rexxar
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Post by rexxar on Oct 11, 2008 1:24:22 GMT -5
Okay i got this girl that im gaming and she always gives me tons of IoIs. Shes more touchy feely with me then her best friends but the topic of we like came up (in a big social circle) and everyone had to answer. I couldn't rele leave for reasons so i just played it cool by saying i don't go for one person (best thing to do?) Then they started naming chicks that liked me and how we would be cute etc (they were all women) and when attention was on her she said she liked som1 else. Kinda annoying cause this guy is one of those natrully good looking guys but hes a good friend of mine. should i just move on or is there way to break through this? maybe its a shit test? Whats your advice?
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Oct 12, 2008 15:29:53 GMT -5
maybe a shit test
because if she does like you, you kinda cut her down a bit by listing heaps of other chicks
so perhaps she was emabarrassed??
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Post by Chris on Oct 12, 2008 16:34:14 GMT -5
Yeah this is a shit test for sure dude. Maybe she does like the other guy who knows... but she obviously likes you too. And the fact that she is trying to make you jealous is a shit test and i would take it as a big ol IOI.
Do NOT let her know you are jealous if you are jealous. Just keep gaming her and if she brings him up, say "yeah you guys would make a cute couple, i think you should go for him." All this said in a light playful way of course.
Oh and next time girls ask you who you like, keep it a mystery. Say "thats classified" or some other slapstick answer.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 12, 2008 21:59:29 GMT -5
"well me and your mom have always had a 'thing.'" is another good one.
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rexxar
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Post by rexxar on Oct 13, 2008 3:23:55 GMT -5
thanks for the help guys and i DID keep it a mystery. they said do you like any and i said somthing along the lines "Maybe...wouldn't you like to know?"
one more thing, should i put her in the LJBF zone as a neg or is that just shooting myself in the foot. I know that she isn't one of those girls to go and say maybe we can be something more and stuff so she'll just go along with it... any advice?
btw andrew thats awesome, gonna use that fo sho cause it totally fits my personality haha.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Oct 13, 2008 4:13:51 GMT -5
do not shoot yourself in the foot
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Post by Andrew on Oct 13, 2008 12:32:38 GMT -5
well saying playfully that your really good friends isnt shooting yourself in the foot. If your actually putting her there its probably not gonna be what you want.
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Post by Grape on Oct 13, 2008 15:42:29 GMT -5
AMOG, build value, isolate.
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Post by 4am on Sept 25, 2009 22:52:39 GMT -5
yeah girls play all these fucked up games man, but FOCUS ON HER BODY LANGUAGE, and ioi's.
they say body language is like 70% or w.e ( lets not get super technical here) so look at her body language when shes talking to you.
also what i like to do is if shes acting like that, i dont act super interested dont give her any ioi's and see what/how she replies when you start back up the interactions, or better if she starts them up with you.
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