Big Deals

[Grape]

I've been pondering on this thought for the past week.
It seems that whenever I make a big deal out of something, I start to lose control of it and I become very very Beta, AFC, and immature.
When I first learned pick up, I made too big of a deal with it like "ohh emm gee!! I'M THE SHIT!! I CAN PICK UP ANY CHICK I WANT!! I'M THE SHIT!!!!!AHH!!!!"
I had those statements running through my head, and it filled me up with ego. Too much ego.
Others noticed this, and told me I was being an immature asshole.
I made a big deal out of it like "These fuckers are just shit testing me. I'm the shit!!!!! THE SHIT!!! AHHH"
eventually, I got over it..

and ever since, I'm always taking a big look at myself. "what's going on through my head right now? Am I being smart about this? Am I doing anything stupid?"

And whenever I catch myself making a big deal out of something, like AA or escalation or just anything at all, I tell myself "Umm okay. Why am I making a big deal out of this? Stop it, it's immature and stupid. Stay calm and NORMAL."

And then away goes my emotion of being self-centered, and I'm back on track.

The hardest thing to get over is this "I'm the shit! I know how to be mature! I"M THE SHIT!"
Stop being an egotistic bastard. No one will give a fuck about you if you think like this. Learn to stay calm and control yourself.

So.... remember... big deals are for chumps. If you make a big deal about big deals, you're a bigger chump.

This helps me get over AA, become more mature in life, and just become a much cooler guy.
Try it out!

<33 Grape

[kristallnachte]

Its good for getting over AA though haha

[SamethP]

this is exactly what i needed atm...
no joke, i ran that through my head a couple of times and i already feel less stressed about the situation
thanks grape
+1

[nutrick]

this is a great thread. I always check myself almost every week. it helps especially when i'm not motivated or in a bad mood. I'll just think to myself "has anything bad REALLY happened?" "is this something i should really invest my thought and energy into?" and most of the time it's a no. done deal. great post grape ;D


Patrick