Post by twitchy on May 22, 2009 14:51:32 GMT -5
Being Adventurous
Twitchy here again, for my second lesson.
===Being adventurous===
The reason you're not having fun is because you feel out of place. Facing the truth, school has a very obvious hierarchy of cool guys and hot girls, and you found yourself awash in them and not sure how to compose yourself
So lets break down the four attributes of guys who hook up. It doesn't matter your age, once you've got these traits, you will get laid, like crazy. Its critical that you know these and integrate them into who you are.
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The first trait is, as per the title, adventerous. AKA having big balls.
Now look, I know from the fact that you're on these forums reading this that you are a pretty introverted guy and that you've never done anything particularly reckless. But, in school, you will start putting yourself in a position to hook up with a lot more girls if you are out in the front of the crowd. You need to internalize the other traits, but it will improve your chances dramatically if you're not communicating that you're a sullen, thoughtful little philosopher.
Looking at it another weay, when you're adventurous, you're doing things that get girls' attention. I don't recommend hitting a three story beer bong, but it is stuff like that that makes people smile, laugh, and most importantly FEEL LIKE THEY ARE IN HS. Its pretty obvious really, you probably know this already, just start doing it then.
Becoming adventerous and staking out a lead in whatever activity will do two things:
1)It will make you a leader of men
2)It will get you talking to lots of girls.
Don't mess up being adventurous with bneing something else. If you're the budding PUA who walks up to a girl with some routines and tries to make her laugh, you think you're being adventerous, but it isn't really.
When you're adventurous, you are up for ADVENTURE. A routine doesn't demonstrate that you're going to be fun, it demonstrates that you can memorise lines.
For me, being adventurous is who I am. I am not as reckless as I wish to be, but I am an active and adventurous person. I climb mountains goddammit. I'm going to the himalayas for five weeks walking this summer. I go on army camps and I do stupid pranks. All this comes out when I speak to people because it is who I am. To become adventurous, have adventurous habits.
To quote Aristotle: We are the sum of our habits.
Thus to become something we are not, we must create habits integrating that which we wish to become.
So how does this manifest?
Say its snowing, and you're dorming. Go collect a couple of friends, then go to the girls floor and start knocking on every door to try to get them into a snowball fight, of course some of them won't go, but the ones who do will have a blast and remember you.
So, in conclusion
"make people SMILE, LAUGH, and most importantly, feel like they are at HS"
Twitchy here again, for my second lesson.
===Being adventurous===
The reason you're not having fun is because you feel out of place. Facing the truth, school has a very obvious hierarchy of cool guys and hot girls, and you found yourself awash in them and not sure how to compose yourself
So lets break down the four attributes of guys who hook up. It doesn't matter your age, once you've got these traits, you will get laid, like crazy. Its critical that you know these and integrate them into who you are.
===
The first trait is, as per the title, adventerous. AKA having big balls.
Now look, I know from the fact that you're on these forums reading this that you are a pretty introverted guy and that you've never done anything particularly reckless. But, in school, you will start putting yourself in a position to hook up with a lot more girls if you are out in the front of the crowd. You need to internalize the other traits, but it will improve your chances dramatically if you're not communicating that you're a sullen, thoughtful little philosopher.
Looking at it another weay, when you're adventurous, you're doing things that get girls' attention. I don't recommend hitting a three story beer bong, but it is stuff like that that makes people smile, laugh, and most importantly FEEL LIKE THEY ARE IN HS. Its pretty obvious really, you probably know this already, just start doing it then.
Becoming adventerous and staking out a lead in whatever activity will do two things:
1)It will make you a leader of men
2)It will get you talking to lots of girls.
Don't mess up being adventurous with bneing something else. If you're the budding PUA who walks up to a girl with some routines and tries to make her laugh, you think you're being adventerous, but it isn't really.
When you're adventurous, you are up for ADVENTURE. A routine doesn't demonstrate that you're going to be fun, it demonstrates that you can memorise lines.
For me, being adventurous is who I am. I am not as reckless as I wish to be, but I am an active and adventurous person. I climb mountains goddammit. I'm going to the himalayas for five weeks walking this summer. I go on army camps and I do stupid pranks. All this comes out when I speak to people because it is who I am. To become adventurous, have adventurous habits.
To quote Aristotle: We are the sum of our habits.
Thus to become something we are not, we must create habits integrating that which we wish to become.
So how does this manifest?
Say its snowing, and you're dorming. Go collect a couple of friends, then go to the girls floor and start knocking on every door to try to get them into a snowball fight, of course some of them won't go, but the ones who do will have a blast and remember you.
So, in conclusion
"make people SMILE, LAUGH, and most importantly, feel like they are at HS"
