Post by Andrew on Oct 4, 2008 22:07:15 GMT -5
I found this article to be a really informative one, and really helped me to get motivated during a dry spell and to start working out again (which i now do every day). Do it.
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There Is No Tomorrow
Posted on 12 August 2008
Tomorrow… next time… later.
in other words… NEVER!
This is something that I really wanted to share with you from my own personal experience.
The other night I went out with the crew. It was very a quiet night a bunch of dudes at the bar and an empty dancefloor. Only girls in the place I passed as I walked inside they were having a cigarette.
Literally ONE STEP in the door I assess the situation…
I can either:
A) GO inside, scope for more girls if there are any, if not chat to my buddies about how chode the venue is until we slide off back home.
B) Just GO.
The time is now champ.
BOOM i turn and hit up the girls outside… “wow the club is WACK tonight!” they giggle and start asking questions about me.
ME: “Stop all the questionss damn we are in a club lets make the most of it!”
They pull me to the empty dancefloor and all three start grinding me like a music video… lovely.
Now the cutest one is going for it, we are chatting and she is totally comfortable with me grabbing her and putting my arm around her.
Its GOING DOWN with us TONIGHT.
I guess my overarching natural frame these days is this (in order):
- I am amusing myself (in a fun chill totally comfortable and relaxed way)
- If there are girls in my reach ill grab them (for my amusement)
- Then I see if ***I*** want to pursue them further
- If yes then I let a girl know CLEARLY its GOING DOWN with us TONIGHT (all in the amusing cool atmosphere)
- Ramp it up sexually
- Leave to home
(keep in mind there is a LOT going on under each of these points)
No tricks, no rubbish, just pure fun in my world - and oh girls can join in too!
Anyway so my firends are leaving and I have the girl LOCKED DOWN TO GO. If I just grab her and walk out its over fun times for both of us.
My friend comes up “We gotta go”. SO instead i get her number and leave. She looks sad and confused. In my mind ill just call her and get her later or get a new girl tomorrow or something.
Ummmmm WHAT?! bzzzzzt WRONG TIM.
You have been in this situation 100 times.
This was a challenge I had quite a while ago - the girls are DOWN but i put it off till later for whatever reason and then REGRET it later.
So in the car the girl is texting me flat out but can’t come with me tonight now because her friends won’t drive her.
LESSON LEARNED (again).
DO it now!
No more of this “oh will get it later, tomorrow, next time” rubbish!
It’s bad for me AND the poor girl.
It’s because Im coming from such an abundance mindset, I know I can get another girl later if I want.
Very silly.
This is a reminder to YOU.
Why go to all that effort and fun times without finishing it off ?
Do it now !
Tomorrow… next time… later - does not exist.
___
(thanks to an author for RSD)
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
There Is No Tomorrow
Posted on 12 August 2008
Tomorrow… next time… later.
in other words… NEVER!
This is something that I really wanted to share with you from my own personal experience.
The other night I went out with the crew. It was very a quiet night a bunch of dudes at the bar and an empty dancefloor. Only girls in the place I passed as I walked inside they were having a cigarette.
Literally ONE STEP in the door I assess the situation…
I can either:
A) GO inside, scope for more girls if there are any, if not chat to my buddies about how chode the venue is until we slide off back home.
B) Just GO.
The time is now champ.
BOOM i turn and hit up the girls outside… “wow the club is WACK tonight!” they giggle and start asking questions about me.
ME: “Stop all the questionss damn we are in a club lets make the most of it!”
They pull me to the empty dancefloor and all three start grinding me like a music video… lovely.
Now the cutest one is going for it, we are chatting and she is totally comfortable with me grabbing her and putting my arm around her.
Its GOING DOWN with us TONIGHT.
I guess my overarching natural frame these days is this (in order):
- I am amusing myself (in a fun chill totally comfortable and relaxed way)
- If there are girls in my reach ill grab them (for my amusement)
- Then I see if ***I*** want to pursue them further
- If yes then I let a girl know CLEARLY its GOING DOWN with us TONIGHT (all in the amusing cool atmosphere)
- Ramp it up sexually
- Leave to home
(keep in mind there is a LOT going on under each of these points)
No tricks, no rubbish, just pure fun in my world - and oh girls can join in too!
Anyway so my firends are leaving and I have the girl LOCKED DOWN TO GO. If I just grab her and walk out its over fun times for both of us.
My friend comes up “We gotta go”. SO instead i get her number and leave. She looks sad and confused. In my mind ill just call her and get her later or get a new girl tomorrow or something.
Ummmmm WHAT?! bzzzzzt WRONG TIM.
You have been in this situation 100 times.
This was a challenge I had quite a while ago - the girls are DOWN but i put it off till later for whatever reason and then REGRET it later.
So in the car the girl is texting me flat out but can’t come with me tonight now because her friends won’t drive her.
LESSON LEARNED (again).
DO it now!
No more of this “oh will get it later, tomorrow, next time” rubbish!
It’s bad for me AND the poor girl.
It’s because Im coming from such an abundance mindset, I know I can get another girl later if I want.
Very silly.
This is a reminder to YOU.
Why go to all that effort and fun times without finishing it off ?
Do it now !
Tomorrow… next time… later - does not exist.
___
(thanks to an author for RSD)
