Post by ghostchips on Oct 1, 2012 10:11:05 GMT -5
Hey guys. Wall of text here, so if you don't feel like a long read...
Let's get the boring shit out the way first, I'm 18, 6'2", a lot more muscular than average, good looking, socially well-adjusted, and funny and confident in almost all situations. If that sounded arrogant, it wasn't my intention, but all that shit I just wrote is the truth.
I wasn't always like this, however. Rewind 3 years and you have a fat loser with no confidence and the social awareness of an autistic 10 year old. I could hold conversations and occasionaly had a few funny comments, but I would almost never initiate. I had also (obviously) never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl.
The beginning of my "transformation" began in the middle of 2010, when I went on a tour of a few countries with a few guys from my school, and a few girls from a nearby school. This tour wasn't something we had organised ourselves, it was organised by the school and seemed like a decent opportunity for me to meet some people (specifically girls).
I became friends with one of the guys on that tour, and he lent me his copy of The Game (in retrospect, not such a good book). I was intruiged, not only because the guy who lent me the book had got the hottest girl on the tour to give him head in a train compartment while 3 or 4 other people slept there, but because the book opened my eyes to what was possible.
Fast forward a few months. I had mostly forgotten about the book, until I found a PDF of it on my friend's iPad. I was too intimidated to say anything immediately, but somehow we got talking about it and he revealed that he had actually been trying out some of the (as much as I hate acronyms, I'll say it) PUA material and had surprisingly got results. I went out with him a few times (unsuccessfully for me, very successfully for him) and he explained a lot of the theory to me, but remember, I was fat and socially awkward - no amount of someone else's knowledge would've helped me.
Over the course of late 2010 and most of 2011 I gained significant experience and confidence, mostly due to losing a lot of weight and putting on a lot of muscle, but I almost never went out and quite frankly had no interest in it. The main reason for my failiure is now obvious to me though - I had never actually wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend. The only reason I had gone down that path was because I felt like a outsider due to having never even kissed a girl. It was bad enough at 14/15, but at 17 it was even worse.
By late 2011 I was reasonably tall, muscular, much better looking, and had many more friends and social opportunities than before, but I was still afflicted by chronic virginity and kisslessness, so when the oppotunity came for me to go on exchange in Germany, I took it. Keep in mind that I hadn't had any contact at all with any kind of PUA shit for months. In Germany, I got drunk on New Year's with some friends. Among them was a reasonably hot girl who I somehow got with despite my drunken German. That night I had my first kiss and, as a sort of Christmas bonus from the universe, she gave me head as well.
I woke up feeling awesome, and although I didn't realise it at the time, that was the day I actually began wanting to get laid. A few days later, I kissed a girl and fingered her friend on the same night. They were both exchange students like me, and I thought I had finally cracked it. I haven't, as me still being a virgin will indicate, but I have got with a few girls since then.
I achieved averageness with girls a long time ago, but let's be honest, who the fuck wants to be average?
Oh and if this huge wall of text is in the wrong section, tell me.
Let's get the boring shit out the way first, I'm 18, 6'2", a lot more muscular than average, good looking, socially well-adjusted, and funny and confident in almost all situations. If that sounded arrogant, it wasn't my intention, but all that shit I just wrote is the truth.
I wasn't always like this, however. Rewind 3 years and you have a fat loser with no confidence and the social awareness of an autistic 10 year old. I could hold conversations and occasionaly had a few funny comments, but I would almost never initiate. I had also (obviously) never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl.
The beginning of my "transformation" began in the middle of 2010, when I went on a tour of a few countries with a few guys from my school, and a few girls from a nearby school. This tour wasn't something we had organised ourselves, it was organised by the school and seemed like a decent opportunity for me to meet some people (specifically girls).
I became friends with one of the guys on that tour, and he lent me his copy of The Game (in retrospect, not such a good book). I was intruiged, not only because the guy who lent me the book had got the hottest girl on the tour to give him head in a train compartment while 3 or 4 other people slept there, but because the book opened my eyes to what was possible.
Fast forward a few months. I had mostly forgotten about the book, until I found a PDF of it on my friend's iPad. I was too intimidated to say anything immediately, but somehow we got talking about it and he revealed that he had actually been trying out some of the (as much as I hate acronyms, I'll say it) PUA material and had surprisingly got results. I went out with him a few times (unsuccessfully for me, very successfully for him) and he explained a lot of the theory to me, but remember, I was fat and socially awkward - no amount of someone else's knowledge would've helped me.
Over the course of late 2010 and most of 2011 I gained significant experience and confidence, mostly due to losing a lot of weight and putting on a lot of muscle, but I almost never went out and quite frankly had no interest in it. The main reason for my failiure is now obvious to me though - I had never actually wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend. The only reason I had gone down that path was because I felt like a outsider due to having never even kissed a girl. It was bad enough at 14/15, but at 17 it was even worse.
By late 2011 I was reasonably tall, muscular, much better looking, and had many more friends and social opportunities than before, but I was still afflicted by chronic virginity and kisslessness, so when the oppotunity came for me to go on exchange in Germany, I took it. Keep in mind that I hadn't had any contact at all with any kind of PUA shit for months. In Germany, I got drunk on New Year's with some friends. Among them was a reasonably hot girl who I somehow got with despite my drunken German. That night I had my first kiss and, as a sort of Christmas bonus from the universe, she gave me head as well.
I woke up feeling awesome, and although I didn't realise it at the time, that was the day I actually began wanting to get laid. A few days later, I kissed a girl and fingered her friend on the same night. They were both exchange students like me, and I thought I had finally cracked it. I haven't, as me still being a virgin will indicate, but I have got with a few girls since then.
I achieved averageness with girls a long time ago, but let's be honest, who the fuck wants to be average?
Oh and if this huge wall of text is in the wrong section, tell me.