Post by rocky on Jul 21, 2011 15:41:50 GMT -5
Whats the best way to start socializing with all your friends again, after being a introverted loner for the past couple years?
Im taking baby steps, but i have no idea where to start, where to end up when completed.
Im happy, and i want to start being a better social human being to better myself.
So i have lots of friends, good friends that invite me to partys, but im the kinda guy that just goes threw the world loner status, i rarely have friends over, i do most things by myself, im introverted to hell in some degree, but somehow in all that iv made countless friends that i enjoy being around. really quality girls to.
My problem is, is i cant connect socialy. Like there is a HUGE mental barrier that doesnt allow me to connect, it could be im just flat out intiminating to people, because i walk around with a serious pissed off look to my face, when actuality im the chillest easy going person.
The other night i was at a party, drinkin beers. Hangin around, and i felt this mental barrier struggling me to socialize, only one problem. i cant socialize because the whole party recognized me as a threat. id go into sets and people would just look blank at me, and probley wondering why "who is this odd guy? why is he trying to socialize with me"?
Im friends with all the old top dog highschool doods sence middle school, they all went to the same highschool, while i dropped out a different one. So they have a more solid connection, but they freely and gladly still except me into there little clique, (at one point i told them all they were lowsy bums, and told them to fuck off)
I just vented my thoughts without even knowing about it^^
1st post!
Im taking baby steps, but i have no idea where to start, where to end up when completed.
Im happy, and i want to start being a better social human being to better myself.
So i have lots of friends, good friends that invite me to partys, but im the kinda guy that just goes threw the world loner status, i rarely have friends over, i do most things by myself, im introverted to hell in some degree, but somehow in all that iv made countless friends that i enjoy being around. really quality girls to.
My problem is, is i cant connect socialy. Like there is a HUGE mental barrier that doesnt allow me to connect, it could be im just flat out intiminating to people, because i walk around with a serious pissed off look to my face, when actuality im the chillest easy going person.
The other night i was at a party, drinkin beers. Hangin around, and i felt this mental barrier struggling me to socialize, only one problem. i cant socialize because the whole party recognized me as a threat. id go into sets and people would just look blank at me, and probley wondering why "who is this odd guy? why is he trying to socialize with me"?
Im friends with all the old top dog highschool doods sence middle school, they all went to the same highschool, while i dropped out a different one. So they have a more solid connection, but they freely and gladly still except me into there little clique, (at one point i told them all they were lowsy bums, and told them to fuck off)
I just vented my thoughts without even knowing about it^^
1st post!