Pick Up Really Is A Game

[Grape]

I can't believe I JUST noticed this today.
I'm sitting by an "on-and-off" target for some partner project and we're talking and she says "blablabla you're soo weird."

But by this point in my life.. it's just a friendly conversation and the whole "you're soo weird" is like just something I dont even really notice anymore...

I just happened to notice it today after several months. I didnt notice it at ALL emotionally, but logically I was like "hmm.. shit test here"

so I was like "Aww you're cute."
normally I'd just laugh and continue on with the original conversation.

right away, she gives me that stare that says "you've attracted me."

I start laughing my ass off because I finally understood why Swinggcat's push-pull, David D's C&F, and Mystery's Negs worked.

It's a GAME!!!!
Both of us really don't feel anything emotionally.. the "you're soo weird" didn't affect me emotionally.. but logically I knew "oh.. she wants to play the game!"

So all that stuff the gurus are teaching.. it's about HOW TO FLIRT.
Because both of us really dont care when we call each other dorks and creeps.
But we both know "Oh wow. This person really knows his/her stuff when it comes to flirting."

And for this kind of flirting, WORDS ACTUALLY MATTER!!!!

HAH! WEIRD!!!!!!!

WORDS... MATTER??!!!! WOAHH!!!

So yeah.. All that material the gurus teach are all just 'flirting material'
That's why some girls just go "Huh..?" to the material because they think you're being serious, not playing the game!

Only once you and her bothh realize that you guys are "playing the game" can the material work efficiently.
Otherwise, it's like one person playing a game with another person who doesn't even know he or she's playing.

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Both players of the game know that the words really are meaningless but if you screw up, then you lose!
And for this game, losers don't get the prize!

What's the prize?
It's a whole lot of kissies and sexual stuff.

Playing the Game is an excuse to express your sexuality.

We learned that Girls Are Extremely Sexual.
And so are guys.

So when a guy and a girl are in a sexual state, they'll play the game!

This way, they have an excuse to get sexual with each other without being called "whores" of some sort.

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Woah!! This makes soo much sense.
Seriously.. The stuff I say when I play this game, I really couldn't give less of a shit about emotionally.

But it's a logical game of making all the right moves.

When a girl screws up her part of the game, you can either CHEAT and pretend like nothing happened....

or you can safely say to her (not literally say) "You lost the game, we can't use the game as an excuse to make out with each other anymore. Aww too bad."

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Lmfao. This is hilarious. I feel so dumb. hahaha

<33 Grape

[Dream]

Worth the wait man
me: hey
really good
XxKorean54xX: hayy
oh my goshh
i cant believe it though
this made my day =]
me: This is intersting
yesterday I was thinking a muddled version of this
XxKorean54xX: dude.
if we did some more development on this concept
me: I was trying to communicate to a girl that as you say "we're playing a game"
me: and I had this feeling if I could just get her to play, I could win.

[nutrick]

alright, with this said, how do you get her to participate in the game? i have a couple of assumptions, but i'd like to see everyone else's take on it.

[Grape]

When she gives you a shit test, I think the game's begun.

You can either make her give you a shit test or you can wait for it to pop up.

[kristallnachte]

um....you kinda are missing some points.

if ANY attraction exists, it happens to be emotional

[optimus]

Feb 23, 2009 22:26:13 GMT -5 kristallnachte said:

um....you kinda are missing some points.

if ANY attraction exists, it happens to be emotional

That's where subtext comes in. All of the gurus talk about this. The emotional stuff happens mostly without words. Yeah, what you say has some effect on what happens, but all of the shit tests and the push/pull, qualification, all of that is just making sure the other person is good enough.

[kristallnachte]

i was countering where grape said there was no emotional connection being made

[Grape]

haha did some more thinking.

this post has tons of glitches.
anyhoo, think about it this way.

the emotion comes the fact that you really know how to play the game.
most people can't the play the game far enough and 'bore the girl.'

but if you 'push pull' and such, the girl will get confused and will follow your lead of emotions.

blablabla

ALSO, the words wont matter at all if the delivery sucks.

this whole 'pick up's a game' is really a big metaphor.