Post by Mr. Scientist on Jun 6, 2009 4:27:37 GMT -5
Since I'm not going out today, decided to share the way I daygame. Hopefully this will be helpful to some of you guys. My method is a combine of many other methods, after many approaches this work the best for me and surely it will work for some of you guys too.
1. PRE-APPROACH
I always do a Swinggcat. Think that you're the prize and you'll feel that way and you'll act/talk that way. Note that you have to be in this frame of mind FOREVER, in every aspects of your life. Its important during pre-approach that you have this mindset because during the process of picking up, your body language will automatically be 'Alpha' and you will naturally be able to C+F her and also be actually funny and most importantly be spontanous which help loads during conversation.
I also always think happy thoughts which have me on the verge of smiling. So when I open the girl, I will have a sincere smile
Other important points are ..Fashion(VERY IMPORTANT), Body Language(pickup101), study yourself lol.
2. OPENING
If she's walking towards me I will raise my hand infront and stop her (BAdboy) SMILING. If she's beside or behind me, I will tap her on the back, take a step back (IMPORTANT) SMILING. I take a step back with a open body language so she will feel comfortable with the situation. Also she will be able to judge on your 1st impression. OH ya, eye contact is very crucial...lol almost forgotten. If the girl walks away..I always say this simple line " Don't walk away from me" (SMILING) and she will always stop.
I always open directly. I don't know bout you guys but here, Singapore teens are not that bright, so all those opinion stuff will just confuse the hell out of them. And I find opening direct have a romantic vibe.
While delivering the opener, have to always keep eye contact and a nice smile to show them that you're talking to them becuase you wanted to and not becuase you got dared by your friends...which sadly happens here lot of times which causes the girls to be paranoid( girls I approached told me that)
After you said the opener, wait for awhile so that the girl can abosrb it in. Its very rare for her to be approached on the streets so she will be 'stunned' for awhile.
3. RAPPORT
Instantly vibe with the girl after the opener. I always see what kind of reaction the girl have when I deliver the opener, based on that ...e.g, if the girl response well (smiling, body lang), I'll be having a conversation towards a more sexual, flirty direction.
If the girl response is poor, I will ask for her opinion about something and tease her response, slowly moving the conversation to the flirty direction. Normally I ask, what present to buy for my sis
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AND ALWAYS kino her. Just touch her back or arm, I never escalate kino on the streets.. the most I move her hair away from her face.
During the conversation, I will always change her direction so she will be more 'focus' on the moment we are having. So I always do what I call the ' Tango' lol. Every few seconds I will shift myself until she will be in my original position while I be in hers.
4. CLOSING
Instant date, venue change. Moving the conversation to a nearby bench is also considered instant date. But once you change location with her, you can pat yourself on the back and say ' A game well played' O, don't forget her number and Facebook too.
Darn, I can't write about same day lay cause I have not experienced it yet
Once I got that, I'll be back to modify this post.
Hope you can learn something. I apologize for the messy end, I kinda got distracted by something else and lose my interest in this lol. I always hate writing essays. This is my 1st article, so don't be so CRITICAL !
1. PRE-APPROACH
I always do a Swinggcat. Think that you're the prize and you'll feel that way and you'll act/talk that way. Note that you have to be in this frame of mind FOREVER, in every aspects of your life. Its important during pre-approach that you have this mindset because during the process of picking up, your body language will automatically be 'Alpha' and you will naturally be able to C+F her and also be actually funny and most importantly be spontanous which help loads during conversation.
I also always think happy thoughts which have me on the verge of smiling. So when I open the girl, I will have a sincere smile
Other important points are ..Fashion(VERY IMPORTANT), Body Language(pickup101), study yourself lol.
2. OPENING
If she's walking towards me I will raise my hand infront and stop her (BAdboy) SMILING. If she's beside or behind me, I will tap her on the back, take a step back (IMPORTANT) SMILING. I take a step back with a open body language so she will feel comfortable with the situation. Also she will be able to judge on your 1st impression. OH ya, eye contact is very crucial...lol almost forgotten. If the girl walks away..I always say this simple line " Don't walk away from me" (SMILING) and she will always stop.
I always open directly. I don't know bout you guys but here, Singapore teens are not that bright, so all those opinion stuff will just confuse the hell out of them. And I find opening direct have a romantic vibe.
While delivering the opener, have to always keep eye contact and a nice smile to show them that you're talking to them becuase you wanted to and not becuase you got dared by your friends...which sadly happens here lot of times which causes the girls to be paranoid( girls I approached told me that)
After you said the opener, wait for awhile so that the girl can abosrb it in. Its very rare for her to be approached on the streets so she will be 'stunned' for awhile.
3. RAPPORT
Instantly vibe with the girl after the opener. I always see what kind of reaction the girl have when I deliver the opener, based on that ...e.g, if the girl response well (smiling, body lang), I'll be having a conversation towards a more sexual, flirty direction.
If the girl response is poor, I will ask for her opinion about something and tease her response, slowly moving the conversation to the flirty direction. Normally I ask, what present to buy for my sis
. AND ALWAYS kino her. Just touch her back or arm, I never escalate kino on the streets.. the most I move her hair away from her face.
During the conversation, I will always change her direction so she will be more 'focus' on the moment we are having. So I always do what I call the ' Tango' lol. Every few seconds I will shift myself until she will be in my original position while I be in hers.
4. CLOSING
Instant date, venue change. Moving the conversation to a nearby bench is also considered instant date. But once you change location with her, you can pat yourself on the back and say ' A game well played' O, don't forget her number and Facebook too.
Darn, I can't write about same day lay cause I have not experienced it yet
Once I got that, I'll be back to modify this post.Hope you can learn something. I apologize for the messy end, I kinda got distracted by something else and lose my interest in this lol. I always hate writing essays. This is my 1st article, so don't be so CRITICAL !
Its not the perfect formula for me yet ..