -5
If you show up uninvited that could end in disaster. I've thrown parties before and having 4 dudes show up who I kinda know isn't usually enough for me to go ballistic but it does irritate me. Your best bet is to chill with them for a while and then ask them what they're doing on the weekend. IF you gurantee you can bring a couple girls, you'll more than likely get allowed in if you ask.
As for your parents, just tell them you're sleeping over somewhere. Mine haven't really cared cause im honest about it, but a sleepover somewhere is usually enough of a excuse. Just make sure you and your friends are all on the same page with the same story.
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