Post by Grape on Oct 11, 2008 20:02:44 GMT -5
The gurus gave me a reality check in terms of attraction.
Attraction shouldn't be focusing on "survival value" or "being alpha",
All of that will contribute to the main factor subconsciously.
The main factor is this: Making girls have a dead set emotional feeling towards me.
There are two main types of attraction:
Passive Attraction: Personality, Alpha, Unpredictability
Passive is when someone is gradually being attracted to your survival value and your personality.
Active Attraction: Mysterious, Humorous, Tension
Active is when you stir up massive emotions inside a girl and make her curious about you.
My passive game is almost in perfection, now it's time for me to focus on active game. This is an art of Acting, Withholding Emotions, and Being Alert.
I want a girl to see me and completely freeze up. I want her to get aroused just by the sight of me going up to the person next to her and talking him/her up, while the girl stares at me with her full attention.
How will I do this?
- Being foreign (We've covered this! lol)
- Being high value (Clothing, Shades, Peacocking)
- DHVing (Disqualifying her by not noticing her, telling short stories to the set)
One time at a football game, I talked to a friend I hadn't seen in a while. I didn't notice the girl he was talking to. When I said "And who's this??"
He replied, "She's my girl bro." And introduced me and her.
Right away, she gives me a really big IOI through full body attention, a cute smile, and a question, "Are you from around here?"
I go, "Nah, do I know you?"
And there we go vibing each other. I later over disqualify her and she becomes too embarrassed.
But, she WAS attracted to me and attraction was generated.
Let's break this down.
What did I do?
1. I didn't notice her
2. I opened her boyfriend in an alpha way and showed off major survival value
3. I had a mysterious peacocking fashion, and I was foreign.
Girls turn into BEASTS for the following:
- Foreigners (an attribute to being mysterious)
- High Class/High Value people
- Anything she hasn't experienced before.
So, you gotta really out do yourself when it comes to things like fashion, facial expressions, body language, and voice.
These four things are key.
After you've showed someone your readable values, it's time to communicate.
This is when active sexual tension comes into play, otherwise, Push Pull.
This is done by doing the following:
1. Stirring up a massive emotion inside a target.
2. Leaving that emotion unresolved and leaving the girl with that feeling.
A GREAT example is this: Grab a girl, pull her chest to yours, and look her deeply into her eyes like you're about to kiss her. Right there, let her go, say "You've got a booger.." and walk away.
Now, she's going CRAZY about you. "I wonder what kind of kisser he is." "Is he going to kiss me tonight?" and all these are emotional questions.
You've officially made her majorly attracted to you.
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Of course, with the techniques, you need the personality.
Here it is:
- Be Chill
- Be Happy
- Be Respectful
- Be Mean on 'Accident'
ex. "Hey bro" handshake "How've you been man." simple talk
Once enough social value is shown to the entire set, look at a girl, act totally disgusted, and continue talking to your friend.
Hopefully you guys get the big picture.
Best of luck to all of ya!
<33 Grape
Attraction shouldn't be focusing on "survival value" or "being alpha",
All of that will contribute to the main factor subconsciously.
The main factor is this: Making girls have a dead set emotional feeling towards me.
There are two main types of attraction:
Passive Attraction: Personality, Alpha, Unpredictability
Passive is when someone is gradually being attracted to your survival value and your personality.
Active Attraction: Mysterious, Humorous, Tension
Active is when you stir up massive emotions inside a girl and make her curious about you.
My passive game is almost in perfection, now it's time for me to focus on active game. This is an art of Acting, Withholding Emotions, and Being Alert.
I want a girl to see me and completely freeze up. I want her to get aroused just by the sight of me going up to the person next to her and talking him/her up, while the girl stares at me with her full attention.
How will I do this?
- Being foreign (We've covered this! lol)
- Being high value (Clothing, Shades, Peacocking)
- DHVing (Disqualifying her by not noticing her, telling short stories to the set)
One time at a football game, I talked to a friend I hadn't seen in a while. I didn't notice the girl he was talking to. When I said "And who's this??"
He replied, "She's my girl bro." And introduced me and her.
Right away, she gives me a really big IOI through full body attention, a cute smile, and a question, "Are you from around here?"
I go, "Nah, do I know you?"
And there we go vibing each other. I later over disqualify her and she becomes too embarrassed.
But, she WAS attracted to me and attraction was generated.
Let's break this down.
What did I do?
1. I didn't notice her
2. I opened her boyfriend in an alpha way and showed off major survival value
3. I had a mysterious peacocking fashion, and I was foreign.
Girls turn into BEASTS for the following:
- Foreigners (an attribute to being mysterious)
- High Class/High Value people
- Anything she hasn't experienced before.
So, you gotta really out do yourself when it comes to things like fashion, facial expressions, body language, and voice.
These four things are key.
After you've showed someone your readable values, it's time to communicate.
This is when active sexual tension comes into play, otherwise, Push Pull.
This is done by doing the following:
1. Stirring up a massive emotion inside a target.
2. Leaving that emotion unresolved and leaving the girl with that feeling.
A GREAT example is this: Grab a girl, pull her chest to yours, and look her deeply into her eyes like you're about to kiss her. Right there, let her go, say "You've got a booger.." and walk away.
Now, she's going CRAZY about you. "I wonder what kind of kisser he is." "Is he going to kiss me tonight?" and all these are emotional questions.
You've officially made her majorly attracted to you.
================
Of course, with the techniques, you need the personality.
Here it is:
- Be Chill
- Be Happy
- Be Respectful
- Be Mean on 'Accident'
ex. "Hey bro" handshake "How've you been man." simple talk
Once enough social value is shown to the entire set, look at a girl, act totally disgusted, and continue talking to your friend.
Hopefully you guys get the big picture.
Best of luck to all of ya!
<33 Grape
