Bitch Shields by Chris

[Grape]

Bitch Shields: Chris
Hey guys, I'm going to talk about "bitch shields" today. First of all, what exactly is a bitch

shield? It is not to say that the particular girl is a "bitch." It is just an attitude she uses to

filter out spineless guys who repeatedly hit on her. It's when she acts bitchy and indifferent

so some guys will just leave her the fuck alone. I'm sure we have all had it happen to us. We

blatantly walk up to a good looking girl and blurt something out like "how you doin'?" She

immediately gets that look on her face like she doesn't want you to be there and says

something bitchy like "uhhh why are you talking to me?" Ouch. So now that we know what

a bitch shield looks like, lets get into this.

First, how to avoid the BS before it begins

Why is the bitch shield activated? It's usually when an unwanted guy blatantly hits on the

girl. So how do we avoid this? First step is lets become "wanted." The first step to avoiding a

BS, and, having a smooth progression in general is building your social value. AMOG and lead

guys and definitely demonstrate preselection by hanging out with a bunch of girls. Other girls

will actually want you to approach if they see this.

The next step is approaching indirectly and non threatening. Sure, direct game will work if

you have a ton of value and preselection going for you but that's not always possible. So we go

indirect. What does this mean? Make it seem like you are simply talking and being social, not

hitting on anyone, not trying to get anything, just having fun and being social. Body language

is important here. If you go up to a girl straight up pointing towards her, that could be seen as

rapport seeking. However, if you are standing at an angle and addressing the entire group the

girl is in, maybe even ignoring her, how can she get bitchy? You don't "need" an indirect opener

such as an "opinion opener" to work but you can. You can simply open by being social and

saying "hhheeeyyyyyy guys whatsup" then teasing the girl that addresses you.

Breaking the BS

Now for actually breaking the barrier we call bitch shields. If you did all of the above

correctly and you are still getting that bitchy attitude, let's talk about some ways we can

break on through.

The first "technique" we can use is what we call False Time Constraints. This is when you

imply, verbally or nonverbally that you are short on time and only have a minute or two to talk.

Why does this work? Because when you first approach, if you don't have a lot of value going for

you, the "set" is going to be thinking to themselves "when is this guy going to leave us alone?"

So when you drop a hint that you have to leave soon, that automatically takes away that kind

of negative reaction and removes some degree of "bitchiness." FTCs can be verbal or nonverbal,

or both. A verbal example would be "hey I can only stay a sec, but......" (NOTE: better to say

"sec" than "minute". If you say "minute" you might end up with some obnoxious dude counting

down the minute.) One nonverbal FTC is called body rocking. As you open the set, take a step

or two back like you are about to leave, then come back. This not only sets the time constraint,

but it raises your value by showing a willingness to walk away. One more nonverbal FTC would

be as you are sitting down, stand up like you are about to leave, then go ahead and sit back

down.

A powerful technique for getting through bitchiness is what we call negs, or negging. This is

when you drop a possibly ambiguous statement that is designed to show disinterst. A note on

negging however, be playful with your delivery. Too many guys get the concept of negging

wrong by being dead serious and they come off as assholes. Use negs sparingly, they are mainly

designed simply to get past the bitch shields. With high value women, about two negs should be

enough. Take punishment/reward into context too. If a girl is being open and nice, you don't

need to neg her, in fact it will be counterproductive. Neg only when needed.

Some examples of negs:


* "you and I would NOT get along"
* "is she always like this?"
* "i bet you are high maintenance."


The last thing I want to talk about regarding bitch shields is about your inner game. If you

are going to "pick up" and you want something or a certain reaction from a girl, you are bound to

get blocked with a bitch shield. Girls do not like value leeches. You should be the guy who is

having fun no matter what, totally detatched from all outcomes. If you are the guy having more

fun than anyone else, purely entertaining yourself, people will be drawn to you and you wont

have to deal with bitch shields as often, and if you do, you know how to get past them.

Thanks guys, and remember to have a blast with this stuff.



-Chrispb7

[wespeezy]

dude when i was sarging, a girl straight called me out when i used a FTC and accused me of trying to "pick her up. This is no joke. She was like 18 and apparently knew about PUA shit. So i pulled the classic" O man i guess that would have really set me back, if i was u know i was actually interested and trying to pick u up like u say".

I felt like a fucking G.

[Deleted]

That's why I never use verbal FTC's. It's so well known nowadays, even the most retarded girl probably knows whats going on. It also doesn't help that all these big name PUA's are going on talk shows and not to mention Mystery's show, and the thing they always talk about and people remember are the FTC's and negs.

[sparkogre]

Just keep going. If she's acting indifferent/whatever just keep talking, keep being enthusiastic, keep up the good delivery. One of two things will happen:

1. She'll be nice.
2. She will ACTUALLY ask you to leave.

Well, that's if you want to pick her up. If you just want to have fun, start making fun of her. You won't get laid, but it's always funny!

[AhLpha]

I totally agree with this post. I will def be practicing it.