Post by Keysersoze on Mar 2, 2009 19:26:31 GMT -5
using a rework of AFC adam's psychological theories of Dr Robert Cialdini's adapted to seduction... I came to a specific model for dealing with the less sexually open girls you might encounter...
the original -
highschoolpuas.proboards83.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=attraction&thread=1261&page=1
We almost always feel bad for letting someone down. If asked to perform a large task and refused, the chances that someone will accept a smaller favour has a much higher chance of being accepted. Randomly stopping a girl in the street and asking her to marry you will almost certainly get you refused. However if you then take the time to sit with her and talk instead you’re likely to find she accepts this concession as she feels bad for rejecting you in the first place. so applying this to my text game I am constantly plowing forward until you get resistance then ask for less commitment.. ie I'm talking to a HB8 and i keep pushing her comfort zone just to the edge then reduce my demands to something less commited... talking about bondadge and fantasies I pull her out to the very edge of her comfort... then when she starts to resist I drop the subject and start to work back to something like what turns her on... leading her out of her original frame into a newly PUA created one.. then I use consistency as people like to be seen as reliable. If someone confirms they will do something they tend to follow through with it... so I tell her I expect her to be just as sexually comfortable as she is when I meet her which she'll comply with because of the authority implied and the implication of reciprocation as it connotates you'll be that way too... occasionally dropping in lines such as "haven't met a girl who doesn't like spanking" helps to create social validation as you are telling her girls are comfortable to be sexually open with you, The concept of Social proof and pre-selection couldn’t be more compounded by this fact. so by applying these principles you can lead a girl into the frame you want her in and create deep comfort as she feels she can express herself freely to you...
phewww.. so yea that's how I feel AFC adam's psychology of persuasion applies to text game with less sexually experienced/ confident girls... I hope you can all find something of use here...
the original -
highschoolpuas.proboards83.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=attraction&thread=1261&page=1
We almost always feel bad for letting someone down. If asked to perform a large task and refused, the chances that someone will accept a smaller favour has a much higher chance of being accepted. Randomly stopping a girl in the street and asking her to marry you will almost certainly get you refused. However if you then take the time to sit with her and talk instead you’re likely to find she accepts this concession as she feels bad for rejecting you in the first place. so applying this to my text game I am constantly plowing forward until you get resistance then ask for less commitment.. ie I'm talking to a HB8 and i keep pushing her comfort zone just to the edge then reduce my demands to something less commited... talking about bondadge and fantasies I pull her out to the very edge of her comfort... then when she starts to resist I drop the subject and start to work back to something like what turns her on... leading her out of her original frame into a newly PUA created one.. then I use consistency as people like to be seen as reliable. If someone confirms they will do something they tend to follow through with it... so I tell her I expect her to be just as sexually comfortable as she is when I meet her which she'll comply with because of the authority implied and the implication of reciprocation as it connotates you'll be that way too... occasionally dropping in lines such as "haven't met a girl who doesn't like spanking" helps to create social validation as you are telling her girls are comfortable to be sexually open with you, The concept of Social proof and pre-selection couldn’t be more compounded by this fact. so by applying these principles you can lead a girl into the frame you want her in and create deep comfort as she feels she can express herself freely to you...
phewww.. so yea that's how I feel AFC adam's psychology of persuasion applies to text game with less sexually experienced/ confident girls... I hope you can all find something of use here...