sparkogre
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Post by sparkogre on Sept 2, 2009 21:09:46 GMT -5
Today, our class got into groups, girl was being disinterested. Fine. But check out my thought process.
Girl is either:
A) Intimidated (like I'm the hot girl and she's the nervous guy).
B) In Intellectual mode
C) Shit-testing
It just occurred to me that she may actually have been disinterested in me. When I realized that I hadn't actually considered that alternative, I was just like...wow....I am officially an optimist.
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sparkogre
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Post by sparkogre on Sept 3, 2009 16:06:46 GMT -5
That's cool, sparkogre.
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Alek
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Post by Alek on Sept 3, 2009 17:10:12 GMT -5
so then make her interested. in school tho lots of times girls willl be cold
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risen
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Post by risen on Sept 3, 2009 18:25:37 GMT -5
A lot of times when a girl is cold I just sort of insert myself in her life. Don't be rude or a jerk just make it a habit to exchange a few words. Last year I tried this with a girl who was so introverted that she finally opened up on the last semester of school. A little slow paced, but hey I got to know her finally.
Like I said don't be a jerk or anything don't care just keep talking. Eventually you'll find common ground and that's when she starts participating.
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sparkogre
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Post by sparkogre on Sept 4, 2009 15:48:07 GMT -5
You guys missed the point. I'm just amazed at how.... overwhelmingly positive my mindset is now.
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