Post by ascendancy on May 11, 2009 18:30:01 GMT -5
A couple days ago, a new member contacted me via AIM, he cem looking for advice and i told him about the theory in this post. As soon as i did i felt like a hypocrite because i was giving someone else advice (when i'm still in a state where i have to keep asking others.) So plz tell me what you think of this post, because i don't want to have led him in the wrong direction.
I learned this from a friend of mine, Max, who did this unintentionally. I remember us talking, and I was consumed by admiration for him. He seemed to know everything, and he introduced me to one of his friends, who talked about how Max put him to work. I didn't hesitate to hold his briefcase for him while he took off his Jacket (florida heat sucks).
Later I thought about why I had so much admiration for him, why i looked up to him in spite of the fact that he's human, and i realized that the reason I looked up to any of my peers was because they had DHV'd around me, just as we are all trying to do around women. I then also realized how his friends helped him with it, and how he had qualified me with the briefcase.
So i realized: You can game your friends, and turn them into loyal followers! All you need to do is DHV around them (think about the guy's that you look up to, and you'll get some ideas) to make them admire you, and qualify them to establish yourself as the alpha of the pack. If you do it well enough, they might even think that you deserve any girl that you go after, and be happily willing to help. But even if they don't know about it, it doesnt matter.
Continue this, and then the "Leader of men" attraction switch is covered as soon as you introduce your target to one of the loyal followers. Plus, that person may have stories of all the times he's served you, and still be happy about it.
I haven't field tested this yet, but i Intend to. Again, tell me what you think, plz.
I learned this from a friend of mine, Max, who did this unintentionally. I remember us talking, and I was consumed by admiration for him. He seemed to know everything, and he introduced me to one of his friends, who talked about how Max put him to work. I didn't hesitate to hold his briefcase for him while he took off his Jacket (florida heat sucks).
Later I thought about why I had so much admiration for him, why i looked up to him in spite of the fact that he's human, and i realized that the reason I looked up to any of my peers was because they had DHV'd around me, just as we are all trying to do around women. I then also realized how his friends helped him with it, and how he had qualified me with the briefcase.
So i realized: You can game your friends, and turn them into loyal followers! All you need to do is DHV around them (think about the guy's that you look up to, and you'll get some ideas) to make them admire you, and qualify them to establish yourself as the alpha of the pack. If you do it well enough, they might even think that you deserve any girl that you go after, and be happily willing to help. But even if they don't know about it, it doesnt matter.
Continue this, and then the "Leader of men" attraction switch is covered as soon as you introduce your target to one of the loyal followers. Plus, that person may have stories of all the times he's served you, and still be happy about it.
I haven't field tested this yet, but i Intend to. Again, tell me what you think, plz.