Post by twitchy on May 24, 2009 13:21:43 GMT -5
Okay, in HS, and through into college you will often see those doofy looking guys ending up getting the girls, even the classy-looking ones. Why, you might tell yourself from your resevoirs of knowledge. He doesn't have fashion, he can't talk about interesting stuff, and if you're looking at him like this other girls might have that sort of first impression too. So how did he do it?
You can figure this out immediately by looking at their behaviour. Look, they are all over the girls. A little too much for even my taste but basically they don't hide their desitres. Some would make out with the girls, some would end up in private rooms, and little old you would start wondering how to be cool in that situation.
Look, Understand, Memorise
== Girls like to hook up ==
There was an audio I will listening to recently of someone talking about sex, I think is was one of David Ds interviews, and he made a great point. When two people have sex, who makes all the noise. Its the girl, they love sex. They want to hook up.
Looking back at my own past mistakes, MM and many other methods taught me that girls had to deeply connect with me before they'd sleep with me.
This 'connection' is only important when you're not pre-selected
These girls' realities are still fragile. If a guy comes along with strong sense of what he wants, ie he wants to fuck her, she's probably going to want to do it. Of course this is a gross generalisation, but if the guy demonstrates some of the four traits, is kinoing alot, and it feels on, she will probably end up hooking up with him.
And not to beat the dead horse, this is exactly why sarging doesn't work here. It is not direct, and it puts alot of unnecessary barriers between you and the girl.
Remember guys, these girls love attention from men. You're not doing yourself any favours by hanging on to your badly delivered "no supplication" belief, standing back and being cool, or waiting for her to come to you. The people who do this and get girls have already cultivated their personalities and presence over their time at HS/college.
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Going back to the notion of a connection, mystery said that the game is won in comfort. This is kind of the case in the city, the real world, in bars etc.
Remember, this is not the real world
Girls are not screening for future husband materials, they want to have the storybook teenage experience. A lot of girls will hop into bed with you or fuck you in the bathroom at a party as long as you can be direct and fun[/u].
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To conclude on what I've talked about so far, these are what you should do.
• Be adventurous
• Don’t sarge
• Lift other people up
• Show your interest
• Kino a lot
• Qualify her
You can figure this out immediately by looking at their behaviour. Look, they are all over the girls. A little too much for even my taste but basically they don't hide their desitres. Some would make out with the girls, some would end up in private rooms, and little old you would start wondering how to be cool in that situation.
Look, Understand, Memorise
== Girls like to hook up ==
There was an audio I will listening to recently of someone talking about sex, I think is was one of David Ds interviews, and he made a great point. When two people have sex, who makes all the noise. Its the girl, they love sex. They want to hook up.
Looking back at my own past mistakes, MM and many other methods taught me that girls had to deeply connect with me before they'd sleep with me.
This 'connection' is only important when you're not pre-selected
These girls' realities are still fragile. If a guy comes along with strong sense of what he wants, ie he wants to fuck her, she's probably going to want to do it. Of course this is a gross generalisation, but if the guy demonstrates some of the four traits, is kinoing alot, and it feels on, she will probably end up hooking up with him.
And not to beat the dead horse, this is exactly why sarging doesn't work here. It is not direct, and it puts alot of unnecessary barriers between you and the girl.
Remember guys, these girls love attention from men. You're not doing yourself any favours by hanging on to your badly delivered "no supplication" belief, standing back and being cool, or waiting for her to come to you. The people who do this and get girls have already cultivated their personalities and presence over their time at HS/college.
==
Going back to the notion of a connection, mystery said that the game is won in comfort. This is kind of the case in the city, the real world, in bars etc.
Remember, this is not the real world
Girls are not screening for future husband materials, they want to have the storybook teenage experience. A lot of girls will hop into bed with you or fuck you in the bathroom at a party as long as you can be direct and fun[/u].
=====
To conclude on what I've talked about so far, these are what you should do.
• Be adventurous
• Don’t sarge
• Lift other people up
• Show your interest
• Kino a lot
• Qualify her
