Post by Rusty on Feb 16, 2009 6:47:35 GMT -5
Alright, normally it's a bitch to move up social scales. The reasons very weird though, the social scale doesn't exist. Well, it does, but not in the way its normally thought of. It's a lot like this.
People who are valueable and give value
People who give and take value
People who only take value
People who beg for value
So at the top, naturally, there are the really hot chicks that are cool people. There are the really cool guys who are just great to be around and naturally have a lot of friends. Everyone likes these people, everyone wants to be these people, they're just the shit haha.
Below that, there are the people who give value, but only when everyone value is lower then theirs. They hang around the cool people, they're pretty cool themselves but they take value occasionally. They always need to be cool, they always need to be better then everyone. They'll give you value as long as you give value to them.
Then there are the people who just take value. URGH. These are the guys that are mean, loud, insecure. The popular people tolerate them, because they have so much value they can let these guys suckle on it for awhile. For the people who are beg for value and so have no value, they are a fucking nightmare haha.
Then they are the needy people. They just beg for value, they qualify too much, they conform a lot, they do shit to make you like them. These guys are very rarely popular. People don't mind these guys, but they suck too much value outta things. They are probably the ones that get picked on a lot. Normally they're alright people, they just are needy for value.
This template fits every school. At every school, theres the guy whos just really really fucking cool. He just makes everyone feel awesome. They do everything right, they're just value wells. They're funny, they make people feel great, they are dominant, all DHV's. And theres that chick, shes hot, shes funny, shes cool, shes just the best. These are the guys that are on top. Then there are the nasty guys, who think they're the shit but no one really likes them. People are just scared of them. The popular people don't really like them either. Then they are the value takers who are like, nice people, they just don't bring value so people don't really hang around them too much.
So, how to get on top? It's pretty easy. Just become valueable. Giving value is the way to become valueable. If your funny, your giving value. If you look fucking hot, your giving value. If your a leader, your valueable. If you make people feel good about themselves, your valueable. If you know a lot of people and are friendly, your valueable. If you throw mad parties, your valueable. You get the idea.
If you become valueable, higher value people will naturally wanna hang around you. You make them feel good, you give them value, they give you value, the great thing is neither of you are needy for each others value. It's a lot more fun to hang around high value people. The way to do this is to first vibe with them, talk a little, get a little face time. Be a cool guy. Then invite them to do something fun with out. Fairs, bmx shows, whatevers fun. Bring a long some high value people and continue to just give value. Then bam, your friends. Do this with more and more people and slowly your social circle will include a lot of high value people. Then suddenly, your popular. Give the lower value people value to, being and popular and cool person is about being loved by everyone. Hope this helped =D. Have fun guys.
People who are valueable and give value
People who give and take value
People who only take value
People who beg for value
So at the top, naturally, there are the really hot chicks that are cool people. There are the really cool guys who are just great to be around and naturally have a lot of friends. Everyone likes these people, everyone wants to be these people, they're just the shit haha.
Below that, there are the people who give value, but only when everyone value is lower then theirs. They hang around the cool people, they're pretty cool themselves but they take value occasionally. They always need to be cool, they always need to be better then everyone. They'll give you value as long as you give value to them.
Then there are the people who just take value. URGH. These are the guys that are mean, loud, insecure. The popular people tolerate them, because they have so much value they can let these guys suckle on it for awhile. For the people who are beg for value and so have no value, they are a fucking nightmare haha.
Then they are the needy people. They just beg for value, they qualify too much, they conform a lot, they do shit to make you like them. These guys are very rarely popular. People don't mind these guys, but they suck too much value outta things. They are probably the ones that get picked on a lot. Normally they're alright people, they just are needy for value.
This template fits every school. At every school, theres the guy whos just really really fucking cool. He just makes everyone feel awesome. They do everything right, they're just value wells. They're funny, they make people feel great, they are dominant, all DHV's. And theres that chick, shes hot, shes funny, shes cool, shes just the best. These are the guys that are on top. Then there are the nasty guys, who think they're the shit but no one really likes them. People are just scared of them. The popular people don't really like them either. Then they are the value takers who are like, nice people, they just don't bring value so people don't really hang around them too much.
So, how to get on top? It's pretty easy. Just become valueable. Giving value is the way to become valueable. If your funny, your giving value. If you look fucking hot, your giving value. If your a leader, your valueable. If you make people feel good about themselves, your valueable. If you know a lot of people and are friendly, your valueable. If you throw mad parties, your valueable. You get the idea.
If you become valueable, higher value people will naturally wanna hang around you. You make them feel good, you give them value, they give you value, the great thing is neither of you are needy for each others value. It's a lot more fun to hang around high value people. The way to do this is to first vibe with them, talk a little, get a little face time. Be a cool guy. Then invite them to do something fun with out. Fairs, bmx shows, whatevers fun. Bring a long some high value people and continue to just give value. Then bam, your friends. Do this with more and more people and slowly your social circle will include a lot of high value people. Then suddenly, your popular. Give the lower value people value to, being and popular and cool person is about being loved by everyone. Hope this helped =D. Have fun guys.
