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Post by wespeezy on Sept 11, 2009 22:26:46 GMT -5
This would not be my first relationship.
Problem is my timing has sucked major balls on asking the girl out.
Ive either asked to early and she said no
Or ive waited to long the she moved on
Ive been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks. SHE texts me every day. Met her mom. felt her up last week at her house.
No kiss yet, idk why but im kinda pissed about it.
Im just trying to make sure i dont fuck this one up, shes a 9 and i would fuck her everyday if i had the time.
Another slight problem is that, she knows that i wanna fuck her, so she might be holding back like a biiiitch.
Questions:
How long should i wait\ have i waited enough to ask her out?
How do i build more sexual tension when were cuddling/spooning?
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friedice
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Post by friedice on Sept 13, 2009 20:04:48 GMT -5
dont ask her out dumby jus hang out with her alot while escalating the attraction in a way that implys that you two are a couple. this technique i do believe is called simply Boyfriending she fall for you just give it time. and about kissin her what i do well i jus grab her close then tilt her head up by grabin her chin and then jus go in sounds simple.
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Post by Andrew on Sept 29, 2009 1:23:55 GMT -5
While that technique of boyfriending DOES work on a girls subconscience and is setting the frame that you want anyway, in reality most girls need to think inside the lines and boundaries of a legit title, like dating. So if you get to the point where youve already boyfriended her, just go ahead and do it. Itll take like five seconds andmake everything easier.
My Prom date last year was my girlfriend. I completely assumed that we would be going to prom together, but she was very confused as to why I didn't ask her yet. So i just asked her. It just shows how girls like to feel comforted with the knowledge that you actually ARE going out.
My advice is to boyfriend her like friedice said, but make sure to ask her out eventually.
Oh and I totally agree on the kissing thing. You cant overthink it. And dont worry wes, I havent forgotten about my promise about helping with the tension <3
-Andrew
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Post by wespeezy on Oct 1, 2009 23:51:20 GMT -5
soo, about that relationship, didnt work out....
shes had her phone taken away for the past 3 weeks. and she like ignored me in the hall. I tried to get ahold of her through her friends cell but was being stubborn and making up some b.s. excuse why she couldnt leave class.
so she thought i was mad and started ignoring me even more, i texted her friend today, she then told me "she was running from me and the bull shit had to stop". Then i told her why i wanted to talk was to make sure we were done talking and so i didnt look like a prick if she saw me with anything guy. So she played it off as she was grounded without her phone, couldnt talk to me, "I" thought she was ignoring me and i got mad.
So maybe im kind of regretting telling her were done talking because there was def "chemistry" but she was ignoring me and we had no form of communication and i had just got her friends number(she gave it to me, even tho she had and BF and brought up the sexual innuendo first....)and talking to another girl.
Fuck i think i chased her because i was worried about the lack of communication. WHY DID I BECOME CLINGY!? oh wait, because i was so used to everyday communication, texting, picking her up going to lunch.
So after all that, does the lack of communication seem like a legitimate excuse?
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