Post by RedDog on May 21, 2009 22:20:29 GMT -5
Natural Game-How to Learn how to talk to girls
By RedDog HSPF
Hey guys, RedDog here. I know when I was an afc, I had no idea how to keep conversations with girls. Now, I do it subconsciously. It can seem hard to learn at first.
I'm not going to tell you Inner game stuff like "Just do it" for the whole article.I'll just give you the one tip that helped me immensely. Are you ready?
BEFRIEND GIRLS
Yeah, it's that simple. I have about 3 or 4 really good friends that are girls. Are they 9's and 10's? No. But they are hot enough to be good training."Well wait Red, Aren't I supposed to game girls?" Yeah! But... not EVERY girl you see. You'll just come off as a creep.In fact, alot of my targets come from other schools because I friend alot of girls at my school. By the way, Guess who introduces me to these other girls?
Your text game gets so great. I never go afc, I just stay cool without going sexual basically(Though I have at times, but of course we both know we'd never go out)I'm not an AFC who's saying "You're so beautiful you are awesome" and then trying to get blown... NO! Just me, running comfort.
I'm the guy that girls love, The one that they'll introduce to their hotter friends and already DHV me..In person? I'm awesome. The stuff before like conversational flow, vibing, etc., the stuff I worked HOURS trying to find examples, happens naturally now.I can go from talking about a project in class to talking about potheads.I know how to joke around now.
Number closes? Made simple since I got used to it. Seriously, ITS NOT THAT HARD. Just ask. (Although alot of girls ask me =D)
Kino? Don't get me started. I'm so sensual... Girls that are comfortable with me Kind of touch me everywhere but the groin, and vice versa(and the chest... sorta
)I can give fun little smiles... Girls go in my bubble..
Inside jokes, Nicknames.. more kino I stay In a comfort state with like a hint of sexual.Oh, by the way, The girls that I'm friends with love me, and the others are aware of it. It's a big DHV. We all know girls talk all the time. Watch:
FHB7.5:Hey HB9, Do you know RedDog? He's so cool and funny and etc........
HB9:No I don't! I'll have to meet him! *Insert fashion here*
See? DHV! Girls come to you. Social proof much?Another IMPORTANT tip: Bro's before Hoes... DO NOT go telling the private info your boys tell you to FHB7.5. All you get is looking like a pussy.I don't tell ANYTHING to anyone. Creating a confidence bond is key to rapport, for both genders.Trust me, FHB7.5 will not be mad if you don't tell her who OOYB(One of your boys) likes. If you do, BIG DLV and you look like a afc who tries to get girls by telling them everything.NOOOOO!
What to DO:
Be a great guy... Listen and shit.. Joke around, Have fun. Text her Alot, have fun, Talk seriously sometimes... Have fun.
Basically game her without gaming her. Very little sexual, Just kino(This gets rid of Kino anxiety too) a bit.Yes, I've had my FHB's kino me alot, BEFORE i kino'ed them.
I'm so good, that when I actually game, its so smooth, and I get nearly the same reaction.
What NOT to DO:
Be a kiss up. This will win you NO friends. Girls talk, as aforementioned. they will label you as a kiss up.
Do NOT try to get too attached. What I mean is, again, don't be her lapdog. Your friendship needs to be equal!
This is kind of hard to explain, But don't favor your boys over your FHB's and vice versa. I Try to stay out of arguments and shit.
Do EVERY activity with her/them. You still have your boys. Try to make it a 45%25%30% Ratio For Your Boys/Hb's/FHB's
That's an Estimate by the way.
I hope this helps you all,because It elevated my game to a whole nother level. My game is niiiiiiiiiiiice now.(Well, Attraction through Comfort, but hey)This may or may not help you, but I know I look back on me just learning pick-up... I'M MUCH BETTER! Take that in.
Happy Sarging(And Comfort!)
RedDog
By RedDog HSPF
Hey guys, RedDog here. I know when I was an afc, I had no idea how to keep conversations with girls. Now, I do it subconsciously. It can seem hard to learn at first.
I'm not going to tell you Inner game stuff like "Just do it" for the whole article.I'll just give you the one tip that helped me immensely. Are you ready?
BEFRIEND GIRLS
Yeah, it's that simple. I have about 3 or 4 really good friends that are girls. Are they 9's and 10's? No. But they are hot enough to be good training."Well wait Red, Aren't I supposed to game girls?" Yeah! But... not EVERY girl you see. You'll just come off as a creep.In fact, alot of my targets come from other schools because I friend alot of girls at my school. By the way, Guess who introduces me to these other girls?
Your text game gets so great. I never go afc, I just stay cool without going sexual basically(Though I have at times, but of course we both know we'd never go out)I'm not an AFC who's saying "You're so beautiful you are awesome" and then trying to get blown... NO! Just me, running comfort.
I'm the guy that girls love, The one that they'll introduce to their hotter friends and already DHV me..In person? I'm awesome. The stuff before like conversational flow, vibing, etc., the stuff I worked HOURS trying to find examples, happens naturally now.I can go from talking about a project in class to talking about potheads.I know how to joke around now.
Number closes? Made simple since I got used to it. Seriously, ITS NOT THAT HARD. Just ask. (Although alot of girls ask me =D)
Kino? Don't get me started. I'm so sensual... Girls that are comfortable with me Kind of touch me everywhere but the groin, and vice versa(and the chest... sorta
)I can give fun little smiles... Girls go in my bubble.. Inside jokes, Nicknames.. more kino
I stay In a comfort state with like a hint of sexual.Oh, by the way, The girls that I'm friends with love me, and the others are aware of it. It's a big DHV. We all know girls talk all the time. Watch:FHB7.5:Hey HB9, Do you know RedDog? He's so cool and funny and etc........
HB9:No I don't! I'll have to meet him! *Insert fashion here*
See? DHV! Girls come to you. Social proof much?Another IMPORTANT tip: Bro's before Hoes... DO NOT go telling the private info your boys tell you to FHB7.5. All you get is looking like a pussy.I don't tell ANYTHING to anyone. Creating a confidence bond is key to rapport, for both genders.Trust me, FHB7.5 will not be mad if you don't tell her who OOYB(One of your boys) likes. If you do, BIG DLV and you look like a afc who tries to get girls by telling them everything.NOOOOO!
What to DO:
Be a great guy... Listen and shit.. Joke around, Have fun. Text her Alot, have fun, Talk seriously sometimes... Have fun.
Basically game her without gaming her. Very little sexual, Just kino(This gets rid of Kino anxiety too) a bit.Yes, I've had my FHB's kino me alot, BEFORE i kino'ed them.
I'm so good, that when I actually game, its so smooth, and I get nearly the same reaction.
What NOT to DO:
Be a kiss up. This will win you NO friends. Girls talk, as aforementioned. they will label you as a kiss up.
Do NOT try to get too attached. What I mean is, again, don't be her lapdog. Your friendship needs to be equal!
This is kind of hard to explain, But don't favor your boys over your FHB's and vice versa. I Try to stay out of arguments and shit.
Do EVERY activity with her/them. You still have your boys. Try to make it a 45%25%30% Ratio For Your Boys/Hb's/FHB's
That's an Estimate by the way.
I hope this helps you all,because It elevated my game to a whole nother level. My game is niiiiiiiiiiiice now.(Well, Attraction through Comfort, but hey)This may or may not help you, but I know I look back on me just learning pick-up... I'M MUCH BETTER! Take that in.
Happy Sarging(And Comfort!)
RedDog
