she's got me on a yo-yo

[Nike]

so i have been going out with this girl for a month, but i let myself get really emmotionally atatched. but the past two weeks ive opened up and i feel like it has given her the power. she is a very strong and independent person. although when im with her im oon a high of happinness, i dont want to loose her. but this past week we have almost broken up twice, and a third time we did break up but then she wanted to get back together within 30 min. Unfortunately i let myself get hurt real bad. Now i feel like she's loosing attraction towwards me. She told me when im not with her she shes me as a really good friend, but when im with her i really turn her on or i can do things that turn her off. So on sunday i told her we need to take a two week break with no talking or seeing each other. she has already contacted me twice withing 24 hours through other people. So with that in mind i wanted to know your ideas on how to get the attraction back the next time a see her in 8 days??? how can i win this crazy woman back??

[extra]

What did you do to get her in the first place? Do that, modified a TINY tiny bit because of the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. You have to keep her having a good time and yourself attractive even when you're in a relationship, or it gets boring and people start to wonder, "where did the person i fell for go" or think the other person has changed when in reality, people just let go sometimes and stop putting in effort to that part of their life once they're in a relationship. It's like if your girl let her appearance go as soon as you got with her, you'd be like what the fuck right?

It's OK to be emotionally attached, you're in a relationship man. It's GOOD to be emotionally attached, honestly I wish i could do that a bit faster. But you still have to be the MAN that she got together with. You have to keep being your best self and making her feel good (or bad if it's one of those girls that like that). The rules of the game still apply, don't try to buy her or give her TOO MANY compliments and whatever.\

P.S. in the end, she might just have a psychobitch in her. Don't sweat it too hard if this is the case, it happens man.

[SenorBubbz]

That break thing seems like a terrible idea to me.
Honestly, you're just giving her tons of time to convince herself she doesn't want to be with you anymore.

If I were you I'd call her or show up at her house without her knowing and be like "I couldn't do it, I can't stand not being around you." And hang out with her for like 2 days straight doing those things that she says "turns her on" nonstop.

Then we'll see if she still thinks of you as a good friend ;P