Adam
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Post by Adam on May 27, 2012 16:01:57 GMT -5
So yeah a couple of months ago I went on hiatus to try and find myself away from this site and I've come to some realizations.
I think the reason shit wasn't working for me in the game was cause I wasn't actually playing, or at least to my fullest potential. I'm a funny and out going guy and I was like that throughout most of my middle school years but as I kept on getting friendzoned over and over and over again I began to frustrated. I guess I felt kinda betrayed so I really stopped giving girls my best self as I got into highschool
I came to this site frustrated and trying to find the "missing piece" that would get me into a girls pants but I never found it, because there is no "missing piece" it's all a proccess.
Getting friendzoned over and over was all part of the proccess. It was suppose to teach me certain things like be more physical or be less fruity but instead of looking at it like that I just mooped around. But now I'm back and I want to learn.
Even though I'm a bit better now I still need a lot of help such as avoiding the friendzone, pulling the trigger faster and losing some outcome dependence but hey practice makes perfect.
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Post by OHM on May 27, 2012 21:38:50 GMT -5
hi
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RMO
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Post by RMO on May 27, 2012 22:55:07 GMT -5
hey man
the trick is to make your intentions clear from close to the start. Be that sexual person from the first impression.
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Post by Adam on May 27, 2012 23:50:42 GMT -5
Yeah I'm kinda confused about that. I don't know a socially suitable way of portraying that I want my penis inside a girl.
How do I make my intentions clear? How do you do it? Do I just say "hey your really cute" or some shit. I'm kinda lost.
Basically how do I make my intentions clear without looking like a creep.
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Post by canadiankid on May 28, 2012 1:24:24 GMT -5
Through physicality. Put your arm around her. Tickle her. Wrestle with her. Put your hand on her leg. Give awesome hugs, not that one arm shit.
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Post by RMO on May 28, 2012 1:42:51 GMT -5
THIS Through physicality. Put your arm around her. Tickle her. Wrestle with her. Put your hand on her leg. Give awesome hugs, not that one arm shit. and Risk creepy but heres the simple version of what i do A. In a school or work environment I am very social and i laugh and smile and flirt with the girls im interested. This is much slower since I know ive got time and i end up just figuring out who i want to steadily flirt with/fuck and i escalate according to my whim. I dont like this as much as cold because if you fuck up it lasts and the lack of time constraints makes me demotivated and lazy and unless i get a gf quickly interest wanes B. In any daytime scenario I go up to a girl i find attractive, i introduce myself, maybe try some smartass quip and act as authentic as possible and i figure out, just by way of a casual conversation, with a bit of a sexy undertone, what her relationship status is, and then if shes availbe I tell her were gonna hang in a week, is fri or sat better for her. At this point 3 things can happen 1. she rejects you, this is only for definitive no's and walkaways 2. she accepts, numbers are exchanged this one is rare 3. She gives you shit number 3 is where your success comes from, at this point ramp up the sexuality, ignore her insults, and just be authentic. No apologizing, no weakness, just be you. Youll find that all the girls who are attracted to you will usually give you shit so they dont look like whores. In short go for what you want and take it. c. Night game, uber direct. Get to a bitch and make your intentions as clear as possible as quickly as possible, but i dont like night game because girls are in whore/purity modes and alternate, its so goddamn retarded. Im not 21 so i dont get to enjoy the bar scene and im sure ill come to appreciate it in time. Remember to be patient, as long as the girl knows your not a nice guy whose afraid of rejection. I would recommend going and talking with a bunch of people with the goal of self enjoyment and find a couple dozen ways to be hilariously ejected. Fear is the mind killer and rejection is necessary and helpful. Dont try to turn the girl, try to find the girl for you.
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Post by slater on May 28, 2012 3:38:03 GMT -5
Your intent and masculinity comes from your core, you literally wanna feel like fucking her in your core (I know, sounds weird). Your subcomms will follow, the inner is always showing through so if your intent is strong on the inside, she will know - in your eyes, in your tone, in your gestures. There is always tension with a boy and a girl, only you can break that tension, how ? By answering all her questions (verbal and non verbal), by failing shit tests. Have strong intent on the inside, be fun and chill on the outside and she will know what type of guy you are. I don't know a socially suitable way of portraying that I want my penis inside a girl. there is no "social suitable way" ey, I think guys undermine their own nature as a man and feel the need to do something to show that they are xyz. Don't do anything, feel. If you feel like a bitch trust you've already portrayed that. How do I make my intentions clear? How do you do it? How do I make my intentions clear without looking like a creep You make your intentions clear .. By making your intentions clear. How I do it - physicality off the bat, deep eye contact, long pauses between questions. Then chill back completely till its time. Another thing is, you WILL look like a creep, my wing does it all the time, I do it all the time, we open hard and like pick her up and drop her 3 feet back, put her arms around our necks and just pick on her, her friends are standing behind us asking what the fuck is going on, all mouths open, all alarms off, we are not trying to hide behind smooth techniques. You will get shit tests, you will not get positive responses (well not the kind your looking for - ours is physical compliance, sometimes nothing at all) that's about it, I just say it all starts on the inside. Get relaxed, start influencing people. Good to see you back man
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