[GUIDE] From Psych to Natural! [COMPLETE]

[Validus]

thanks! Im really new to this and this was a great read:)

[machete]

hey guys im still new to the game but, i don't want game to make me into some jek, who looses all his friends but gets laid 3 times a week. Anyone have any tips on becming attractive whist still keeping most of your identity?

[hermanmunster]

I am slightly confused by some of the points made in the article.
Are you saying that, in order to become a successful PUA and score chicks, you need to become an asshole?
Somehow I don't believe this. Neil Strauss, Mystery all those guys aren't dickheads at all.

Then in order to have a big ego like this, you will have to defend it. This means you may be involved in physical altercations and generally have a hard time as everyone sees you as a jerk. I dunno, I'm new to this whole PUA thing but it's just a thought.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Nov 28, 2010 3:36:23 GMT -5 hermanmunster said:

I am slightly confused by some of the points made in the article.
Are you saying that, in order to become a successful PUA and score chicks, you need to become an asshole?
Somehow I don't believe this. Neil Strauss, Mystery all those guys aren't dickheads at all.

Then in order to have a big ego like this, you will have to defend it. This means you may be involved in physical altercations and generally have a hard time as everyone sees you as a jerk. I dunno, I'm new to this whole PUA thing but it's just a thought.

Being a Pua or natural has nothing to do with being an asshole, it has to do with learning your worth it. There was a time when AFCs thought that they weren't good enough so our job was to make they're confidence skyrocket. Now they just trust the method, all you have to do is approach approach approach. You'll learn through mistakes how to be that awesome guy. Hmm it seems to me it's all becoming about outer game xD

[hermanmunster]

thanks mate

[alphaqez]

Awesome read! Every part of it made sense, this whole not wanting to be a slut thing kind of doesn't fly with my though. I think its more of finding a guy who has S and R like Mystery believes.