Post by Chris on Oct 2, 2008 19:33:40 GMT -5
Have you ever seen a guy who was always thinking negatively to himself when interacting with girls? Maybe you were one of these guys before, maybe you know someone like this. No matter what, they just cant seem to succeed with the ladies.
Thats because they are seeing the world through the lenses of the belief that they cant succeed with women. Even if a girl is into them, they cannot see it because it just doesnt seem possible to them. And if the girl is interested at first to a guy like this, that interest will quickly fade because he will be projecting that belief which is flat out NOT ATTRACTIVE!
So here's my suggestion: put on the lenses of the belief that ALL WOMEN WANT YOU. Conciously interpret everything they do as an IOI untill it becomes unconcious. You will just have this look about you that is super confident and just says "you want me." And its funny, after you begin seeing the world thru these lenses and your belief becomes strong, other people begin to believe it too. I mean at first lets say your talking to a girl and she brings up another girl to which you retort "why do you bring her up, she been asking about me?" Your implying she of course wants you and the girl you are talking with will just think your kinda kidding. But after you interact with her long enough and project this belief, she will begin to believe in it too. She will share the lense that all women want YOU.
So put on a new pair of lenses if you have to guys!
Thats because they are seeing the world through the lenses of the belief that they cant succeed with women. Even if a girl is into them, they cannot see it because it just doesnt seem possible to them. And if the girl is interested at first to a guy like this, that interest will quickly fade because he will be projecting that belief which is flat out NOT ATTRACTIVE!
So here's my suggestion: put on the lenses of the belief that ALL WOMEN WANT YOU. Conciously interpret everything they do as an IOI untill it becomes unconcious. You will just have this look about you that is super confident and just says "you want me." And its funny, after you begin seeing the world thru these lenses and your belief becomes strong, other people begin to believe it too. I mean at first lets say your talking to a girl and she brings up another girl to which you retort "why do you bring her up, she been asking about me?" Your implying she of course wants you and the girl you are talking with will just think your kinda kidding. But after you interact with her long enough and project this belief, she will begin to believe in it too. She will share the lense that all women want YOU.
So put on a new pair of lenses if you have to guys!
