Post by Grape on Oct 7, 2008 19:06:25 GMT -5
Written by Swinggcat
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So I'm gonna rewind and go back to my original train of thought: "The belief that women don't like to be hit on is
crap."
If this belief ever crossed paths with the Food & Drug Administration they'd stamp it with an official FDA seal saying: "100% Certified B.S."
Why do you think women spend so much time - sometimes hours - primping and preening themselves to go out to nightclubs
and bars?
Because they want to be hit on.
There's a school of thought, though, that says: "Women don't dress up for men; they do it for other women."
I think there's a grain of truth here but what this means is that women dress up to compete with other women for male attention. For male validation.
In other words, one of the reasons women put time into primping and preening themselves is to compete for who gets hit
on the most by men.
Many a woman will never explicitly admit she enjoys men hitting on her.
If she did, she'd risk other women perceiving her as being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter.
Or, even worse, people thinking she's a power hungry rhymes-with-witch.
Wanting to be hit on is one of women's dirty little secrets.
Think of those stupid, gossip magazines - such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone talks about how stupid these publications
are and claims to have never picked one up.
This is B.S.
If most people didn't read them, their circulation wouldn't be so widespread.
The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't wait to get our dirty little paws all over these magazines while standing in line at
the supermarket.
A lot of us have too much pride to admit
it.
But almost all of us get picked up by our lapels and sucked into the contents of these papers.
Same holds true with women. Most women claim, they hate when guys hit on them.
But most women love it. They can't get enough of it.
But they'll never admit it. It's their dirty little pleasure they DON't admit.
When you make no apologies for hitting on a woman and convey the belief that by YOU hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it lets her know she's dealing with a real man
who's a Prize she has to win over.
If YOU believe women want and love to be hit on, you're half way to massive success with women. All you've gotta do is learn
the right way to hit on women.
You could go out and experiment. And if you're willing to put in a lot of work, you probably will become successful with
women. But it's going to be a lot of work.
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So I'm gonna rewind and go back to my original train of thought: "The belief that women don't like to be hit on is
crap."
If this belief ever crossed paths with the Food & Drug Administration they'd stamp it with an official FDA seal saying: "100% Certified B.S."
Why do you think women spend so much time - sometimes hours - primping and preening themselves to go out to nightclubs
and bars?
Because they want to be hit on.
There's a school of thought, though, that says: "Women don't dress up for men; they do it for other women."
I think there's a grain of truth here but what this means is that women dress up to compete with other women for male attention. For male validation.
In other words, one of the reasons women put time into primping and preening themselves is to compete for who gets hit
on the most by men.
Many a woman will never explicitly admit she enjoys men hitting on her.
If she did, she'd risk other women perceiving her as being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter.
Or, even worse, people thinking she's a power hungry rhymes-with-witch.
Wanting to be hit on is one of women's dirty little secrets.
Think of those stupid, gossip magazines - such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone talks about how stupid these publications
are and claims to have never picked one up.
This is B.S.
If most people didn't read them, their circulation wouldn't be so widespread.
The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't wait to get our dirty little paws all over these magazines while standing in line at
the supermarket.
A lot of us have too much pride to admit
it.
But almost all of us get picked up by our lapels and sucked into the contents of these papers.
Same holds true with women. Most women claim, they hate when guys hit on them.
But most women love it. They can't get enough of it.
But they'll never admit it. It's their dirty little pleasure they DON't admit.
When you make no apologies for hitting on a woman and convey the belief that by YOU hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it lets her know she's dealing with a real man
who's a Prize she has to win over.
If YOU believe women want and love to be hit on, you're half way to massive success with women. All you've gotta do is learn
the right way to hit on women.
You could go out and experiment. And if you're willing to put in a lot of work, you probably will become successful with
women. But it's going to be a lot of work.