amantheman
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Post by amantheman on May 21, 2009 16:01:19 GMT -5
How do i ask her to be my girlfriend? Thought never really occured to me but we been hanging out alot an getting sexual an i know she wants to 'date' me an i would like to have a steady gf. Havent had one in like 2 years lol.
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on May 25, 2009 21:05:08 GMT -5
Don't.
Keep taking her out on dates, hanging out with her all the time.
If she really wants it to be "exclusive" then she'll ask you for it.
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kristallnachte
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Post by kristallnachte on Jun 4, 2009 10:46:59 GMT -5
its not about the exclusivity, more the making it official aspect.
but yeah, eventually she'll bring it up.
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Cobra
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Post by Cobra on Oct 2, 2009 1:35:44 GMT -5
I have the same problem.
Leaving it up to her is retarded, though. Why would you leave it up to her? Do you leave anything else you want to do up to her in pickup? NO! YOU FUCKING GO FOR IT. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE YOU ARE AN ALPHA FUCKING MALE AND ALPHA FUCKING MALES GO OUT AND GET WHAT THEY WANT, THEMSELVES.
One time what worked well, was I kissed her for a few seconds, pulled away (but not too far away), looked into her eyes and said "So, do you want to make it official?". I don't think that would work every single time, though. So does anyone have anything else, besides waiting for her to do it for you?
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Post by ken on Oct 2, 2009 14:10:51 GMT -5
Why make it official? Date as many girls as possible and get as much booty as you can. If she wants it to be official chances are she will let you know and then go from there.
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Alek
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Post by Alek on Oct 2, 2009 17:29:17 GMT -5
ya pull out the dildo n be like, bitch suck on dis one.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 2, 2009 20:46:14 GMT -5
xD
Just ask her. Like if its the elephant in the room and you both want it, just do it. Girl I was goin out with last year wondered why i didnt invite her to prom. I told her i assumed it already. She jsut wanted me to ask xD
Basically, just do it.
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Post by cork on Oct 3, 2009 1:46:32 GMT -5
I have the same problem. Leaving it up to her is retarded, though. Why would you leave it up to her? Do you leave anything else you want to do up to her in pickup? NO! YOU FUCKING GO FOR IT. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE YOU ARE AN ALPHA FUCKING MALE AND ALPHA FUCKING MALES GO OUT AND GET WHAT THEY WANT, THEMSELVES. WRONG. AMOGing isn't being some mad "top dog" whenever possible. It's knowing what makes you seem like a leader. If you ask her out directly, you're seeking rapport. It's not UNattractive to ask a girl out, but it's giving her the idea that YOU are the one trying to get HER. And then SHE has control. Explain to me how that's Alpha again...? |
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Post by ken on Oct 3, 2009 3:02:48 GMT -5
Do her first if its good then make it a regular thing
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Cobra
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Post by Cobra on Oct 3, 2009 4:08:30 GMT -5
First of all, to those who are saying that it's best to just date and get as much ass as possible, I don't disagree. However, if you find that one girl who is just completly amazing in your eyes, you might want to lock her up. Nothing wrong with that. I have the same problem. Leaving it up to her is retarded, though. Why would you leave it up to her? Do you leave anything else you want to do up to her in pickup? NO! YOU FUCKING GO FOR IT. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE YOU ARE AN ALPHA FUCKING MALE AND ALPHA FUCKING MALES GO OUT AND GET WHAT THEY WANT, THEMSELVES. WRONG. AMOGing isn't being some mad "top dog" whenever possible. It's knowing what makes you seem like a leader. If you ask her out directly, you're seeking rapport. It's not UNattractive to ask a girl out, but it's giving her the idea that YOU are the one trying to get HER. And then SHE has control. Explain to me how that's Alpha again...? "Top dog"? All I was talking about was going out and doing what you need to do to get what you desire. What's wrong with being a mad top dog, though? Does it not show that you are a leader when you go out and get what you want? Is a leader not someone who does what THEY want? You can't say it's unattractive, and then not unattractive, and then go on to describe how it portrays something unattractive. Pick one. Even if it is unattractive, is asking her out really going to make her NOT like you, if she did before? If this has happened to ANYONE, I would like to hear about it. Lastly, obviously you're not going to ask her out after you get in a huge fight. Think of this as something you reward her with. |
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Post by ken on Oct 3, 2009 5:31:16 GMT -5
Ehh don't tie your self down in a realationship until your at least 24 and even then always be ready for it to blow over.
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Post by cork on Oct 3, 2009 7:22:56 GMT -5
Of course you don't mean avoid having girlfriends? This is high school, this is the age when every normal person is supposed to experiment with the dating scene. Sure it's not good to "tie yourself down". But that will be true your whole life. As long as you don't let your feelings depend on anyone else's, girl OR guy, then there's no harm in a relationship here and there. I mean, you're BOUND to have feelings. I WOULD advise, however, not to get into a relationship unless you really care about the girl.
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nino g
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Post by nino g on Oct 3, 2009 10:19:27 GMT -5
Just do it seriously. . Shes gonna say yes
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Post by cork on Oct 3, 2009 12:22:20 GMT -5
Bizzare: You're rambling. Stop trying to pick a fight. It's NOT unattractive to ask a girl out. It's just so much BETTER to make her work for it. And yes, you do what you need to do. Always. But if you're always laying your cards out for the target to see, you're not being smart. You'll get the hang of it...
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Post by ken on Oct 3, 2009 13:25:51 GMT -5
No I mean don't get serious.
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