Post by twitchy on May 24, 2009 13:01:10 GMT -5
Twitchy's Third Lesson - Kino and Qualification
Okay, so perhaps you've learnt and adapted the first two lessons, and now you're probably thinking:
"Being adventurous is good and all, but I'm that already, and I'm not hooking up"
This is fair enough. I haven't spoken about the four essential traits that comprise the master yet, but there are two things that guys with all traits do that distinguish them.
The first of these is that you have to start kino'ing a LOT. Touch girls all the fucking time. Hug them, squeeze their arms, smack their butts etc. You need to be ALL OVER the girls you know. Not creepily all over, but FUN and PLAYFULLY all over. This is probably a big leap, and its important that you do it in a natural way, and that everyone is included.
Just remember that no matter how odd or wrong your behaviour is, you will get away with it should you have a strong enough frame.
Think about how this applies to you and kinoing a girl. If you're touching her with hesitation and you're nervous, she will sense that and she'll back away. But if you do it like its the most natural thing in the world, it'll be accepted and liked. Try it.
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The other thing you have to do is to qualify girls. This is not qualification, which can be done once they're attracted to ramp up sexual tension, but qualify them, make them feel good. To do this you tell them unique things about them that you like. For example: "I like how much fun you are. I meet tons of people who party, but I'm actually gaving fun with you - big difference, gimme a kiss."
Okay, so perhaps you've learnt and adapted the first two lessons, and now you're probably thinking:
"Being adventurous is good and all, but I'm that already, and I'm not hooking up"
This is fair enough. I haven't spoken about the four essential traits that comprise the master yet, but there are two things that guys with all traits do that distinguish them.
The first of these is that you have to start kino'ing a LOT. Touch girls all the fucking time. Hug them, squeeze their arms, smack their butts etc. You need to be ALL OVER the girls you know. Not creepily all over, but FUN and PLAYFULLY all over. This is probably a big leap, and its important that you do it in a natural way, and that everyone is included.
Just remember that no matter how odd or wrong your behaviour is, you will get away with it should you have a strong enough frame.
Think about how this applies to you and kinoing a girl. If you're touching her with hesitation and you're nervous, she will sense that and she'll back away. But if you do it like its the most natural thing in the world, it'll be accepted and liked. Try it.
=
The other thing you have to do is to qualify girls. This is not qualification, which can be done once they're attracted to ramp up sexual tension, but qualify them, make them feel good. To do this you tell them unique things about them that you like. For example: "I like how much fun you are. I meet tons of people who party, but I'm actually gaving fun with you - big difference, gimme a kiss."