Post by Chris on Oct 6, 2008 19:21:38 GMT -5
You guys probably should know by now inner game is the most important part. A big part of inner game is having the right beliefs. How do you get those beliefs internalized? Here are a few ways.
-Autosuggestion. Come up with some beliefs you want to internalize and rehearse them out loud every day twice.
-Rewriting. This is similar to autosuggestion. Rewriting the beliefs you want to internalize daily is very powerful.
-Visualization. Imagine yourself having those beliefs internalized. How would you act? Imagine the success you will have internalizing those beliefs.
-REvisualization. Did you have an interaction that didnt go so well, or maybe it did, but could of gone better? Imagine that interaction in your mind and what you couldve done to make it more powerful.
-writing and rewriting goals. Find out exactly what you want and keep writing that goal over and over untill you get there. Have faith with this.
-Reference group. You WILL become more similar to the people you hang out with a lot wether you like it or not. My advice: Go hang out with guys that are successful with girls. Their beliefs will influence yours and just hanging around them will permutate your mind to become more like them. This is maybe one of the most important concepts to succeeding. (hey if you wanna talk to fellow HS PUAs, post your AIM screen name.)
-Finally, searching your mind for evidence to back up the beliefs. Get out there and get some experience. Your mind will automatically search for evidence of your current beliefs making them stronger. You may have to do this consciously at first. (put on the lenses of the beliefs you want.)
After doing this stuff for a while, YOU as a person will change for the better. Developing an unstoppable inner game and core confidence is my main goal for developing myself.
-Autosuggestion. Come up with some beliefs you want to internalize and rehearse them out loud every day twice.
-Rewriting. This is similar to autosuggestion. Rewriting the beliefs you want to internalize daily is very powerful.
-Visualization. Imagine yourself having those beliefs internalized. How would you act? Imagine the success you will have internalizing those beliefs.
-REvisualization. Did you have an interaction that didnt go so well, or maybe it did, but could of gone better? Imagine that interaction in your mind and what you couldve done to make it more powerful.
-writing and rewriting goals. Find out exactly what you want and keep writing that goal over and over untill you get there. Have faith with this.
-Reference group. You WILL become more similar to the people you hang out with a lot wether you like it or not. My advice: Go hang out with guys that are successful with girls. Their beliefs will influence yours and just hanging around them will permutate your mind to become more like them. This is maybe one of the most important concepts to succeeding. (hey if you wanna talk to fellow HS PUAs, post your AIM screen name.)
-Finally, searching your mind for evidence to back up the beliefs. Get out there and get some experience. Your mind will automatically search for evidence of your current beliefs making them stronger. You may have to do this consciously at first. (put on the lenses of the beliefs you want.)
After doing this stuff for a while, YOU as a person will change for the better. Developing an unstoppable inner game and core confidence is my main goal for developing myself.