Post by hotdemon on Aug 20, 2009 6:18:49 GMT -5
When you're starting to learn how to approach women, how to meet them and talk to them without those awkward silences..so in the very beginning of things..
You’ve been alone for quite some time (otherwise you wouldn't want to learn how to meet women - duhh)…you’re thinking good women are scarce, they’re hard to find…and even harder to KEEP. We fear for failure even before we go outside, we fear for rejection when we DO go outside and…most of all? We FEAR that we’ll STAY alone. Say you’re again out of food when you need a breakfast, you’re DYING to get some energy, and you RUN to the store for many, many minutes. Your forehead all sweaty, your heart seems to be pumping in your THROAT, you’re full of tension, of FEAR…will they still have cereal available for me? Well…if you KNOW the store would have an INFINITE amount of cereal in storage available for you, would you ever fear again about being out of cereal?
The world has 6 billion people on it, half of which are female. If only 10% of those were around your age, 10% of THOSE were cute, and only 10% of yet again THOSE were date material? You could take your pick from 3 MILLION women to date and you could meet them ALL AROUND THE WORLD! The average life expectancy for a human in our western world is 80 years. If you would date a woman EVERY DAY…for the rest of your LIFE? You would have around 2.9 million women still LEFT to date when you’re dead! Even if you would date one PER HOUR you would have over 2 million beautiful women left to date on the day you die!
Do you still think there aren’t enough beautiful women out there now? No? I thought so..so STOP your scarcity mindset..and begin living with an abundance frame of mind..
And go out there and REACH that 3 million right now, meet and date them ALL!
But what if you still FEAR that you will be rejected, and that you will FAIL and make a complete fool out of yourself because that beautiful woman is just looking at you with that "what-ever" look right after you said what you had to say?
Then it's time to learn how to manage expectations..a critical lesson if you want to master meeting women.. (Part 2 coming up)
You’ve been alone for quite some time (otherwise you wouldn't want to learn how to meet women - duhh)…you’re thinking good women are scarce, they’re hard to find…and even harder to KEEP. We fear for failure even before we go outside, we fear for rejection when we DO go outside and…most of all? We FEAR that we’ll STAY alone. Say you’re again out of food when you need a breakfast, you’re DYING to get some energy, and you RUN to the store for many, many minutes. Your forehead all sweaty, your heart seems to be pumping in your THROAT, you’re full of tension, of FEAR…will they still have cereal available for me? Well…if you KNOW the store would have an INFINITE amount of cereal in storage available for you, would you ever fear again about being out of cereal?
The world has 6 billion people on it, half of which are female. If only 10% of those were around your age, 10% of THOSE were cute, and only 10% of yet again THOSE were date material? You could take your pick from 3 MILLION women to date and you could meet them ALL AROUND THE WORLD! The average life expectancy for a human in our western world is 80 years. If you would date a woman EVERY DAY…for the rest of your LIFE? You would have around 2.9 million women still LEFT to date when you’re dead! Even if you would date one PER HOUR you would have over 2 million beautiful women left to date on the day you die!
Do you still think there aren’t enough beautiful women out there now? No? I thought so..so STOP your scarcity mindset..and begin living with an abundance frame of mind..
And go out there and REACH that 3 million right now, meet and date them ALL!
But what if you still FEAR that you will be rejected, and that you will FAIL and make a complete fool out of yourself because that beautiful woman is just looking at you with that "what-ever" look right after you said what you had to say?
Then it's time to learn how to manage expectations..a critical lesson if you want to master meeting women.. (Part 2 coming up)
