Post by Grape on Oct 7, 2008 18:48:49 GMT -5
Written By Swinggcat
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When a woman makes your age an issue, it’s a sign that she’s very conscious of her age – even more than most women. In other words, her age is probably a bigger issue for her than your age.
Okay… so here’s the secret for handling the age issue in a way that makes you the Prize the woman is trying to win over. (This is mental jujitsu at its best.)
Imagine you’re talking to a woman who popped out of her mommies vajayjay in 1982.
Out of nowhere, she starts busting your balls about your age.
Quip back with, “Well, you’re way too old for me. You’re like 97 in girl years.”
She’ll ask, “Why am I 97 in girl years?”
Educate her with, “If you look at models, they hit their peak around 17 or 18. By the time their 21, they’re past their prime. By 23 they’re old hags. You, my dear, are ancient. I’m surprised you can still manage without a walker.”
She’ll probably start giggling uncontrollably. This is the laugh of recognition. In a playful way you’ve called her on her own insecurity.
Because this demonstrates that you understand her, it puts her at ease around you. It builds comfort and rapport.
Plus, the combination of you finger-pointing out her insecurity with a joke and her fessing-up with a laugh sets the Meta-Frame that you’re the Prize she’s trying to win over.
The fusion of Prizability, comfort, and sexual arousal sparks that magical feeling called “attraction.”
If you execute this secret correctly, you’ll trigger attraction inside her.
But if you don’t have the skills and knowledge to keep that attraction alive and take it in the direction you choose, it will wither away. Dwindle to a suicidal gloom.
And in all honesty, without the skills to trigger attraction in women at your will, you're no better off than Joe Schmo.
Most average men inadvertantly trigger attraction in women. It may be their looks or something they said. But because they don't know what they did to spark attraction in a woman, they cannot trigger it at will.
That's why they can't attract the women of their choice. Why the attraction in their current relationships usually peters out. Why they have second-hand, hand-me-down sex lives.
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When a woman makes your age an issue, it’s a sign that she’s very conscious of her age – even more than most women. In other words, her age is probably a bigger issue for her than your age.
Okay… so here’s the secret for handling the age issue in a way that makes you the Prize the woman is trying to win over. (This is mental jujitsu at its best.)
Imagine you’re talking to a woman who popped out of her mommies vajayjay in 1982.
Out of nowhere, she starts busting your balls about your age.
Quip back with, “Well, you’re way too old for me. You’re like 97 in girl years.”
She’ll ask, “Why am I 97 in girl years?”
Educate her with, “If you look at models, they hit their peak around 17 or 18. By the time their 21, they’re past their prime. By 23 they’re old hags. You, my dear, are ancient. I’m surprised you can still manage without a walker.”
She’ll probably start giggling uncontrollably. This is the laugh of recognition. In a playful way you’ve called her on her own insecurity.
Because this demonstrates that you understand her, it puts her at ease around you. It builds comfort and rapport.
Plus, the combination of you finger-pointing out her insecurity with a joke and her fessing-up with a laugh sets the Meta-Frame that you’re the Prize she’s trying to win over.
The fusion of Prizability, comfort, and sexual arousal sparks that magical feeling called “attraction.”
If you execute this secret correctly, you’ll trigger attraction inside her.
But if you don’t have the skills and knowledge to keep that attraction alive and take it in the direction you choose, it will wither away. Dwindle to a suicidal gloom.
And in all honesty, without the skills to trigger attraction in women at your will, you're no better off than Joe Schmo.
Most average men inadvertantly trigger attraction in women. It may be their looks or something they said. But because they don't know what they did to spark attraction in a woman, they cannot trigger it at will.
That's why they can't attract the women of their choice. Why the attraction in their current relationships usually peters out. Why they have second-hand, hand-me-down sex lives.