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[SamethP]

i made a small reference about this in a different post.
Anyway, heres the story [short form]
bout this time last year, i was going out with this chick, extreme one-itis to sound chill (lol)
anyway, after 3 months she broke up with me and a week later hated me,
no-one knows why, not even her best friends (who i am really good friends with as well haha)
and she still hates me

I dont want to take her back, trust me on that.
But i would like to experiment in turning an 'enemy' into a friend.

Any ideas on how i could do this?

p.s I've been gaming a friend of hers recently xD

adding to that, i know that she has indirectly threatened to destroy any move i make towards anyone she knows... so thats another reason for making her a friend again lol

Discuss

[Grape]

Ahh, nice way to practice.

Enemies and friends are.. almost the same thing. Turn the hostile vibe into a fun, playful one.
I do this ALL the time with my targets who feel "I've screwed them over"
For example, if I was talking to such a girl named Jessie, I just say in a babyish voice "Wahh! I'm Jessie! I'm going to act like a bitch and ruin all the fun because I suck!"

And it usually gets a smile with a "stop making fun of me!!" Which you can just give her a hug and let her know "I'm kidding girl."

[SamethP]

lol
if i gave this girl a hug she'd push me out of a second story window -.-'

[Chris]

yeah it kinda comes down to who has the stronger sense of reality. Dont get sucked into her reality... If she's a bitch to you, dont get mad. Keep the frame and laugh and just have a great time. Suck her into your reality by being the guy that is putting off great emotions and having more fun than anyone.

[Grape]

Dude, a girl doesn't hate people. It's not possible, especially if she's liked you before.
I've dealt with pissed off ex-gf's.
It's all a matter of being cool.

[Andrew]

and I'm about to sound pretty sexist, but its a really woman thing to do. Like Grape said, no girl really hates you. You may have done something to piss her off, but it may have been little but shes just holding on to it. Thats what girls do. They hld onto things like grudges lies and fights and those things much MUCH longer than guys do.

[Grape]

ANDD, they do it for the attention. Emotionally, they don't give a rat's ass about what they're fighting you about.

[SamethP]

LOL
yea thats true
she had this for a year =.=

[mystic]

i agree on what some of you guys have said.....my opinion is man up and dont LET IT SHOW IT AFFECTS YOU...you know...dont be over cocky cus girls are bitches (some) but just dont even need to make eye contact dont make it seem that you avoiding her on purpose but just make it effortless you know what i mean....i had a relationship like this a good 2 years ago....tha girl cheated on me.....now my game is tight but haha you risk some when you leave school for the weekend.....amogs move in on hb9 like vultures but whatever...so the story goes on she hated me LIKE IT WAS MY FAULT...so then i simply did not react and went on with my day and gamed...but dont ON PURPOSE game infront of her...because trust me that jelously will get bad.....girls keep there feelings for some time dont let any one tell you other than that....i have a FPUA so i get the inside scoop...but thats besides the point...game...and make it seem that you have move on....

theres my 2 cents...sorry if it doesnt make sense ..on my way to this club in the subway from black berry...
-Mystic-

[SamethP]

lol, at first i didnt get it
but i read through a few times and eventually got it

yea, i dont even pay attention to her now days, but when i do see her, she goes out of her way to avoid me xD
honestly its hilarious haha

but yea, i continue to game, whether she is there or not,
she has nothing to do with my life