bagel
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Post by bagel on Mar 8, 2012 2:58:05 GMT -5
Just wanted to say hi. I'm new to the forum. 15, sophmore, rAFC.
Above average looking. I do track and MMA so I'm rather built. Also very humble. Because of that, I sorta adopted a wrong mentality, letting the chicks approach me, rather than aproach them. Thinking back, I don't think I've ever scored with a girl I initiated conversation with. It's always them who start it. I didn't care either because I still got a fair share of ass. That's until an experience I had entirely changed my life.
A few weeks ago, I went to a party that woke me up. Everyone's talking, grinding, having a good time. I was out there too, but when it came to making conversation with the honeys, I just couldn't do it. I waited like I usually do for someone to approach me. Nobody did. There was a really cute girl dancing by her friends, so I came up behind her and grabbed her hips. We grinded for a while and I tried talking to her up close by her ear. I felt awkward, didn't know what to say. After the song, I kind of awkwardly drifted off. I soon found myself standing in a corner at the back on my phone, googling how to talk to girls, to no avail.
That was rock bottom right there. For the next two weeks, I seriously strived to convince myself that I indeed have balls. I was pretty depressed. I searched the internet for tips, picked up "The Game" by Strauss and slowly worked my way up to being able to approach girls at the mall. I found this forum today and thought it'd be a great place to go for advice and share experiences.
But that's where I'm standing. I thank you if you took the time to read my little essay and any tips would be greatly appreciated.
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Post by canadiankid on Mar 8, 2012 21:02:23 GMT -5
You found the right place dude! Keep looking around and reading articles! The link in my signature has a good link for fresh articles. Feel free to message me any questions!
PS not trying to be rude by any means but are you black or Hispanic? Or from an urban area? I'm just wondering based off the way you speak (I like to analyze that stuff lol)
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bagel
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Post by bagel on Mar 9, 2012 1:41:31 GMT -5
Thanks man, and nope I'm Russian haha, just the way I type I guess.
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Post by canadiankid on Mar 9, 2012 2:11:34 GMT -5
Ah ok, where do you live? The Russian community here in Edmonton is pretty close, the girls are fucking pyscho though haha most are pretty hot lol
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fullbang
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Post by fullbang on Mar 9, 2012 9:25:35 GMT -5
Welcome to the forum, i suppose we all started searching for improvement in the same way Удачи!
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bagel
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Post by bagel on Mar 14, 2012 1:49:07 GMT -5
Thanks fullbang I'm in Cali actually haha. So of course there's all types of chicks here. Love them blondes though
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pyro
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Post by pyro on Mar 14, 2012 8:40:00 GMT -5
You live in Cali? So do I! We should go and game together sometime.
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america
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Fuck Yeah.
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Post by america on Mar 14, 2012 17:12:57 GMT -5
Welcome! Haha... four months on this site completely changed my life. I went from not even kissing a girl to losing my virginity. If you're already getting ass, you're in for a wild time. Haha... well good luck!
Tip #1: Don't think about approaching girls as approaching girls. Just talk to them like you would talk to anyone else if you weren't forcing yourself to try to make conversation with them. And don't care too much. If you blow it with one girl, make your way over to another and try again.
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