RMO
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Post by RMO on Nov 29, 2011 11:48:03 GMT -5
Shit like this makes me thankful for chill parents.
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Amb1valence
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yo dawg
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Post by Amb1valence on Nov 29, 2011 16:42:33 GMT -5
Well danzy it was kind of helpful. It tells me that i needa try everything I can, talking-wise, with my rents before I run off into the night and straight disobey them. But that's what I'll do if they still won't let me do things (they probably won't. so i probably will lol)
But I think for at least this weekend, I'm putting all my social engagements on hold. As soul-crushing as that is for me. Because there's a 4000 word essay due next monday that I haven't even started on, and we got the assignment like last year so I really need to get shit started on that...I would go sleep over at my bro's house this weekend but I really feel like I need to get this done. Fuck i hate school, and IB. Next weekend though......I will reallly get to work on the sleepover thing haha.
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bballphenom
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Post by bballphenom on Nov 30, 2011 12:57:19 GMT -5
Danzy it probably wasn't really helpful for you, cause I wasn't answering your question!
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Nov 30, 2011 13:05:40 GMT -5
^that means nothing. You just spoke about how you don't listen to your parents. This guy's parents are mad strict, if he does that they're going to come down on him hard and make his situation worse
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bballphenom
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Post by bballphenom on Nov 30, 2011 13:15:54 GMT -5
He said hes going to do it anyways, and he asked how are parties go and I was just telling him.
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Amb1valence
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yo dawg
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Post by Amb1valence on Nov 30, 2011 21:16:23 GMT -5
Yeah its all good danzy. One of two things will happen if I make like a bandit and steal off into the night, my rents will either take my car/license away or realize they can't win, and drop most if not all restrictions on me. They can't take my computer/phone/facebook/anything like that away (maybe guitar, but I can live without it) because I use them all for school and they wouldn't dare endanger my success in that. They will without a doubt though, suspend my license and/or take my car away, which will suck but not a whole lot. Because then i'll probably be into the party scene and be getting rides from everyone who already have cars so it's not all bad. Either that'll happen or they'll get all emotional again and be like "well you're this close to adulthood and we can't realistically hold up these restrictions any longer so go do what you want, but please be careful god loves you and we love you yadda yadda"
However I'm gonna dread the actual act of walking out and waiting for that text "where the hell are you" and i'm still not sure how exactly I should go about that. Like making a big hissy fit about how controlling they are one night, and pretending to get pissed and just stomp outside to the car and speed off, and they'd be like oh well he has his reasons for being mad so he's just being a teenager and driving off somewhere. (it happens all the time in movies you know lol) And they wouldn't be mad, they'd just be wondering if they fucked up as parents and like sitting there biting their nails, "honey should we have been so strict about that?" Or should I take the stealth route, doing what I did before sneaking out and sending a text once I'm far away to let them know i'm safe and everything but don't expect me back till later because I need to go off and do my own thing every once in a while. I'm thinking this is not a good idea since it had such disastrous results the last time I tried. any suggestions
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Post by looknlisten on Dec 1, 2011 12:47:45 GMT -5
Speak to them, whoever runs the house, speak to them man to man and tell them you are not happy and that you've never given them a reason to not trust you then tell them to step back. Your taking shit too extreme lengths my man, just remember basic shit, you only live once, time is important. Live around whatever your basic values are whenever you face situations like so. If you know the results then make your own decision, if you don't stop masturbation and find out - if you have to ask you'll never know. For me talk is cheap and all you've done is talk so I just say wait till your legal.
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