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Post by cork on Oct 5, 2009 9:06:31 GMT -5
If I didn't care so much about this girl, it would be SO MUCH easier to pick her up. As it is, since 7th grade I've embarrassed myself with flimsy attempts to win her over. And she's not drop-dead gorgeous. That's the worst part. I could get virtually any girl in my school with barely any effort, and I'm running in circles around another face in the crowd. And I can't do it. Every time I talk to her, I trip up and make myself look bad. Where I'm normally calm, cool and collected, I find myself burning with a NEED to have this girl. And all I can bring myself to imagine doing to her is hold her hand. Someone shoot me.
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lolwut
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Post by lolwut on Oct 6, 2009 16:07:33 GMT -5
you posted twice btw. but im in the same situation as you. I don't really know why i like this one girl so much but i do, and she is in a relationship so that only makes it harder.
my suggestion is to go after other girls. You say you can get any girl at your school so do it lol!
It's hard man, and i feel like i sound lame for saying it but i don't think it'll be the same unless you actually get her. If that doesn't seem like an option, just move on. I know shes not the only one you'll find that will make you have the same feelings.
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Post by cork on Oct 6, 2009 20:36:38 GMT -5
You understand me, bro. But the worst part is I don't WANT anyone else. It's bad. I've never been so depressed. Good news is she's single. The feeling is that she's too good for me to bullshit her like that. And that's what pickup is, no matter how much I like it. It's like she deserves to be treated genuinely, you know? I can't see how coldreaders LIVE with themselves. This is BAD.
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Post by cork on Oct 6, 2009 20:37:15 GMT -5
+1 btw
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Post by extra on Oct 7, 2009 22:45:38 GMT -5
This is why you go natural (or almost-natural, eg can make a line or two up yourself if you want or stick to a game plan but come up with the words as you go) If you want her that bad, my only advice would be to go for it. You'll regret it otherwise. If it helps any, you're probably not gonna want her as bad after you get with her  If you don't think you can get the girl right now, even with your apparently good game, get your next best girl and think on it. |
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Mr. Scientist
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Post by Mr. Scientist on Oct 8, 2009 10:23:15 GMT -5
Well, we got into the game all because of ' THAT ' girl. So, hone your skills on other chicks 1st before getting her... even if she's attached already, you have the skills to AMOG or whatever to get her
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Post by cork on Oct 8, 2009 16:03:30 GMT -5
Well, yes. I really just got into the game so that I could understand how "Getting some" worked. My life before that point, good and bad, was luck. And I'm improving with this situation on two levels: I'm more confident about where I stand, and I'm not as exclusive to "this one girl".
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lolwut
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Post by lolwut on Oct 8, 2009 22:43:53 GMT -5
i agree go for it. i mean it would be so much better to try and fail than to never try and keep wondering if it would ever work out.
and like theres always a chance it works out. be your witty self and just be playful and have fun with it, no matter how serious you feel about her.
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blaze
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Post by blaze on Nov 29, 2009 19:22:18 GMT -5
well Attraction is not a choice... so you're attracted for some reason towards that girl... and try not to mess up. keep cool that's the only advice that i've got  and remember ALLWAYS move on and DON'T take REJECTION personally !  yeah |
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Post by blaze on Nov 29, 2009 19:23:59 GMT -5
oh yeah there is a quote for this situation....
It's better to shoot for the stars and land in the mud, than aim for the mud and land on it...
Moral is : keep on trying and remember sucsess is a terrible teacher
we only learn from our mistakes.
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Post by Caesar on Dec 1, 2009 19:46:56 GMT -5
Duuuude, you have a serious case of one-itis man....It doesnt matter if you "want" this girl, go out and get jiggy with 10 other girls and then see if she's actually that special...
Hang tough bro
Ceasar
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Post by phoenix on Dec 3, 2009 6:12:59 GMT -5
Bad cop: Get your head out of your ass. You probably think you're so different to all the other guys, you make yourself out to be some romanticized lovestruck angel deserving of the sympathy which would even be denied to the terminally ill. I don't buy it. Good cop: And if what Caesar <above> said doesn't work, try a little opener that is pre-scripted so you don't trip up, then continue trying to establish rapport, and light kino, and show your "nice relationship side". (Don't be a wussy pushover though) I can see that you're hurting real bad, so you need to end the pain so you don't end up wondering what could have been. Good luck, Phoenix ::- |
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Post by nikkisixx on Dec 12, 2009 17:55:49 GMT -5
You like her because you can't get her... I'm the same. I think everybody is. If you do get her, you won't like her. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about, through lots of painful experience. I bet her little signs of disinterest ruin your days, and you can't stop thinking about it through your classes. If you have to go for her make sure you give her a long freeze out. At least a week. Maybe a month. Then you can start fresh.
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