don't really know what i should do

[lolwut]

basically i had no idea where to post this so if this is the wrong place sorry for making you move this mods!

anyways, im new to the whole scene, and i was watching reruns of the pickup artist and thats what just interested me in learning about all of this stuff.

but anyways, i met this hb10 (at least, i think), whos really quiet and isn't really part of the popular scene. One of the kids from the basketball team is going with her to homecoming, but they're not really dating. She's kinda shy but like i've talked to her somewhat, occasionally cracking jokes or teasing her. I haven't talked to her outside of school at all.

i have a couple classes with her and stuff, but i mean i just dont really know how to get her to think im different (in a good way) than for example guys like the guy shes going to homecoming with. I know she thinks im hilarious, but i dont think thats really enough.


i mean i've been reading around and i would just use some of the stuff i see here, but she's kinda quieter than most girls i've met, and I think some stuff might weird her out.

Sorry for the long post, and im sure you've seen situations like this before, but i just didn't really know how to apply the stuff im reading to her.

[Grape]

HB w/ LSE
Hot blonde with low self esteem
Been there done that.
These chicks are usually the freakiest in bed. (lol)
However, she isn't as surrounded by other guys as some girls so gaming her will only require that you be a real MAN and a nice person she wants to be with.
So get to know her by inviting her out to your house or w/e.

[Chris]

Also with shy girls, DONT NEG. Negs are designed for bitch shields. Go LIGHT on the cocky funny.

[lolwut]

thanks. yeah it makes sense that i would go easy on the cocky funny.


i mean idk if she has low self esteem, she's just pretty quiet. I mean she shouldnt have low self-esteem because shes new at my school and already shes got guys going after her. shes pretty fucking smart though, and i definitely could hang with her, i mean i have no trouble talking to her.

she's shit tested me before though, and i dont think i really held up on my own. i was talking to her and like somehow we got on this topic about this one girl in our school, and i mentioned that she was like really strong kinda like a dude, and could probably kick my ass, and she was like "everyone can kick your ass". so i was like "well ill meet you outside after school, lets throw down" lol.

i mean that seemed like a shit test to me, but idk once again im new to this.

[Andrew]

ooh that was definately not a shit test. that was some sweet teasing there.

I mean, you handled it perfectly, but if you had said something like yeah your probably right im weak then you would have failed her noexistent shit-test.

I personally cant deal with girls with low-self esteem, its just too much work and its no fun for me. But basically be a nice person, stay with the funny, and get some good alpha body language down.

You seem like your doing a pretty good job so far =D

[lolwut]

yeah, i get what you mean.

I mean i wouldn't really deal with shy girls much, but she's pretty cool. I mean like its more fun to hang out with a more talkative girl, but she's definitely one of the hotter but smarter girls in my grade.

we'll see how it works out. Thanks again guys, i'll just go with everyone's advice and ease up on the cocky/funny.

[nine]

I think you're looking pretty good already. That, "Let's fight" shit is golden, I use it all the time, hell I used it today. I say you'll be alright.

Nine

[lolwut]

i only have study hall like a couple times a week (which is when i have the most time to talk to her), so its kinda annoying. But she approaches me sometimes in other classes and stuff to talk, so i guess im doing alright.

i still haven't number closed, and im not sure how im gonna do it. Plus this week is a short week at our school so we haven't talked as much as i'd liked to.

[Andrew]

if your having a good conversation or just talking at the end of study say something like wow that was cool you should give me your number so we can continue that.

Dont pose it as a question, because if you pose it like "you should give me your number," your not giving her the option, but your not ordering her to do something. It has a very stron psychological impact.

[lolwut]

yeah ill definitely do that. it sounds less shy and awkward than "can i have your number"

[nine]

I usually just go, "Here, put your number in," and hand her my phone. Never failed to close before. It's even a good neg if she doesn't know how to do it (it's a sidekick).

Nine

[SamethP]

lol ive done that nine xD

[lolwut]

thats genius. I gotta try that one out. We've been getting a lotta days off so i havent talked to the girl in a while. But im not complaining, cause no school is amazing!

[SamethP]

haha hell yea

[lolwut]

im pretty sure im fucking up. lately all we talk about is school and shit, and im thinking im getting sucked into ljbf


i hope not.