The Breakdown

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I'm going to get started right off the bat at explaining what the purpose of this thread is, it might be a hard idea to comprehend for some, but open your mind and really ask yourself some of the same questions that I have asked myself.

If your really able to pick yourself apart then the real effectiveness of this thread will reveal itself and we'll all come out of this with some improvements to how we ALL communicate with women.

We will be breaking down any sticking points in our game or in our attitude's in general too understand why their hindering us and how to effectively stop them from coming back.

This thread will be covering a wide array of topics from tools on how to stop our problems to what the most common sticking points are and tactics to save yourself from screwing up even more in an interaction.

The main idea that I want to leave you guys with is that this is an INTRODUCTORY post and this is going to be a PROGRESSIVE thread, which means that I will be consistently updating it with more and more information.

Wish me luck gentleman ;-)

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So let's begin,
Everyone screws up, there isn't one PUA in the world who hasn't fucked it up with the "one" girl he really liked. There's absolutely nothing wrong with screwing up but the problem arises when you screw up, don't know what you did wrong, and forget about it and THEN screw up with the next ten girls you meet as well.

In case you haven't caught along yet when you mess up with a girl YOU HAVE TO FIND OUT WHAT YOU DID WRONG.

If you don't know what your doing wrong then what's going to stop you from doing it over and over again.

This brings us into a sacred NLP tactic that I hold very closely in my everyday life that's called the competence scale.
Basically what the jist of the concept is that there are FOUR levels of actions.

1. Unconscious Incompetence : When you don't know that your doing something wrong and are unconcious of the fact that you are doing so.

2. Concious Incompetence: You know that you are doing whatever it is wrong but don't know how to control it.

3. Concious Competence: You've begun to take control of the problem and you know your doing it correctly.

4. Unconscious Competence: You have trained your mind to stop doing whatever the problem was and now you don't do it without even realizing it.

[glow=red,2,300]WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM USE THESE TOOLS TO HELP YOURSELF FIX IT AND CHART YOUR PROGRESSION.[/glow]

One of the biggest problems of guys not succeeding in PUA is not that they don't have the tools to succeed but that they do not have the tools to figure out why their not succeeding.

After every interaction that didn't really go the way you wanted it to, just sit yourself down for at least a minute or two, calm yourself down, take nothing personally, reflect on what happened and find out what the problem was.

Once you've identified the problem, plug it into the competence scale and chart your progression.

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