jaycp
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Post by jaycp on Apr 15, 2009 23:51:25 GMT -5
Ever since I've gotten into this PUA stuff, I've been hearing "you're an asshole" or "you're so conceited Ugh". I usually respond with something like "naww dawg, I just got high seft esteem " Is there any better way to approach this situation because I seem to be getting into it alot lately.
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nutrick
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Post by nutrick on Apr 16, 2009 0:48:18 GMT -5
well, i get that a lot. i usually laugh at it and say "you know you love me =]" or "i love you too, hun" but really, say whatever you want, just don't let it affect you, she's only testing you to see if it's affecting you.
Cheers, Patrick
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Dream
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Post by Dream on Apr 16, 2009 6:32:54 GMT -5
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hotdemon
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Post by hotdemon on Apr 16, 2009 11:51:29 GMT -5
HB:your am asshole Me:Gimme one reason to change?
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Apr 16, 2009 14:59:14 GMT -5
Maybe you are an asshole.
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on Apr 16, 2009 16:37:46 GMT -5
Shouldn't be talking Grape =P
I remember when everyone called you an asshole at your school (lmao, I doubt they do anymore).
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Nike
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Post by Nike on Apr 16, 2009 16:39:08 GMT -5
Me: nope, I'm da shit
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Post by curlyhairedbastard on Apr 17, 2009 9:27:10 GMT -5
embrace it! i get it quite a bit.
girl: your an asshole me: try not to fall in love with me;)
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Keysersoze
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Post by Keysersoze on Apr 17, 2009 12:19:13 GMT -5
Grape has a point... sometimes you have to calibrate what you say or you come off as an asshole... it's one thing to not give a shit but it's another being plain rude...
out of interest, what are you saying that gets this response?
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Apr 17, 2009 21:38:00 GMT -5
Grape has a point... sometimes you have to calibrate what you say or you come off as an asshole... it's one thing to not give a shit but it's another being plain rude... out of interest, what are you saying that gets this response?
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Paetar
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Post by Paetar on Apr 23, 2009 17:05:22 GMT -5
"Thank you, I love you too."
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Keysersoze
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Post by Keysersoze on Apr 23, 2009 17:10:31 GMT -5
is no one gonna tell me why they keep on getting called an asshole?
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secret
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Post by secret on Apr 23, 2009 21:28:33 GMT -5
HB- your such an asshole Me- really! tell me some more things you like about me! (huge grin)
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Zomga48
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Post by Zomga48 on Apr 23, 2009 22:32:11 GMT -5
Well, there may be several reasons they are calling you an asshole. It can be summed up with the 5 senses. First of all, do other people think that you seem to resemble a physical asshole? This may be tough to imagine considering an actual hole is the absence of something, therefore being nothing. However, this doesn't mean you do not appear to be one enormous ass with a rather large hole. Second, wear some deodorant and/or body spray. The scent of ass is difficult to cover up, I recommend either Swagger or After Hours by Old Spice, they are nice, moderate scents considering the rather over-compensating names. Thirdly, do you fart in class? Do people hear nothing but gas when you speak? If so, there are plenty of guides on voice on this very forum that you could take a look at. Lastly, taste and touch are double-edged swords when considering assholes. It's one of those things where you love it or hate it. I mean gay people seem to love touching assholes, tasting them too. It mostly depends on if the girl is into that sort of thing.
Hopefully you can use this info to fix your problem, good luck.
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nutrick
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Post by nutrick on Apr 24, 2009 0:45:52 GMT -5
is no one gonna tell me why they keep on getting called an asshole? because they've never had someone stand up to them before and treat them like we do.
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