Post by SenorBubbz on Jun 10, 2009 18:28:59 GMT -5
I wrote this 100% and since it isn't going in the newsletter, I thought I'd post it up here.
Enjoy!!
-What is “pulling the trigger”?
Pulling the trigger is going for it, whatever it may be. Whether you have to pull the trigger on opening, kissing, #-closing, or having sex, there’s a way to get past it. How do you do that? Well I’m about to tell you.
-- Pulling the trigger on Opening
You see a hot girl, and what do you do? Some will go open her; some will come up with millions of excuses on why you can’t go open her. There are many, many different ways to get over AA (Approach Anxiety), but the best way I’ve found to get over it is to take a deep breath, smile to yourself, say “I can do this,” and go do it. It sounds easy, but getting over approach anxiety is a huge step in your game. The second you move your foot and decide to do it and go for it, you game will jump to a whole new level. Who cares if you crash and burn? You’ve just gotten farther than most chumps out there. You think most guys have the balls to talk to random girls? Nope, but you do, give yourself a pat on the back!!
-- Pulling the trigger on Kissing
If you’re worried about kissing, don’t! There are lots of “can’t fail” kiss-closes out there you can use. The standard golden rule to always follow though, to make sure you CAN kiss her, is to wait for 3 IOI’s (Indicators of Interest), isolate your target, and get another IOI just to make sure you’re in the clear. Now once you’ve done this, there are several ways you can direct this kiss. There’s Brad P’s very simple kiss close, where you take your index finger, put it under her chin, and pull her towards you and kiss her. This takes balls, but I’m sure you can do it. Another good kiss-close you can use is Chris’s Ultimate K-Close. You can find it right here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=routines&action=display&thread=48. Now if you don’t quite have the guts to do this yet, you can definitely use either Mystery’s Kiss Gambit, or Style’s Evolution Phase Shift. You can find those here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=routines&thread=1748.
-- Pulling the trigger on #-closing
This is literally the easiest thing on the entire planet when it comes to PU (pick-up). All you have to do is ask! Now obviously, you need some IOI’s first, three would be a good, safe bet. So on to actually getting the number, what I always use is “Hey, you’re a really fun girl! Why don’t you give me your phone number and maybe if you’re cool on the phone, then one day you might be able to come hang with me.” Now don’t use this word for word, adapt it to what you like about the girl. For example, “Wow, you seem really adventurous!” or “Damn, it’s been a while since I’ve met such a smart girl, I usually just hang with dumb blondes!” That last one will work especially well if she is a blonde, ha-ha, but make sure to ALWAYS keep it light. Also, if she says “No, I don’t give out my phone number,” then don’t feel rejected, because that’s not what she did. She didn’t reject you; you can still get her phone number. What you do is you say, “Yea, no problem.” And keep talking. Don’t let it faze you and keep building attraction and comfort and ask again, maybe 5 to 10 minutes later.
-- Pulling the trigger on Sex
Now this is really one of those things that can’t be taught, per say. Once you have her in your house, she’s comfortable being around you and having you touch her (remember to always kino), you’ve already talked with her sexually, and you have a condom, you have to engage in Vin DiCarlo’s Escalation Ramp. This is a step-by-step guide to using kino to get to sex. You can find it here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=blanguage&action=display&thread=1000. Another great technique to use during DiCarlo’s Ramp, is to talk dirty to the girl. Now I’m not going to go into specifics, but the core of it is basically telling her what you want to do to her. David Shade has a wonderful audio program on how to talk dirty here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=avfiles&thread=1749.
The last thing you need to know about pulling the trigger on sex is how to deal with LMR (Last Minute Resistance). What some PUA’s do is freeze the girl out, to ignore her and go about your business. This works because it makes her so uncomfortable that she has sex with you to get you to stop. That’s not good, and is the same thing as guilt-tripping her into fucking her, in my eyes at least. Now at our age, there’s only one type of LMR. She’s nervous because she doesn’t want to seem like a slut by fucking you. Now that’s if you did everything right. If you didn’t and you’re rushing things, you’re gonna run into a different type of LMR and that’s the “I’m not sure I like this guy enough to fuck him” mindset coming from her. If you’re here, forget about the girl, go game other girls and eventually you’ll have a chance to try again.
Back to the nervous, shy girl LMR. The way to deal with this is to reassure her of any misgivings she may have. If she says “I think we should stop,” agree and continue. Say “You’re totally right, we should stop. This is wrong.” And keep on going. Fuck logic, this is emotion. Also, if she’s saying things like “Baby I’m nervous,” or “Baby I’m shy.” Then tell her “No babe, don’t worry about it. We’re just going to spend some time together,” or “Honey, you’re so beautiful, don’t worry about it, don’t be shy/nervous.” Now you may be thinking “Why are you validating her?!?” Well you can’t keep up this cocky funny, hard to get frame forever bro. You’re gonna have to drop it and open up to the girl emotionally eventually and for girls, sex is 90% emotional and 10% physical. They are in it for the pleasure of knowing they have a man that’s there for them and will take care of them and provide for them. That’s why you may find that after you sex a girl up real good, she’ll be kind of clingy with you because for a woman, sex is a commitment. Now this is all if she’s a NORMAL girl. If she’s a slut you shouldn’t even get LMR so don’t worry about it lol xD.
One way to blow past LMR is to caveman. The moment you get her to your house and on your couch or bed, start kissing her like a crazed animal. Kiss her, feel up her body, kiss her body, tear clothes off. This is what cavemanning is, going completely apeshit on that bitch. Here’s a little summary on how to caveman correctly and how it can just destroy any LMR: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=staffonlypage&thread=1750. Now be careful with this stuff, if you don’t think it will work on a certain girl for whatever reason, don’t do it because some really reserved girls will just start screaming rape!
The End!
P.S. Calibration is the word here boys! You have to calibrate everything I wrote about here to your own personality, you have to be congruent. Remember, experience breeds competence and competence breeds confidence. You have to practice these things. If your first PUA k-close isn’t that great, who cares? There’ll be more to come, so keep on macking them girls! Many people say this, but they say it because it’s true “The field is king.” You’ll learn more from practicing in field than reading tons and tons of articles. So go out there and get some booty!!
Keep Pimpin,
SenorBubbz
Enjoy!!
Pulling the Trigger
-What is “pulling the trigger”?
Pulling the trigger is going for it, whatever it may be. Whether you have to pull the trigger on opening, kissing, #-closing, or having sex, there’s a way to get past it. How do you do that? Well I’m about to tell you.
-- Pulling the trigger on Opening
You see a hot girl, and what do you do? Some will go open her; some will come up with millions of excuses on why you can’t go open her. There are many, many different ways to get over AA (Approach Anxiety), but the best way I’ve found to get over it is to take a deep breath, smile to yourself, say “I can do this,” and go do it. It sounds easy, but getting over approach anxiety is a huge step in your game. The second you move your foot and decide to do it and go for it, you game will jump to a whole new level. Who cares if you crash and burn? You’ve just gotten farther than most chumps out there. You think most guys have the balls to talk to random girls? Nope, but you do, give yourself a pat on the back!!
-- Pulling the trigger on Kissing
If you’re worried about kissing, don’t! There are lots of “can’t fail” kiss-closes out there you can use. The standard golden rule to always follow though, to make sure you CAN kiss her, is to wait for 3 IOI’s (Indicators of Interest), isolate your target, and get another IOI just to make sure you’re in the clear. Now once you’ve done this, there are several ways you can direct this kiss. There’s Brad P’s very simple kiss close, where you take your index finger, put it under her chin, and pull her towards you and kiss her. This takes balls, but I’m sure you can do it. Another good kiss-close you can use is Chris’s Ultimate K-Close. You can find it right here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=routines&action=display&thread=48. Now if you don’t quite have the guts to do this yet, you can definitely use either Mystery’s Kiss Gambit, or Style’s Evolution Phase Shift. You can find those here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=routines&thread=1748.
-- Pulling the trigger on #-closing
This is literally the easiest thing on the entire planet when it comes to PU (pick-up). All you have to do is ask! Now obviously, you need some IOI’s first, three would be a good, safe bet. So on to actually getting the number, what I always use is “Hey, you’re a really fun girl! Why don’t you give me your phone number and maybe if you’re cool on the phone, then one day you might be able to come hang with me.” Now don’t use this word for word, adapt it to what you like about the girl. For example, “Wow, you seem really adventurous!” or “Damn, it’s been a while since I’ve met such a smart girl, I usually just hang with dumb blondes!” That last one will work especially well if she is a blonde, ha-ha, but make sure to ALWAYS keep it light. Also, if she says “No, I don’t give out my phone number,” then don’t feel rejected, because that’s not what she did. She didn’t reject you; you can still get her phone number. What you do is you say, “Yea, no problem.” And keep talking. Don’t let it faze you and keep building attraction and comfort and ask again, maybe 5 to 10 minutes later.
-- Pulling the trigger on Sex
Now this is really one of those things that can’t be taught, per say. Once you have her in your house, she’s comfortable being around you and having you touch her (remember to always kino), you’ve already talked with her sexually, and you have a condom, you have to engage in Vin DiCarlo’s Escalation Ramp. This is a step-by-step guide to using kino to get to sex. You can find it here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=blanguage&action=display&thread=1000. Another great technique to use during DiCarlo’s Ramp, is to talk dirty to the girl. Now I’m not going to go into specifics, but the core of it is basically telling her what you want to do to her. David Shade has a wonderful audio program on how to talk dirty here: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=avfiles&thread=1749.
The last thing you need to know about pulling the trigger on sex is how to deal with LMR (Last Minute Resistance). What some PUA’s do is freeze the girl out, to ignore her and go about your business. This works because it makes her so uncomfortable that she has sex with you to get you to stop. That’s not good, and is the same thing as guilt-tripping her into fucking her, in my eyes at least. Now at our age, there’s only one type of LMR. She’s nervous because she doesn’t want to seem like a slut by fucking you. Now that’s if you did everything right. If you didn’t and you’re rushing things, you’re gonna run into a different type of LMR and that’s the “I’m not sure I like this guy enough to fuck him” mindset coming from her. If you’re here, forget about the girl, go game other girls and eventually you’ll have a chance to try again.
Back to the nervous, shy girl LMR. The way to deal with this is to reassure her of any misgivings she may have. If she says “I think we should stop,” agree and continue. Say “You’re totally right, we should stop. This is wrong.” And keep on going. Fuck logic, this is emotion. Also, if she’s saying things like “Baby I’m nervous,” or “Baby I’m shy.” Then tell her “No babe, don’t worry about it. We’re just going to spend some time together,” or “Honey, you’re so beautiful, don’t worry about it, don’t be shy/nervous.” Now you may be thinking “Why are you validating her?!?” Well you can’t keep up this cocky funny, hard to get frame forever bro. You’re gonna have to drop it and open up to the girl emotionally eventually and for girls, sex is 90% emotional and 10% physical. They are in it for the pleasure of knowing they have a man that’s there for them and will take care of them and provide for them. That’s why you may find that after you sex a girl up real good, she’ll be kind of clingy with you because for a woman, sex is a commitment. Now this is all if she’s a NORMAL girl. If she’s a slut you shouldn’t even get LMR so don’t worry about it lol xD.
One way to blow past LMR is to caveman. The moment you get her to your house and on your couch or bed, start kissing her like a crazed animal. Kiss her, feel up her body, kiss her body, tear clothes off. This is what cavemanning is, going completely apeshit on that bitch. Here’s a little summary on how to caveman correctly and how it can just destroy any LMR: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=staffonlypage&thread=1750. Now be careful with this stuff, if you don’t think it will work on a certain girl for whatever reason, don’t do it because some really reserved girls will just start screaming rape!
The End!
P.S. Calibration is the word here boys! You have to calibrate everything I wrote about here to your own personality, you have to be congruent. Remember, experience breeds competence and competence breeds confidence. You have to practice these things. If your first PUA k-close isn’t that great, who cares? There’ll be more to come, so keep on macking them girls! Many people say this, but they say it because it’s true “The field is king.” You’ll learn more from practicing in field than reading tons and tons of articles. So go out there and get some booty!!
Keep Pimpin,
SenorBubbz
