Alek
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Registered: Oct 27, 2008 13:39:11 GMT -5
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Post by Alek on Oct 3, 2009 13:34:13 GMT -5
This is high school, this is the age when every normal person is supposed to experiment with the dating scene. bahahahaha normal! |
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Cobra
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Registered: Feb 17, 2009 0:26:59 GMT -5
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Post by Cobra on Oct 3, 2009 16:31:05 GMT -5
Bizzare: You're rambling. Stop trying to pick a fight. It's NOT unattractive to ask a girl out. It's just so much BETTER to make her work for it. And yes, you do what you need to do. Always. But if you're always laying your cards out for the target to see, you're not being smart. You'll get the hang of it... I wasn't trying to pick a fight at all, just having a discussion, bro. Sorry if it seemed that way, though. Obviously it's better to make her work for it and that's exactly what I meant when I said "think of it as rewarding her". |
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Post by cork on Oct 3, 2009 17:57:58 GMT -5
Good save.
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Cobra
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Post by Cobra on Oct 3, 2009 20:20:28 GMT -5
Thanks! Nice rebuttal!
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Post by cork on Oct 4, 2009 11:32:13 GMT -5
This is high school, this is the age when every normal person is supposed to experiment with the dating scene. bahahahaha normal! ...So YOU don't experiment. You go out and take the spoils. But you can't just say, ''fuck everything everyone else does''. You pick and choose. |
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jaxin
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Registered: Oct 2, 2009 10:51:44 GMT -5
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Post by jaxin on Oct 5, 2009 11:21:54 GMT -5
I agree with the previous guy, now obviously not all the newbies are going to listen to us, that's fine. But here's how it is, when you ask a girl out you give up your prizability and she has the option of saying yes or no. Everyone has to remember the most important thing in pickup ever, YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY.
That's just how it is. If you're explicitly going out there and asking a girl out it's like handing over your balls in a glass jar. I don't disagree that you should just take what you want, but asking is not taking, at all. If you want her, then you tell her after you hook by saying 'You're my girlfriend now, brag to all your friends'.
Just don't be that loser from the highschool tv shows that goes up to her locker and asks her out to prom or some bullshit. Just go in there, dive in, and remember if you want to be good at this, you have to be willing to lose it all.
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SamethP
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Registered: Sept 27, 2008 18:34:21 GMT -5
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Post by SamethP on Oct 5, 2009 16:31:19 GMT -5
the most important thing if youre going to get a girlfriend (exclusive). Dont Fucking Worry About How The Fuck You Look As A Fucking PUA! If you like her that much then just ask her man, honestly, its okay to let her have some power, it gives her a sense of power and makes everything run smoother. Take that from a guy with a 9 month exclusive relationship thats still running  |
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extra
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Registered: Mar 11, 2009 19:45:41 GMT -5
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Post by extra on Oct 6, 2009 18:05:53 GMT -5
If you want it, say it. That's what I did and it worked great. But I also agree: you always have to be willing to walk away. Keeping this mentality gets hard at times but you have to keep it for yourself.
It's like pick up stuff - if she wants it too, and likes you, you can bungle it incredibly and it will still be all good.
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