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Post by $wagg on May 10, 2009 9:33:20 GMT -5
So I finally saw who my true friends are. Let's call them J and D. I have been smoking with J and D for the last few months. Usually, I would throw down but they threw down too.. I've known D for for years and J for a year now. I thought I was close with them..guess not. I guess I should admit that it has been my fault for not wanting to admit the truth. There has been a few incidents in which I always gave them the benefit of the doubt, hoping there was some other excuse to their behavior then they plainly don't really respect me, and see me more as a pawn then anything else. Yesterday, D threw a party for someone else that was coming back. I asked if I could come through and he said I had to bring something to the party..booze or weed. FUCK THAT.. But it sucks now, cause I need to make some new friends.. It's just sad when you are nice to people, and they don't reflect the behavior. /rant
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Post by SenorBubbz on May 10, 2009 10:07:49 GMT -5
You let them walk all over you =/ That's why they didn't respect you. With your new group of friends, be more alpha and if they ask for you to do something they could easily do themselves, say no.
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Post by $wagg on May 10, 2009 10:21:07 GMT -5
Thanks man..I guess that brings the question. 13 days of school left, can I do it? YES I CAN But seriously, I'm thinking of just goin on a sargefest..Hittin up people I know and don't know and escalatin relationships. Advice anyone?
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Post by SenorBubbz on May 10, 2009 10:34:59 GMT -5
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Post by MarthXII on May 10, 2009 13:46:11 GMT -5
hmmm, J and D. Well, that sucks for you, But dont you think its going a little too far? I mean, He asked you to bring booze or weed, maybe because theyve brought shit alot of times too? Is there anything else that happend? Because People tend to walk over people sometimes but they are friends. Even with my Best Friend Gabe, He always Gets angry because Im cynical at times, But we get along better after I suck up or say sorry Lol. Same thing for him, I sometimes get angry on purpose to Piss him off because he was Being an ass And He does the same. Relationships are based on Hardships. Thats why you gotta fight man. True friends are the ones that Like you no matter what. if they ask you to bring something they may not have money or w/e the case is. Just ask and resolve it. I find that if you stay in a bad relationship with someone or you lose friends, Youll lose confidence, But dont mistake this With being everyones bitch and scking up to everyone, If they really are not your Friends and you tried to make peace by asking whats wrong But they just give you shit, Thats when you know they arent anything good. Lol.
Long explanation And I felt like ranting xP
Make new friends though, Its the base to everything with new social communication! =D
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Post by $wagg on May 10, 2009 15:05:47 GMT -5
Well I would do it, but in this case it is I who always brings weed. Pretty much 85% of the time I'm throwin down on 90% of the weed, that doesn't make any sense now does it?
And really? I mean I've known D for 4 years and I met J this year but since then I was pretty sure we were cool, especially since we are ALWAYS chillin together at school when possible (morning, lunch, school plays, whatever)...
I guess they thought I wasn't cool enough to go to their party or something..I know for a fact they didn't want me there: I texted both of them. In fact, I made plans with D for a sesh earlier in the day, but I guess because he was getting shit ready, he never could.
I then texted him that night about it and he never replied. Then I texted J sayin wasup and all that, and he was respondin pretty fast and shit, but when I asked him if he was at D's party he never replied. I shrugged it off and tried to push the convo, just askin him how that shit's goin and he still didn't reply.
My point is I don't care if someone likes me or not but I'd hope they'd have the decency to at least tell what's wrong so I can do something about it, and if not, at least not be fake about it.
All I know is, a new social circle is definitely in need. I can't have people in there that I trust, but who in return "play" me.
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Post by Chris on May 10, 2009 15:15:00 GMT -5
seriously, the only advice you need to make friends is just TALK TO THEM, A LOTT. people will remember you because you talked to them, not because what you said, dont worry about words. just smile and keep conversations positive. seriously just be as social as you possibly can.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on May 11, 2009 0:55:25 GMT -5
As a fellow stoner...I ask you this sir...
Why the fuck, I repeat, THE FUCK, are you letting WEED and BOOZE, come between you and a friend?
I know that stoners arn't always as emotional as us, and they might not respect you.
But there is no reason to burn all bridges with them just because they asked you to bring weed or booze.
Go the fuck out, you need more friends clearly, it should be where you have atleast 20 SOLID friends. Then your well on your way to not being a bitch.
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Post by $wagg on May 11, 2009 8:38:09 GMT -5
Haha no shit but if you know my family background and knew that they are some strict motherfuckers and I'm gettin in serious heat with them just for trying to go out..
I'm workin on that tho.
But anyways an update. After my wake-n-bake sesh I've come up with a brand new plan. You guys will be proud: Just game them like a motherfuckin set hahaha.
I'll hold my shit from them when I got some and just see if I can get anything outta them..USE PUSH AND PULL CAUSE IVE SEEN THIS SHIT DO MIRACLES LOL
Later
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