Post by MarthXII on Mar 28, 2009 22:16:49 GMT -5
Ive been Doing So many Things With my life Wrong.
Why?
One of the Main Routes Of My problems Has been Caused Because I have No Self-Respect, Ive Been Told Recently And FOund Out something Very sad About Myself....
I have No fucking Self-Respect. Thats Why I am Posting these Just in case Someone Else Dosent KNow why Im posting it.
Its to Help you Guys Understand THingsa you Might not.
If you have self Respect, Then Dont Read it ( If you dont want to ), But Its always Good To hear Things to Make yourself Feel Better. Thats why This Goes in the Confidence Board =]
These Are just Many Quotations That make alot of Sense For learning More about how to Be a better Person in Nature to Yourself, Say for example Chris, He put, THat 999 men Follow Women and that 1 Man is leader of thousands of men, Or something like that since Im too lazy to go back to See his quotations.
What did you feel When you read that?
You might have Felt that he is Tottaly Right, Or you might have just thought it was another Stupid Phrase.
Just read them If you dont Understand What Im saying.
Abraham J. Heschel:
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.
Aldous Huxley:
There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh:
If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.
Blaise Pascal:
We are all something, but none of us are everything.
Bonaro W. Overstreet:
Perhaps the most important thing we can undertake toward the reduction of fear is to make it easier for people to accept themselves, to like themselves.
Cardinal De Retz:
A man who doesn't trust himself can never really trust anyone else.
Eleanor Roosevelt:
I think somehow we learn who we really are and then live with that decision.
Emma Goldman:
Patriotism ... is a superstition artificially created and maintained through a network of lies and falsehoods; a superstition that robs man of his self-respect and dignity, and increases his arrogance and conceit.
Eric Hoffer:
The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves. The self-respecting individual will try to be as tolerant of his neighbor's shortcomings as he is of his own.
Frederick Douglass:
I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.
George Eliot:
It is good to be helpful and kindly, but don't give yourself to be melted into candle grease for the benefit of the tallow trade.
Jane Haddam:
In my day, we didn't have self-esteem, we had self-respect, and no more of it than we had earned.
Jane Nelson:
Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or doing better?
Joan Didion:
To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves -- there lies the great, singular power of self-respect.
Joan Didion:
Self-respect is a question of recognizing that anything worth having has a price.
Lyndon B. Johnson:
The American city should be a collection of communities where every member has a right to belong. It should be a place where every man feels safe on his streets and in the house of his friends. It should be a place where each individual's dignity and self-respect is strengthened by the respect and affection of his neighbors. It should be a place where each of us can find the satisfaction and warmth which comes from being a member of the community of man. This is what man sought at the dawn of civilization. It is what we seek today.
Marian Wright Edelman:
No one, Eleanor Roosevelt said, can make you feel inferior without your consent. Never give it.
Marianne Williamson:
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Mark Twain:
The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.
Meredith Jordan:
Whatever you have forgotten, you can remember. Whatever you have buried you can unearth. If you are willing to look deep into your own nature, if you are willing to peel away the layers of not-self you have adopted in making your way through the tribulations of life, you will find that your true self is not as far removed as you think.
Michel de Montaigne:
I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing.
Mohandas K. Gandhi:
To safeguard democracy the people must have a keen sense of independence, self-respect, and their oneness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
Whatever games are played with us, we must play no games with ourselves.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
When I go into the garden with a spade, and dig a bed, I feel such an exhilaration and health that I discover that I have been defrauding myself all this time in letting others do for me what I should have done with my own hands.
Sidonie Gruenberg:
To value his own good opinion, a child has to feel that he is a worthwhile person. He has to have confidence in himself as an individual.
Virginia Woolf:
Without self-confidence we are as babes in the cradle. And how can we generate this imponderable quality, which is yet so invaluable, most quickly? By thinking that other people are inferior to oneself.
William J. H. Boetcker:
That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.
e. e. cummings:
We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit.
Thanks Gay....
I needed that sense Of reality chat. ( even If it was the Hard way )
Your teacher Must have been a great man. ( Or still is lol... )
Took me a while to Understand.
At first I was angry, Then I was sad, Now Im just thinking how stupid I was....
Why?
One of the Main Routes Of My problems Has been Caused Because I have No Self-Respect, Ive Been Told Recently And FOund Out something Very sad About Myself....
I have No fucking Self-Respect. Thats Why I am Posting these Just in case Someone Else Dosent KNow why Im posting it.
Its to Help you Guys Understand THingsa you Might not.
If you have self Respect, Then Dont Read it ( If you dont want to ), But Its always Good To hear Things to Make yourself Feel Better. Thats why This Goes in the Confidence Board =]
These Are just Many Quotations That make alot of Sense For learning More about how to Be a better Person in Nature to Yourself, Say for example Chris, He put, THat 999 men Follow Women and that 1 Man is leader of thousands of men, Or something like that since Im too lazy to go back to See his quotations.
What did you feel When you read that?
You might have Felt that he is Tottaly Right, Or you might have just thought it was another Stupid Phrase.
Just read them If you dont Understand What Im saying.
Abraham J. Heschel:
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.
Aldous Huxley:
There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh:
If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.
Blaise Pascal:
We are all something, but none of us are everything.
Bonaro W. Overstreet:
Perhaps the most important thing we can undertake toward the reduction of fear is to make it easier for people to accept themselves, to like themselves.
Cardinal De Retz:
A man who doesn't trust himself can never really trust anyone else.
Eleanor Roosevelt:
I think somehow we learn who we really are and then live with that decision.
Emma Goldman:
Patriotism ... is a superstition artificially created and maintained through a network of lies and falsehoods; a superstition that robs man of his self-respect and dignity, and increases his arrogance and conceit.
Eric Hoffer:
The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves. The self-respecting individual will try to be as tolerant of his neighbor's shortcomings as he is of his own.
Frederick Douglass:
I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.
George Eliot:
It is good to be helpful and kindly, but don't give yourself to be melted into candle grease for the benefit of the tallow trade.
Jane Haddam:
In my day, we didn't have self-esteem, we had self-respect, and no more of it than we had earned.
Jane Nelson:
Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or doing better?
Joan Didion:
To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves -- there lies the great, singular power of self-respect.
Joan Didion:
Self-respect is a question of recognizing that anything worth having has a price.
Lyndon B. Johnson:
The American city should be a collection of communities where every member has a right to belong. It should be a place where every man feels safe on his streets and in the house of his friends. It should be a place where each individual's dignity and self-respect is strengthened by the respect and affection of his neighbors. It should be a place where each of us can find the satisfaction and warmth which comes from being a member of the community of man. This is what man sought at the dawn of civilization. It is what we seek today.
Marian Wright Edelman:
No one, Eleanor Roosevelt said, can make you feel inferior without your consent. Never give it.
Marianne Williamson:
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Mark Twain:
The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.
Meredith Jordan:
Whatever you have forgotten, you can remember. Whatever you have buried you can unearth. If you are willing to look deep into your own nature, if you are willing to peel away the layers of not-self you have adopted in making your way through the tribulations of life, you will find that your true self is not as far removed as you think.
Michel de Montaigne:
I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing.
Mohandas K. Gandhi:
To safeguard democracy the people must have a keen sense of independence, self-respect, and their oneness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
Whatever games are played with us, we must play no games with ourselves.
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
When I go into the garden with a spade, and dig a bed, I feel such an exhilaration and health that I discover that I have been defrauding myself all this time in letting others do for me what I should have done with my own hands.
Sidonie Gruenberg:
To value his own good opinion, a child has to feel that he is a worthwhile person. He has to have confidence in himself as an individual.
Virginia Woolf:
Without self-confidence we are as babes in the cradle. And how can we generate this imponderable quality, which is yet so invaluable, most quickly? By thinking that other people are inferior to oneself.
William J. H. Boetcker:
That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.
e. e. cummings:
We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit.
Thanks Gay....
I needed that sense Of reality chat. ( even If it was the Hard way )
Your teacher Must have been a great man. ( Or still is lol... )
Took me a while to Understand.
At first I was angry, Then I was sad, Now Im just thinking how stupid I was....