Social Circles

[nutrick]

k, i'll probably try and open like "hey, have you seen a girl/dude named blah blah" then yeah. saweet thanks.

[Alek]

no..if you are gaming at another school - which you do not attend - just game any set you see lol. You dont go there, so it doesnt matter.

Game as usual

[darkpwns]

May 26, 2009 13:54:55 GMT -5 Alek said:

no..if you are gaming at another school - which you do not attend - just game any set you see lol. You dont go there, so it doesnt matter.

Game as usual

Yeah I was going to tell him that because of what happened today, I opened a set (different school) with "do you know where the best caramel fraps are?" and then I got them to lead me there, managed to number close them all...its not hard at all, nor nerve racking.

[nutrick]

May 26, 2009 16:53:59 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

May 26, 2009 13:54:55 GMT -5 Alek said:

no..if you are gaming at another school - which you do not attend - just game any set you see lol. You dont go there, so it doesnt matter.

Game as usual

Yeah I was going to tell him that because of what happened today, I opened a set (different school) with "do you know where the best caramel fraps are?" and then I got them to lead me there, managed to number close them all...its not hard at all, nor nerve racking.

alright sweet thanks.

[Alek]

yeah dude, and it adds mystery because ur a different face

[Mandrake]

I go to an all guy school too Nutrick, it shouldn't hinder you much

The key is just to dominate every weekend. Keep going out to parties and being a social animal, befriending everyone and getting big social proof. Game all the girls, even some of the less hot ones, until you have huge preselection. You need to continually create buzz until you actually gain a reputation, and you have to do it in multiple different social circles.

"A comedian who tells one funny joke is a comedian who tells a funny joke. A comedian who tells TEN funny jokes, isn't a comedian who told a funny joke anymore, he's a comedian who's funny." ––– Mystery

^^^ Get the rep by continually being a sheer beacon of awesomeness
....How to be such a beacon many of the guys on the forum have already described in other posts so there's not point in going into it here

I'm not sure how things are in Cali, but in Toronto there are three other all-girl schools which are really easy closes if you come from a respectable all guy school. By just attending that school, you DHV and show that you are smart (and assuming it's a private school, rich). You get immediate attraction from certain girls (this was the one of the main reasons I was able to get laid when I was still an AFC just over a year ago...) [ I consider my PUA career as: birth to eleven and a half months ago = big AFC, then I turned into a natural for a month, then I got one-itis and fucked shit up, reverted to afc ways, then a few months after that I read the game, and the rest is history], it's just not enough for the good ones. Also, at least at my school, the all-guy school and all-girl schools have events together every few weeks or so, and next year I have evening philosophy classes every Wednesday at a sister all-girl school. Check out the different events around your school that mix with the all girl schools.

Also be careful not to be too much of a cocky asshole when you are going cocky and funny, or else you're labelled an "arrogant preppy rich kid jerk" REALLY quickly. A really good way to get yourself out of this label is by being a great guy to everyone and making enough people love you that when you do something wrong, you're the one who gets defended instead of accused and verbally attacked

Also, get a reality check. Be really sure that you understand your environment. For a long time I was just an ignorant little boy who didn't know there were gang warfare, extreme poverty and serious crime problems in Toronto. Then I through chance stumbled into the social circle of kids that started doing drugs first and I began to see things a little differently. I became friends with drug dealers, I got to know the business, the players, the dealers and the junkies, even though I was a lower-upper-middle-class kid who had drank from a young age, but never even smoked a single joint. And after a w

This is part of being a Man. You have to be aware of your environment. That doesn't just mean what's going on with global warming, or North Korea, or Barack Obama. It means that you have to be aware of the true unseen face of your city. You have to know what's going on and can't just be a little child sheltered from the truth. This is sometimes hard to do when going to a high-class rich-kid private all guy school.

I have to get back to exam studying, but we'll deff have talks about this later bro. Just AIM me. I'm barely ever on...but when I do go on, we'll talk

[Terranceeee]

May 23, 2009 17:10:56 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

To get girls within your social circle is beyond simple. Just by having a social circle which will undoubtedly be filled with hot girls and by the countless girls that come to you looking for fun, giving you hugs, giving you kisses, coming out with you, you would have generated LOADS of pre-selection. Pre-selection makes the girl WANT to be with you, even if you haven't gamed her. Simply escalate on the girl you want and she could be yours...remember if a girl is in your social circle they don't have to be LJBF so don't treat non-LJBF girls as LJBF girls, initiate kino even while you are building your circle...ALWAYS be cocky & funny...and please for the love of god, don't hypnotize her.

Hmm I'm not so sure about creating your own social circles. Like your main goal is just to be going in flirting with HB1's all the way up to HB10 then you pull the trigger on her, and then BOOM domino effect, and you can fuck all the chicks below her. The only reason you would create your own si because you would be friends with them so that they could show you to other girls so that you can cold approach them.

[darkpwns]

Aug 10, 2009 13:10:03 GMT -5 Terranceeee said:

May 23, 2009 17:10:56 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

To get girls within your social circle is beyond simple. Just by having a social circle which will undoubtedly be filled with hot girls and by the countless girls that come to you looking for fun, giving you hugs, giving you kisses, coming out with you, you would have generated LOADS of pre-selection. Pre-selection makes the girl WANT to be with you, even if you haven't gamed her. Simply escalate on the girl you want and she could be yours...remember if a girl is in your social circle they don't have to be LJBF so don't treat non-LJBF girls as LJBF girls, initiate kino even while you are building your circle...ALWAYS be cocky & funny...and please for the love of god, don't hypnotize her.

Hmm I'm not so sure about creating your own social circles. Like your main goal is just to be going in flirting with HB1's all the way up to HB10 then you pull the trigger on her, and then BOOM domino effect, and you can fuck all the chicks below her. The only reason you would create your own si because you would be friends with them so that they could show you to other girls so that you can cold approach them.

Gaming is not a video game. Going for the HB1s will not open up the doors to HB2s etc., you have to go straight for the 10 and you can NEVER go below her (at least not in her group of buddies). And nah there are way more reasons to have your own social circle, to get a girl in a circle where you are visually social proofed is so much easier. Also they can open the doors to other girls like you said.

[Terranceeee]

Aug 14, 2009 3:25:40 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

Aug 10, 2009 13:10:03 GMT -5 Terranceeee said:

Hmm I'm not so sure about creating your own social circles. Like your main goal is just to be going in flirting with HB1's all the way up to HB10 then you pull the trigger on her, and then BOOM domino effect, and you can fuck all the chicks below her. The only reason you would create your own si because you would be friends with them so that they could show you to other girls so that you can cold approach them.

Gaming is not a video game. Going for the HB1s will not open up the doors to HB2s etc., you have to go straight for the 10 and you can NEVER go below her (at least not in her group of buddies). And nah there are way more reasons to have your own social circle, to get a girl in a circle where you are visually social proofed is so much easier. Also they can open the doors to other girls like you said.

Well my bad I didn't mean HB1's. I meant just flirt your way up from kinda hot to HB10's. Why would you go right at the HB10 if no other chicks even know you? And you don't have to fuck all chicks below her, I'm just saying if you WANT to, and if that social circle doesn't matter to you anymore, than just fuck all of them and then just leave it. I wouldn't create my own social circle anyways because I would rather just get into one, date/fuck/whatever the HB10and get social proof off of that. But I wouldn't really care about that social proof anyways because I am mainly just trying to know everybody and just be popular and get buzz, then I wouldn't need SP.

[Volt]

Nicky, I'm against the idea of starting a social circle as well. I feel like it's much easier to join a circle and then take the reins than to start a new one. However, your post raises this question: if nobody knows you, then why not just go hang with the most popular/valuable people from the beginning? You don't have to climb ladders unless you're already in a hole.

[Deleted]

Thank you Volt, that was exactly what I was thinking.

If nobody knows you and as long as your not wearing suspenders with a pocket protector talk to the coolest kids and show them your A-game.

[harrymark]

Social Circles does not pretend to be a statistical application, but rather aims to raise the lights in that room just enough to let you enhance your perception of what's happening.