Post by Deleted on May 26, 2009 19:52:33 GMT -5
Beliefs are thoughts we make real.
Beliefs are a tremendous driving force for everything we do. Every essence of our personality, strengths, weaknesses, and inner game is derived from our core beliefs. Our beliefs make or break us and people don’t realize how important beliefs truly are.
Nothing’s real until we make them real ourselves.
For example, think of a negative thought you have on a recurring basis. Notice that if that voice inside your head says, “yup that’s true, that’s real”, that thought takes like a liquid form and starts flowing down your body and that thought becomes you. Those thoughts own you in that moment. If you believe girls aren’t sexually attracted to you, you will unconsciously push them away, even if you don’t want to. You could be having an amazing time with this girl, but as soon as you get the thought of, “Wow, this is going amazing. However, it’s only a matter of time before I screw something up or make the conversation awkward”, that thought will materialize and happen.
People have instinctual intelligence. Even though you can’t hear people’s thoughts you can feel these thoughts.
Do NOT try to impress women. When you try too hard to impress women, they will assume something is up. They think you are overcompensating for something that she won’t like about you. She’ll think that this isn’t the real you and this is just a façade to try to win or buy her romance. Face it; women want someone strong, confident, and not needy. As soon as you try to show her all the things you can do, she sees you as a needy wuss and will run for the hills.
Think of it this way. In poker, there’s always one guy who gets those pocket jacks and he knows he’s got this in the bag. So he goes all in. Everyone sees this and folds. The pot never gets sweetened and the guy with the pocket jacks gets very little to nothing because the pot never got sweetened. If you tell her about all this stuff you have and can do and try to show her you’re good for her, you’re pushing yourself too hard on her and basically make her fold. You want her to go all in.
If they find out later, it’s better than you telling them.
Build a cool life and be adventurous and fascinating. If you do things to impress yourself instead of others and no one else cares about what you’ve done, you’re all right with that, because guess what. Only what you think should matter. No one else around you has the ability to judge you or the things you’ve accomplished because if you feel proud of it, no one should put you down.
Do not tell others about your accomplishments to try and impress them. Not only does it say that you are extremely humble, but it shows that you have a great personality and don’t need a bunch of accomplishments to make others like you. No one likes the guy going around bragging he can bench 300. Everyone likes the guy who’s cool and humble and then goes to the gym and everyone sees him bench 300.
The ability to love yourself and others no matter what happens is an ability that will take you tremendously far in life. Just for one day, find you’re self irresistible. Just think, seriously who wouldn’t love me?
Let your insecurities go.
Whatever sucks about your life...well, yeah it sucks, but guess what? You can’t do anything to change it. It’s in the past or going to be in the past and the only people who will remember it is you. Let these go. Let it go right now. But, only you can let these issues go. I could get on my hands and knees and beg for you to get over it, but you never will if you don’t believe that you can get over it and that it truly has no effect on your life and the way you live it. Life keeps on turning and it will keep turning with or without you. You need to stay out of the viscous cycle of pity and wallowing. LET IT GO. Look around your life and see all the amazing things about it. People have it much much worse than you everywhere you go. You’ve got it pretty sweet so don’t sweat the small stuff.
Believing Is Seeing.
Seeing is NOT believing. That is the biggest lie. You see what you believe. Whatever you believe about yourself you will see. When you believe you are the biggest stud on the earth you will find examples of this all over as long as that is what you believe. Look at anorexic chicks. What do they believe? They believe they see a fat girl when they look in the mirror when in reality they are rail thin. It’s because they believe something to be true so they see it.
Beliefs become real. It tricks the mind. Your beliefs are so real and you are the only one that can make them into reality.
There are tons of ways to change your ways of thinking for the better. A few of these are positive self talk and affirmations.
Believe it or not, you are always talking to yourself. Always. Even when you don’t believe you’re talking to yourself, you’re talking to yourself about not talking to yourself
. What people don’t realize is that sometimes your mind is telling you terrible things that not even your worst enemy would tell you. STOP THIS. Always, always, always speak positively to yourself. Even when faced with the worst thing, find the silver lining. Soon, your mind will change for the better and you will always have a positive outlook and never doubt yourself.
Affirmations work. I don’t care what anyone else says, I know personally that they work. However, you need to believe your affirmations. When you believe what you’re saying to yourself you could say you’re the Queen of fucking England and still act like it because you believe it. Every day I tell myself these affirmations:
Being with me is the best possible choice any woman could make.
You are aggressive, direct, and powerful with the women you desire. You radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
Women need me and I’m just giving them a chance to get to know me and enter my reality. If someone doesn’t like that, they should get the hell out of the way because there is an even better looking woman behind her who does want to spend time with me.
Your mind is focused on what you desire. You go for what you want congruently and powerfully.
And guess what. They come true.
Whatever you believe you will see. Always treat yourself with love and respect and you will get these back in return. Your life is whatever you want it to be, so why not reach for the stars and become something you’ve always wanted to be. Anything is possible as long as you BELIEVE it.
Beliefs are a tremendous driving force for everything we do. Every essence of our personality, strengths, weaknesses, and inner game is derived from our core beliefs. Our beliefs make or break us and people don’t realize how important beliefs truly are.
Nothing’s real until we make them real ourselves.
For example, think of a negative thought you have on a recurring basis. Notice that if that voice inside your head says, “yup that’s true, that’s real”, that thought takes like a liquid form and starts flowing down your body and that thought becomes you. Those thoughts own you in that moment. If you believe girls aren’t sexually attracted to you, you will unconsciously push them away, even if you don’t want to. You could be having an amazing time with this girl, but as soon as you get the thought of, “Wow, this is going amazing. However, it’s only a matter of time before I screw something up or make the conversation awkward”, that thought will materialize and happen.
People have instinctual intelligence. Even though you can’t hear people’s thoughts you can feel these thoughts.
Do NOT try to impress women. When you try too hard to impress women, they will assume something is up. They think you are overcompensating for something that she won’t like about you. She’ll think that this isn’t the real you and this is just a façade to try to win or buy her romance. Face it; women want someone strong, confident, and not needy. As soon as you try to show her all the things you can do, she sees you as a needy wuss and will run for the hills.
Think of it this way. In poker, there’s always one guy who gets those pocket jacks and he knows he’s got this in the bag. So he goes all in. Everyone sees this and folds. The pot never gets sweetened and the guy with the pocket jacks gets very little to nothing because the pot never got sweetened. If you tell her about all this stuff you have and can do and try to show her you’re good for her, you’re pushing yourself too hard on her and basically make her fold. You want her to go all in.
If they find out later, it’s better than you telling them.
Build a cool life and be adventurous and fascinating. If you do things to impress yourself instead of others and no one else cares about what you’ve done, you’re all right with that, because guess what. Only what you think should matter. No one else around you has the ability to judge you or the things you’ve accomplished because if you feel proud of it, no one should put you down.
Do not tell others about your accomplishments to try and impress them. Not only does it say that you are extremely humble, but it shows that you have a great personality and don’t need a bunch of accomplishments to make others like you. No one likes the guy going around bragging he can bench 300. Everyone likes the guy who’s cool and humble and then goes to the gym and everyone sees him bench 300.
The ability to love yourself and others no matter what happens is an ability that will take you tremendously far in life. Just for one day, find you’re self irresistible. Just think, seriously who wouldn’t love me?
Let your insecurities go.
Whatever sucks about your life...well, yeah it sucks, but guess what? You can’t do anything to change it. It’s in the past or going to be in the past and the only people who will remember it is you. Let these go. Let it go right now. But, only you can let these issues go. I could get on my hands and knees and beg for you to get over it, but you never will if you don’t believe that you can get over it and that it truly has no effect on your life and the way you live it. Life keeps on turning and it will keep turning with or without you. You need to stay out of the viscous cycle of pity and wallowing. LET IT GO. Look around your life and see all the amazing things about it. People have it much much worse than you everywhere you go. You’ve got it pretty sweet so don’t sweat the small stuff.
Believing Is Seeing.
Seeing is NOT believing. That is the biggest lie. You see what you believe. Whatever you believe about yourself you will see. When you believe you are the biggest stud on the earth you will find examples of this all over as long as that is what you believe. Look at anorexic chicks. What do they believe? They believe they see a fat girl when they look in the mirror when in reality they are rail thin. It’s because they believe something to be true so they see it.
Beliefs become real. It tricks the mind. Your beliefs are so real and you are the only one that can make them into reality.
There are tons of ways to change your ways of thinking for the better. A few of these are positive self talk and affirmations.
Believe it or not, you are always talking to yourself. Always. Even when you don’t believe you’re talking to yourself, you’re talking to yourself about not talking to yourself
. What people don’t realize is that sometimes your mind is telling you terrible things that not even your worst enemy would tell you. STOP THIS. Always, always, always speak positively to yourself. Even when faced with the worst thing, find the silver lining. Soon, your mind will change for the better and you will always have a positive outlook and never doubt yourself.Affirmations work. I don’t care what anyone else says, I know personally that they work. However, you need to believe your affirmations. When you believe what you’re saying to yourself you could say you’re the Queen of fucking England and still act like it because you believe it. Every day I tell myself these affirmations:
Being with me is the best possible choice any woman could make.
You are aggressive, direct, and powerful with the women you desire. You radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
Women need me and I’m just giving them a chance to get to know me and enter my reality. If someone doesn’t like that, they should get the hell out of the way because there is an even better looking woman behind her who does want to spend time with me.
Your mind is focused on what you desire. You go for what you want congruently and powerfully.
And guess what. They come true.
Whatever you believe you will see. Always treat yourself with love and respect and you will get these back in return. Your life is whatever you want it to be, so why not reach for the stars and become something you’ve always wanted to be. Anything is possible as long as you BELIEVE it.
