psychobabble
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Post by psychobabble on Oct 22, 2008 9:52:57 GMT -5
What happened to Gay? Why was he banned?
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 22, 2008 13:59:14 GMT -5
He wasn't banned, he deleted his own account. I just checked the security log.
It was probably because the staff gave him too much disrespect.
Moral of the story: Don't disrespect others even if they do it to you. Be sincere and bring them into your state of fun, enjoyment, and respect. No matter how hard.
Gay's human too. He craved his power from a while back. He tried to set frames that he'd be a leader on the forum. Staff didn't like it, he was being too up front and we felt he 'needed our permission'.
Human instincts and psychology fucked it up. Woohoo. Read the 48 laws of power, take it into serious consideration.
So..
Gay, if you're reading this, I'm sorry. I wanted you here. You wanted power. Sometimes being that confident guy won't help, sometimes you have to strike the egos of the leaders in order to get what you want.
Staff, I feared this would happen. Next time, let's try to tame, not kill.
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psychobabble
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Post by psychobabble on Oct 22, 2008 16:03:57 GMT -5
Ah, ok. Just wanted to know  |
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nine
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Post by nine on Oct 24, 2008 1:49:01 GMT -5
This does sadden me, Gay had a lot to offer the site. Just to be clear, he is welcome back right?
Nine
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 24, 2008 13:57:10 GMT -5
Oh yes! We had a wonderful talk about it on AIM.
I told him to come back whenever he pleased.
He claimed that pick up forums weren't nearly as good as learning in person.. so.. yeah
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Paetar
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Post by Paetar on Oct 24, 2008 15:55:39 GMT -5
oh my.... one day I'm not here and everything crashes down... lol
anyways too bad, he is great. I certainly hope he'll come back.
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on Oct 27, 2008 15:52:04 GMT -5
Oh yes! We had a wonderful talk about it on AIM. I told him to come back whenever he pleased. He claimed that pick up forums weren't nearly as good as learning in person.. so.. yeah But where else can you get such a wide variety of ideas and opinions? I agree that there is nothing like learning in person (I'm still looking for a mentor btw, haven't had the chance to learn anything face-to-face with a PUM yet), forums are great places to learn. This is what they did in the very beginning, before all the seminars and such. |
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Oct 27, 2008 18:44:16 GMT -5
I agree. You definitely need to learn in person, or experiment and practice. But forums are just added help.
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