Post by darkpwns on Oct 3, 2009 15:57:54 GMT -5
Ok, so in the 9 months I've been in this community I've learned tons and one thing that really stands out to me is that Pick-Up turns the simple action of interaction into a complex machine. One of those machine with bowling balls and pulleys that only serve the purpose of pouring a cup of joe.
All of this "Ok, so I have opened now I need to DHV myself to SELL myself to her and make her LIKE me" is a huge contradiction to the act of prizing. When you prize, she sells herself to you to try to make you like HER, you are the buyer she is the seller but in a standard approach we lose this dynamic and we only THINK we are the buyer but instead we are the seller.
When we were kids we had the formula right. When we were kids we ran around making fun of the girls as they mindlessly chased us but we wanted nothing to do with them, we just wanted to have fun. If a girl was boring we simply NEXT'd her and didn't hang out with her anymore. Now we would put up with her lameness because she is "hot".
When we were kids girls constantly developed crushes on us because we were exciting, hell, they even tried to kiss us...which we denied them. After all, girls have cooties. They chased us more. When we finally got our cootie shot (which was just the flu shot...stupid doctors) we still avoided the kiss just in case they had stronger cooties but after a while of them selling themselves to us we finally gave them approval and allowed them to steal a peck. We understood the basics of sexual tension.
Flash forward to middle school, we started getting pubes, pimples,the works. A flood of hormones made us realize cooties were just in our imagination and all of a sudden a whole new world was opened up to us...and we cowered in a metaphorical corner, scared. This is where "naturals" emerged from the "AFCs", the naturals maintained their childhood adventurer attitude and ran headfirst into the new sexual terrain while we, the AFCs hid behind our mothers who told us how great we were amazing and "nice" and that we should be "romantic" and "treat women with respect" all of the things we had NOT been doing before. Now, we were a perfect pet. A bird stripped of its wings, forever to stare out into the sky and wonder how amazing it would be to fly.
Later on we discovered pick-up, and it turned all our past instincts into a structure, but underneath the structure is still you. You who is a complex machine and no longer a ball of energy, you who will bore women. You, who are not exciting. You, who will always fail with women. This is the reality, we have only taken a drug to temporarily fix our disorder, the only way to truly succeed with women is to embrace your "immaturity". Be a kid. Truly be the buyer. Give them only you, not your bloated achievements. Have fun, as they sell to you give them even more of you. This is what breeds success, not your bullshit science. Not your cold reads, not your masterful implementation of perfectly timed kino.
If all you think about is how to make the girl attracted to you, then you sir HSPUA are synonymous to the "AFC" who rambles on about DNA.
All of this "Ok, so I have opened now I need to DHV myself to SELL myself to her and make her LIKE me" is a huge contradiction to the act of prizing. When you prize, she sells herself to you to try to make you like HER, you are the buyer she is the seller but in a standard approach we lose this dynamic and we only THINK we are the buyer but instead we are the seller.
When we were kids we had the formula right. When we were kids we ran around making fun of the girls as they mindlessly chased us but we wanted nothing to do with them, we just wanted to have fun. If a girl was boring we simply NEXT'd her and didn't hang out with her anymore. Now we would put up with her lameness because she is "hot".
When we were kids girls constantly developed crushes on us because we were exciting, hell, they even tried to kiss us...which we denied them. After all, girls have cooties. They chased us more. When we finally got our cootie shot (which was just the flu shot...stupid doctors) we still avoided the kiss just in case they had stronger cooties but after a while of them selling themselves to us we finally gave them approval and allowed them to steal a peck. We understood the basics of sexual tension.
Flash forward to middle school, we started getting pubes, pimples,the works. A flood of hormones made us realize cooties were just in our imagination and all of a sudden a whole new world was opened up to us...and we cowered in a metaphorical corner, scared. This is where "naturals" emerged from the "AFCs", the naturals maintained their childhood adventurer attitude and ran headfirst into the new sexual terrain while we, the AFCs hid behind our mothers who told us how great we were amazing and "nice" and that we should be "romantic" and "treat women with respect" all of the things we had NOT been doing before. Now, we were a perfect pet. A bird stripped of its wings, forever to stare out into the sky and wonder how amazing it would be to fly.
Later on we discovered pick-up, and it turned all our past instincts into a structure, but underneath the structure is still you. You who is a complex machine and no longer a ball of energy, you who will bore women. You, who are not exciting. You, who will always fail with women. This is the reality, we have only taken a drug to temporarily fix our disorder, the only way to truly succeed with women is to embrace your "immaturity". Be a kid. Truly be the buyer. Give them only you, not your bloated achievements. Have fun, as they sell to you give them even more of you. This is what breeds success, not your bullshit science. Not your cold reads, not your masterful implementation of perfectly timed kino.
If all you think about is how to make the girl attracted to you, then you sir HSPUA are synonymous to the "AFC" who rambles on about DNA.
