extra
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Post by extra on Oct 4, 2009 15:24:36 GMT -5
Yo
So I've got a great girl and everything's good. However, i can see my game with girls other than my girlfriend going down quite a bit from where it was when i'm single. Now I want to work on it, but i don't want to seem like i'm flirting or whatever too much. Any tips for keeping your general game up while in a relationship?
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Post by cork on Oct 4, 2009 16:16:02 GMT -5
Yeah. Seduce your girlfriend. xD But seriously, just keep practicing. If it's hard not to seem like you're flirting, keep your arm around your girlfriend while you talk to the target. Then the message stays clear that she has nothing to worry about. And don't show restraint. If you act like it's totally normal for you to talk to other girls, your girlfriend will feel far more comfortable.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 4, 2009 17:42:27 GMT -5
cork was actually right about seducing your girlfriend xD
ALWAYS game her. You'll keep the spark and its great practice.
Personally, my ex knew i was a flirt, and i knew she was a flirt, so neither of us really minded each other flirting. It even became good sport and competition with each other xD (she was a great girl and were still good friends)
I would tell her that your a bad flirt and you know it and you dont really know when your flirting. Tell her that theres never anytthing behind it, and either she'l understand but be wary, or want you to tone it down, which is cool. Either you can tone it down, or just do it more subtely xD
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Post by cork on Oct 4, 2009 21:20:29 GMT -5
Thanks, Andrew:) I'd definitely give you a +1, but I just said almost exactly what you did. Doesn't really matter. I've upped your karma before.
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Post by SamethP on Oct 5, 2009 3:20:24 GMT -5
yea man, keep it up, even if its subtle... i went on a 9 month PUA break because of my gf and something didnt feel right im still with my gf, but now im back subtly gaming when i can, and boy am i fucking rusty haha so keep it up and just be subtle  |
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Post by extra on Oct 6, 2009 18:00:36 GMT -5
My problemo is that i seem to be a gigantic flirt usualmente without trying, it's just how i interact with girls. But I don't want to irritate my girlfriend by doing more than normal (eg gaming a girl).
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Post by extra on Oct 6, 2009 18:00:54 GMT -5
And thanks for the advice guys, i appreciate it.
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Post by SamethP on Oct 12, 2009 18:48:46 GMT -5
yea man i know what you mean about being the natural flirt when discussing... my gf broke down and started crying yesterday because all thses girls were talking to me around school and on facebook and shit lol
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Post by bash on Feb 13, 2010 1:12:12 GMT -5
I got that problem too. My GF and I broke up a few days ago and now my Game is frigging WEAK! I was with her for 5 months so it's been a while since I brushed up on my PUA skills. I'm not too worried though my ex was pretty hot so I have preselection on my side.
I still don't know if I should just be single for awhile or not
Any suggestions?
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