Post by Grape on Sept 2, 2009 13:28:24 GMT -5
This article will be going through the phases an average PUA goes through until achieving mastery.
Phase 1: The Blind Ego, The False Determination
Phase 2: The Lone Period
Phase 3: The Exaggerator, The Addict
Phase 4: The Natural Success Period
Phase 1: The Blind Ego, The False Determination
At this point, one is APPROXIMATELY into 1-6 months of PUA training.
Current PUA Value: Only the strongest survive. Women can be easily manipulated via the sciences of attraction.
He is a social robot, addicted to canned routines, methods, and concepts. The stuff he's doing is working, but his inner game is still weak for he does not understand the true value of PUA.
He is breaking PUA down into an exact science. Overanalyzing situations, and he has no morals.
Phase 2: The Lone Period
After APPROXIMATELY 6 months-1 year.
Current PUA Value: Women are easily manipulated. Science is the solution to fixing one's life problems.
Due to his phase of being a social robot asshole, he loses many of his old friends. He makes some new targets, along with a lot of guys. He starts familiarizing himself with the world of PUA. He knows all the terms, he knows the science. Yet, he still has a feeling of loneliness inside him. He has yet to find out the true value of PUA.
Phase 3: The Exaggerator, The Addict
After about APPROXIMATELY a year - 2 years
Current PUA Value: Love is important. All problems can be solved via science and focus.
At this point, one finally realizes that being an asshole isn't exactly the coolest thing. He still relies on the methods. Probably has gotten a lot of nice closes by now. Slowly he matures. Things are going well for the most part, but whenever the slightest problem arises, he freaks out and goes back to PUA science to rationalize it.
Phase 4: The Natural Success Period
After APPROXIMATELY 1.5 years- 3 years.
Current PUA Value: The point of life is to be happy. Almost nothing is a big deal.
By now, one is a "master" of PUA. He's been through it all and he knows what to do and everything. He doesn't focus on canned routines anymore. He is almost not a PUA anymore. He doesnt care about PUA's concepts and sciences. He just wants to have fun living a normal life. He is done copying what others do and he has his own life stories to tell. He has a great social life, and nothing seems that big of a problem anymore. He has grown up to be a true man.
Stick with this, try to find out where you are now and what it takes to move on to the next phase.
Notice how I added "approximately" to all the timeframes. For some, the phases may take several years to achieve as where others may get it within a few months.
<33 Grape
Phase 1: The Blind Ego, The False Determination
Phase 2: The Lone Period
Phase 3: The Exaggerator, The Addict
Phase 4: The Natural Success Period
Phase 1: The Blind Ego, The False Determination
At this point, one is APPROXIMATELY into 1-6 months of PUA training.
Current PUA Value: Only the strongest survive. Women can be easily manipulated via the sciences of attraction.
He is a social robot, addicted to canned routines, methods, and concepts. The stuff he's doing is working, but his inner game is still weak for he does not understand the true value of PUA.
He is breaking PUA down into an exact science. Overanalyzing situations, and he has no morals.
Phase 2: The Lone Period
After APPROXIMATELY 6 months-1 year.
Current PUA Value: Women are easily manipulated. Science is the solution to fixing one's life problems.
Due to his phase of being a social robot asshole, he loses many of his old friends. He makes some new targets, along with a lot of guys. He starts familiarizing himself with the world of PUA. He knows all the terms, he knows the science. Yet, he still has a feeling of loneliness inside him. He has yet to find out the true value of PUA.
Phase 3: The Exaggerator, The Addict
After about APPROXIMATELY a year - 2 years
Current PUA Value: Love is important. All problems can be solved via science and focus.
At this point, one finally realizes that being an asshole isn't exactly the coolest thing. He still relies on the methods. Probably has gotten a lot of nice closes by now. Slowly he matures. Things are going well for the most part, but whenever the slightest problem arises, he freaks out and goes back to PUA science to rationalize it.
Phase 4: The Natural Success Period
After APPROXIMATELY 1.5 years- 3 years.
Current PUA Value: The point of life is to be happy. Almost nothing is a big deal.
By now, one is a "master" of PUA. He's been through it all and he knows what to do and everything. He doesn't focus on canned routines anymore. He is almost not a PUA anymore. He doesnt care about PUA's concepts and sciences. He just wants to have fun living a normal life. He is done copying what others do and he has his own life stories to tell. He has a great social life, and nothing seems that big of a problem anymore. He has grown up to be a true man.
Stick with this, try to find out where you are now and what it takes to move on to the next phase.
Notice how I added "approximately" to all the timeframes. For some, the phases may take several years to achieve as where others may get it within a few months.
<33 Grape
i never went through phase 1 (I like saying whatever I want, making spins on old concepts and I always thought that a PUA should be looking for the 'one', even though I don't think I'm ready for the 'one' just yet) I think I'm at phase 3, since still I freak out if a little thing is off like if I let something slip through my body language or vocal tone or a girl says something I don't know how to respond to. But generally if my body language and tonality is fine I don't care what I say, I'm just looking to have a good time.
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