Great Game tonight

[nine]

So first, I went to the varsity football game, which was a complete blowout against our rivals. I looked great, had the hair perfect, tight ass expensive shirt. I started moving around (got there late) sayin hey to everyone, met up with this guy I hadn't talked to in a while, we swapped stories while I gamed this freshman that was with him. She had a high bitch shield so I negged hard the whole time and did tons of takeaways and by the end of the night she was on my hip.

The best was yet to come though, I spotted this girl I've been after for 2 months with her latest boyfriend. I went over, said hey, met the guy, we talked football for awhile (I play on the JV), then I went back to the guy and freshman. Met up with my psuedo-oneitis again later, she started hitting on me and everything, all right in front of him, while I made convo with him. I had a running neg by saying she sounded like a tranny (her voice was going out). Then I imposed my frame by getting her bf to admit she had a dick. We kinoed the whole time, play fighting and her basically pawning for my attention.

End of the game, said bye to everyone, talked to coach for awhile. About 20 minutes later I texted her sayin, "Hey tranny =P" We got to talking, she's about to get dumped so I ran a bf destroyer for luck. Called, said, "Fuck this, your going out to dinner tomorrow with me." She said she was at her friends but if it was late enough then yea so I said I'd call her tomorrow whenever I got home.

I'm still not happy with how I closed it but hey. Anyone think I wasn't escalating enough? Any tips on making sure she doesn't flake tomorrow? Well if you read this far, thanks.

Nine

[Chris]

Well if youve built enough comfort with her, she shouldnt flake. And when you call, if her tone of voice sounds like she might flake, then before you bring up going out, work on getting her into a good mood again. Be cocky/funny etc. If she sounds excited to hear from you then your good.

Nice job bro!

[nine]

Oct 4, 2008 0:06:32 GMT -5 Chris said:

Well if youve built enough comfort with her, she shouldnt flake. And when you call, if her tone of voice sounds like she might flake, then before you bring up going out, work on getting her into a good mood again. Be cocky/funny etc. If she sounds excited to hear from you then your good.

Nice job bro!

I appreciate it man. I couldn't really catch her tone tonight cause her voice was almost gone but I'll be sure to remember to check tomorrow. I'm pretty sure we've built enough comfort, she's fine with talking about sex with me and everything and she's usually really suggestive, I just can't ever hook up with her. Anyone else got any ideas?

Thanks,
Nine

[Andrew]

Use text. Texting works so much better than calling because shes not put on the spot immediatly. You can give her time to respond. plus you can play fun text message games =D

[Chris]

Oct 4, 2008 1:22:24 GMT -5 Andrew said:

Use text. Texting works so much better than calling because shes not put on the spot immediatly. You can give her time to respond. plus you can play fun text message games =D

Hmmm... I think text is a great part of the game but i definitely think you need to call too. It will show her you are confident enough to call her and will improve your delivery. Credit to Grape.

[Andrew]

oh totally. especially if your worried about flakes. but definitely make use of text game

[Dream]

I feel unlucky to hate regular sports. Seems like game is good there. Martial Artists are not so gameable when they have a Black-Belt Brother lol

[nine]

Oct 4, 2008 1:22:24 GMT -5 Andrew said:

Use text. Texting works so much better than calling because shes not put on the spot immediatly. You can give her time to respond. plus you can play fun text message games =D

Well we already text a lot, but I believe that phone game builds comfort more easily. I'm just a little scared to put my faith in something I can't gauge her reaction immediately.

[SamethP]

thats fair enough ^
but she will probably put her faith in it
so just gauge her based on your next meet up with her

[Andrew]

keep a balance. And if your looking for some fun stuff to do check out the psot on text message games

[nine]

Gah, she said she was sick. I mean it's probable because her voice was going out and all, but I'm going to treat it as a flake until she makes it up.

Thanks guys,
Nine

[Luc]

call her out on being a flake

use it as a neg but be serious about it too.
she wont wanna flake on you again

[nine]

Oh I probably will. Some friends and I are going to a haunted house next weekend, I'll probably bring it up and be like, "Yea, but you're so not invited, cause we don't chill with flakes," in a playful tone.

Nine

[Chris]

go ahead and call her out on it but make sure you dont do it over the phone. Never call on a girls bull shit over the phone

[nine]

Oct 5, 2008 17:42:53 GMT -5 Chris said:

go ahead and call her out on it but make sure you dont do it over the phone. Never call on a girls bull shit over the phone

Why? Higher tendency of an argument?

Nine