Post by dante3x3 on May 5, 2009 20:54:36 GMT -5
Theirs alot of discussion on what purpose ones looks serve in attracting women. Very often, i hear the phrase "looks dont matter". Im sorry, but this is bullshit.
Why Looks Matter
Im a good looking guy. This has been established. I used to model (yes, its fucking gay, but you would not imagine the money. 700 bucks an hour for flexing at the camera). Because of this, I have an advantage over guys who arent winners in the same genetic lottery. Even when i was younger, and a TOTAL afc, no dress sense, no confidence at all, i would get hit on. I barely even realised it, until senior girls started coming up to me, and going "you are gonna be really hot when you are older."
At that point I sorta figured it out. And I can see, from talking to women, that they do judge on looks, on how good shape you are in, and its an enourmous plus to me, and to many other PUAs. Mystery is not a terrible looking guy, in a sort of gangly gothy way, David D looks like "a pansy George Clooney", and have you guys SEEN matador? He looks like an indian sex god!
Anyway, point is, dont let yourself think that looks mean nothing, my inner game was actualy totaly wrecked when i started game, and was told that my high cheekbones, fine features, strong jaw, thick black hair, and all the other things i had been complimented on meant nothing.
Gay is one of the most successful PUAs on this site, and you know what helps? hes fucking SEXY.
Robocop, attractive guy
notice a trend? the successful guys are the attractive ones.
lemme just put in a big NO HOMO disclaimer right here.
Ok, well, maybe a little homo.
Heres What You Do Now
Notice something else? Some of the worlds best PUAs are ugly as fuck. Style is an inspiration to me, as a jewish writer from nyc, but hes not a good looking guy. Niether was Ross Jeffries, or Zan, or Tyler D.
Looks are DHV. Muscles imply health, and that you are capable as a provider, and protecter. Being buff makes girls feel safe. Fat dudes sometimes get told the same thing. "you are like a big teddy bear."
Facial good looks imply preselection. Bear with me here. A girl assumed that a guy with certain features will have been preselected.
Lacking in looks can be easily overcome, all you have to do is demonstrate higher value sufficiently.
More Good News
Male good looks arent really all that quantifiable. I have plenty of friends who would not be considered genericaly good looking, but who have girls raving about their looks. Go figure.
Why Looks Matter
Im a good looking guy. This has been established. I used to model (yes, its fucking gay, but you would not imagine the money. 700 bucks an hour for flexing at the camera). Because of this, I have an advantage over guys who arent winners in the same genetic lottery. Even when i was younger, and a TOTAL afc, no dress sense, no confidence at all, i would get hit on. I barely even realised it, until senior girls started coming up to me, and going "you are gonna be really hot when you are older."
At that point I sorta figured it out. And I can see, from talking to women, that they do judge on looks, on how good shape you are in, and its an enourmous plus to me, and to many other PUAs. Mystery is not a terrible looking guy, in a sort of gangly gothy way, David D looks like "a pansy George Clooney", and have you guys SEEN matador? He looks like an indian sex god!
Anyway, point is, dont let yourself think that looks mean nothing, my inner game was actualy totaly wrecked when i started game, and was told that my high cheekbones, fine features, strong jaw, thick black hair, and all the other things i had been complimented on meant nothing.
Gay is one of the most successful PUAs on this site, and you know what helps? hes fucking SEXY.
Robocop, attractive guy
notice a trend? the successful guys are the attractive ones.
lemme just put in a big NO HOMO disclaimer right here.
Ok, well, maybe a little homo.
Heres What You Do Now
Notice something else? Some of the worlds best PUAs are ugly as fuck. Style is an inspiration to me, as a jewish writer from nyc, but hes not a good looking guy. Niether was Ross Jeffries, or Zan, or Tyler D.
Looks are DHV. Muscles imply health, and that you are capable as a provider, and protecter. Being buff makes girls feel safe. Fat dudes sometimes get told the same thing. "you are like a big teddy bear."
Facial good looks imply preselection. Bear with me here. A girl assumed that a guy with certain features will have been preselected.
Lacking in looks can be easily overcome, all you have to do is demonstrate higher value sufficiently.
More Good News
Male good looks arent really all that quantifiable. I have plenty of friends who would not be considered genericaly good looking, but who have girls raving about their looks. Go figure.
