The secret to deep rapport by vibing

[Alek]

Ok, well I figured something out. Its very simple, but effective. Its a really good way to build some deep rapport, rather quickly.

When you ask a question, which you plan to vibe off of, and she gives an answer, you have to expand on it by adding more value in, so it becomes a deeper conversation. Now she might do this, or she may not. If she does, its natural that you would. If not, then you must

Make sure when you ask a question, make sure it is out of interest...because if its just a question to keep the conversation going, its boring and girls know that, hurting you. But if it is out of actual interest, then its powerful, especially if its a question about themselves.

Example:

pua: are you the shy type or?
hb: no im not shy at all
pua: well thats good, because theres a lot of shy girls and I hate that
hb: im not shy i dont like bein shy i want people to see who i really am.lol
pua: yeah i feel the same way. theres a lot of people out there who cant even live life, because theyre scared of making an impression.

You see, you ask a question. She expands on it a little bit, but then you add even more value to it, and soon she will receprocate and it will become a big conversation with a lot of rapport gained.

[SenorBubbz]

You're the bitch.

[friedice]

^ cosign stock down
this can come off as lower value by u always agreeing

[Chris]

Aug 30, 2009 22:48:52 GMT -5 friedice said:

^ cosign stock down
this can come off as lower value by u always agreeing

Did he say in there to always be agreeing? nope.
He agrees in the example he presents. Agreeing isn't a dlv by the
way as long as you do agree to some extent.

Disagreeing is used to enforce certain frames and beliefs about
yourself. You shouldn't constantly disagree with a girl just to
show independence. It should happen naturally.