superstar
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Post by superstar on Jul 18, 2009 21:26:13 GMT -5
Hey guys my first post here...
Basically got pretty drunk at a house party.. Ended up walking back home to a friends with a chick 5-6ish.. We got into bed pretty quick and she said shes freezing and i should warm her up so I jumped to the occaision and got into her bed.. we started talking bout school and uni and careers.. .eventually ended up talking bout relationships and how she doesent believe in love anymore.. well during high school anyway...
She prefers random hook ups so she doesent get emotionaly hurt.. literally what I said to myself when I found this site.. So we started making out.. tonguing but she wouldnt return :s which made me seem as if I was pushing.. but I kept going.. hands went under her shirt.. little massage of the breasts and eventually the hand slipped down to the panties and oh man.. was she wet she tells me in my ear clearly mmm I'm so wet.. But everytime tried to slip a finger in she grabs my hand and pulls it back up... thing is... she would let me go further and then suddenly she would tease by saying oopps sleepy time and completley turn around.. arggh... it was so frustratiing as I continuously got her to turn around... second thing was I was enjoying giving so much.... after that she just kept on teasing and not letting me in... I'm assuming this is last minute resistance...
HOW DO I GET IN THE NEXT TIME THIS SITUATION ARISES???
Cheers
Superstar
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Alek
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Post by Alek on Jul 19, 2009 0:44:43 GMT -5
Damn man a 5 lol. But she was holding the sexual power, thats gotta be ur job. So when she turns around, or you feel any bit of resistant, stop. And turn around, let her reinintate
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superstar
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Post by superstar on Jul 19, 2009 2:20:52 GMT -5
rofl... beergoggles it happens..I was offff my face....plus I blew it with an 8 at the party so just needed some self-validation thanks for the advice.. i think i made myself look too desperate hence a 5 giving me attitude lol... cheers
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Volt
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Post by Volt on Jul 19, 2009 2:21:54 GMT -5
Don't rape people. Stop if she says no or acts serious.
If she's made comments about how she likes men in charge or that she wants a dominant man around her, or if she seems like the type that would like it, you can take her hands and pin them LIGHTLY above her head so she can't stop you. Do it in a way that's firm but not actually restraining. Continue as planned. Again, if she tells you to stop, stop. If you don't think she means it, tell her that if she says stop, she has to mean it. If she says she does, stop. If you feel uncomfortable or think she feels unconfortable, stop.
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superstar
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Post by superstar on Jul 19, 2009 5:57:51 GMT -5
Holy fuck... you just managed to make myself feel like a rapist... lol it was obvious she was interested and she WAS teasing me cuz she repeatedly turned around and reinitiated kissing around 4 times followed by her giving me a handjob under the blanket BUT SHE STILL DIDN'T LET ME FUCK HER...maybe I shouldve persisted and she wouldve gave in eventually?? assuming the handjob is a sign that shes interested rofll.. fuck next time I'm not drinking this much... I've got such a bad hangover and it really does impair youre game.. cheers
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darkpwns
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Post by darkpwns on Jul 21, 2009 19:33:09 GMT -5
Damn dude she like....ran game on you. Dude if a girl is teasing you she's just stole ur power you gotta take that shit back. Tease her back, pull up/unbutton her shirt and kiss her on her tit or wherever you so feel inclined then fix the shirt right back the way it was and fluff about stupid shit like work (if you have a job) or the party. Then go in for a kiss and then back away when she is coming in to meet your lips then tease the fuck out of her for being a dork that kisses the air. Tease from the very beginning this way you have the power from the start. The point of the teasing is to get her to well...basically throw you down and have her way with you.
Tease only if its not like...in the bag. If she like totally wants your cock and you know she is DYING to get fucked by you then right when you get in the door, slam that shit closed and throw her against the wall and start stripping her and making out with her right there...fuck the bed, it takes too long to get started if you wait to get to the bed to strip.
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Post by nagarith on Jul 23, 2009 1:40:25 GMT -5
Dude, you should have just tied her up. Women respond to dominance.
I kid, anyways, you sort of got tooled. Well not sort of, you got tooled pretty hard. Next time she's in control, freeze her out and then tease her, don't act as persistant, the female should almost always be aware that you don't give a shit about her.
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manslaughter
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Post by manslaughter on Sept 12, 2009 11:57:44 GMT -5
that girl from the way i saw it sounded like she just had some emotional baggage thats why she didn't what to get emotional involved because she was scared to get hurt ergo she probably had the same fear about you how do you rectify this ..... i have no idea
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4am
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Post by 4am on Sept 25, 2009 23:45:34 GMT -5
Theres a couple ways to deal with LMR but i wouldnt use them on drunk chicks, look them up, also she will respect you more if you dont do anything that She will regret the next day.
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fate
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Post by fate on Sept 28, 2009 0:22:35 GMT -5
Well when ever i encounter an LMR i pull what PUA`s would call a freeze out. Pretty much you notice any LMR asap(such as muscle tension, or clam up), before she says anything. Why? Because once a women verbalizes her resistance it will be harder to handle. So once u notice any LMR quickly pull back and do something else. At this point the girl might give you the whats going on look, so i usually keep the TV or radio on, as an excuse to do something else while she tries to feel comfortable again. If she doesn't do anything within a minute or 2, you can start again. It is important that you dont seem unhappy with her, you just have to look natural and that you are not in a hurry to escalate with her, and that you understand that she needs more time to feel more comfortable. This process can be done multiple times ideally you will get farther each time.
Cheers -Fate Adams
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